Ukuziqinisekisa kuyisihloko esinempikiswano: abanye abantu bafunga ngabo, kanti abanye bakungabaza kakhulu ukusebenza kwabo.
Isayensi, nayo, ayivumelani nezifundo ezithile ezithola izinzuzo zangempela, kanti ezinye azibonisi imiphumela emibi, noma emibi.
Lapha e-A Conscious Rethink, sikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi ukuqinisekiswa ngempela kungaba nomthelela omkhulu ezingqondweni zethu, emizimbeni, nasekuphumeleleni empilweni (noma ngabe ufisa ukukulinganisa).
Ukuqinisekiswa kungasetshenziswa futhi ukulwa nengcindezi nokukhathazeka, kusiza ukukhulula izimpawu zomzimba nezengqondo esikhathini esifushane.
Nazi eziyisithupha ezenzelwe ukwenza lokho nje.
Ngiphephile, ngivikelekile, futhi angikho ngaphansi kosongo oluvela emhlabeni ongizungezile.
Lesi sitatimende esilula kakhulu sinomphumela wokuthula ngoba siyayiqeda inkoleloze esizitshela yona lapho sicindezelekile.
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Siyaqiniseka ukuthi sisengozini - kungaba ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, noma ngokomzwelo - futhi lokhu kubangela ukuphendula kwengcindezi yokuziphendukela kwemvelo.
Ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi uphephile kusiza ukunqoba le nqubo.
Asikho isithiyo engingakwazi ukusinqoba lapho ngifaka ingqondo yami kuso.
Lapha sinenye ibinzana eliyisisekelo, kepha elisebenza kakhulu elisikhumbuza ukuthi sinekhono elingakanani lapho impilo idinga ukuba sibe khona.
Kuyasiqinisekisa ukuthi singabaleki nenkinga, kepha ukubhekana nayo futhi sibhekane nayo ngenkolelo engenamkhawulo yokuthi singathola indlela yokuthola noma yini.
Ukuzisho lokhu kithi kungavimbela lowo muzwa okhungathekisayo ovame ukufika lapho sinikezwa isivivinyo esikhulu.
Lesi simo asisihle noma sibi, simane nje.
Ukuzama ukuqamba noma isiphi isenzakalo esithile ngokuthi sihle noma kubi akusizi ngalutho ngoba, empeleni, akusikho kulezi zinto.
Zonke izimo zinezifundo okufanele zifundiswe futhi ngenxa yokuthi okuthile kubukeka kukubi ebusweni, asikho isizathu sokuthi kungaze kube ngelinye ilanga kube yisiqubulo somphumela omuhle ngokwengeziwe.
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Yize singeke sikubikezele lokhu - impela kungaba nzima ukucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kanjalo - ukubona ukuthi okuhle kungavela kokubi kufanele kwehlise ukukhathazeka kwakho futhi kwehlise nengcindezi yakho.
Ukufunda okubaluleke kakhulu ekukhathazekeni (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Ukukhathazeka Okusezingeni Eliphakeme Kungaphezu Kokucabanga Kwakho
- Izinto eziyi-8 Ozenzayo Ngenxa Yokukhathazeka Kwakho (Abanye Abangaboni Kuzo)
- Okwabantu Abanezingqondo Ezikhathazayo: Umlayezo Wethemba
- Ukukhathazeka AKUKHO Noma iyiphi yalezi zinto eziyi-10
Ngikhetha ukusabela kahle kulesi simo engibhekene naso.
Lapho sihlangabezana nengcindezi ezimpilweni zethu, sinenkululeko yokukhetha ukuthi sizoyiphendula kanjani.
Ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi a isimo sengqondo esihle yinto esinamandla okuphatha ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi senze umzamo oqondile wokubhekana nalesi simo ngendlela enqunyiwe.
Uma, esikhundleni salokho, sikhethe ukusabela kabi, sizolwela ukuthola isixazululo kunoma yiziphi izinkinga esibhekana nazo futhi ukucindezeleka kungasibamba.
Akukho lutho esikhathini sami esidlule okungangivimba ekutheni ngiphumelele esikhathini samanje nasesikhathini esizayo.
Ingcindezi nokukhathazeka kuvamise ukuba nezimpendulo ezimeni esimweni esithile eziqhutshwa yizinto esedlule kuzo.
Uma sikuvumela, okwedlule kuzohlala kusilawula, kepha uma sibona ukuthi ikhona enye indlela ekhona, singagqashula emaketangeni okukhuliswa kwethu futhi sikhiphe ukuntwela kokusa okusha.
Le mindset ithuthukisa ubuhlakani nenkolelo, njengoba sibheka ngaphesheya kwalokho okwedlule ngaphambi kwamathuba angenamkhawulo aziveza nsuku zonke.
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Njengoba nginciphisa ukuphefumula kwami futhi ngiphumuza umzimba wami, ukucindezeleka kuphuma engqondweni yami.
Imizimba yethu nezingqondo zethu kuxhunyaniswe ngokuxakile esingakucabanga, ngakho-ke ngokwakha umzimba ongenazinkinga, singakhipha noma yikuphi ukucindezeleka okungahlala ezingqondweni zethu.
Ukuphefumula okujulile, okuhamba kancane nokuphumula kwemisipha yethu kusebenza kakhulu ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka okugcwele emizimbeni yethu, futhi ingqondo ekhululekile kakhulu kufanele ilandele ngethemba.
