Cishe wonke umuntu emhlabeni uzizwa elahlekile futhi engenasiqondiso ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakhe.
Bangase baphaphame ekuboneni ukuthi bagcina nje isimo esikhona kunalokho empeleni uyaphila.
Abantu abaningi bavele badlule ezinyakazweni abazijwayele, bahlolwe ngokomzwelo ngakho akudingeki babhekane neqiniso lokuthi bayadabukisa ezimweni zabo zamanje.
Abanye bazi kahle kamhlophe ukuthi badinga / bafuna ukwenza okuhlukile, kepha abazi ukuthi yini. Kunezindlela eziningi ongakhetha kuzo laphaya, ziningi izindlela ongazithatha, ezigcina zizizwa zikhungathekile futhi zingenasiqondiso.
Uma uhlangabezana nento enjengale, lokho kulungile impela. Silapha ukuzosiza.
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Engingathanda ukuba ukwenze njengamanje ukuthatha ukuphefumula kwesisu okujulile okumbalwa. Bese uzenzela inkomishi yesiphuzo sakho osithandayo, uthathe incwajana yokubhala nepeni, bese ugoqa endaweni ethokomele.
Sesizoqhubeka nohambo lwezinyathelo eziyi-8 ezizokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuqondiswa empilweni yakho.
1. Zibuze imibuzo ebalulekile.
Bhala lokhu phezulu ephepheni elisha:
Yini engingayenza ngempilo yami uma imali, isikhathi, nezinsizakusebenza kungeyona into?
- Yini ongayenzela umsebenzi / indlela yomsebenzi?
- Ungahlala kuphi?
- Yini obungayenza ngesikhathi sakho?
- Ungagqoka kanjani?
- Ungabukeka uhlukile kunendlela obukeka ngayo manje?
- Lungaba kanjani usuku oluphelele kuwe?
- Ungaba nomlingani onjani?
- Yikuphi ukuzilibazisa / ukwenza izinto ongakujabulela?
Yiba ngokweqile Kunemininingwane ngazo zonke lezi zimpendulo, futhi uthathe isikhathi esiningi nazo ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Uma usukwenzile lokho, pheqa kwelinye ishidi elisha kwijenali yakho bese ubhala phansi zonke izinto empilweni yakho njengamanje ezikwenza uzizwe ujabule futhi wanelisekile.
Ngemuva kokuthi ukubhalile, phenya kwelinye iphepha. Lapha, uzobhala phansi zonke izinto empilweni yakho njengamanje ezikwenza ukhungatheke, ungajabuli futhi ube nenzondo. Imininingwane mayelana nazo zonke lezi zinto zohlu futhi. Bhala phansi ukuthi ngayinye yazo ikwenza uzizwe kanjani, manje manje nalapho uhlangabezana nayo.
Inhloso yalolu hlu ukuthola ukuthi yikuphi izici zempilo ungathanda ukushintsha, ongathanda ukukugcina, futhi okungahle kungalingani nempilo yakho efanele kuye ngokuthi uhambo lwakho luqhubeka kanjani.
Umqondo ukuthi ukuthola ukuqondiswa empilweni yakho empeleni kusho ukuqonda ukuthi ungangena kanjani kusuka empilweni yakho namuhla uye empilweni yakho oyithandayo yesikhathi esizayo. Imayelana nokwazi ukuthi yini okudingeka iguquke bese ubheka ukuthi ungazenza kanjani lezo zinguquko.
2. Thembeka kuwe uqobo.
Lapho usuthole izinguquko ofuna ukuzenza, thembeka ekutheni ngabe ukulungele yini ukwenza lezo zinguquko.
Ungaba sesimweni lapho ukhubazeke khona ngokukhathazeka nokudangala ngoba uzizwa ubhajwe emsebenzini owuzondayo, usebenza amahora angama-80 ngesonto ukondla umndeni owucasulayo kanye nowakwakho ongafuni ukuba naye iminyaka.
Noma ngabe uyibhalile ephepheni, noma uyazi nje ekujuleni kwenhliziyo, awusafuni ukuba kulesi simo.
Kepha uzimisele ukwenza okudingeka kwenziwe ukuzisusa kulolu sizi?
Ingabe ukulungele ukulimaza nokudumaza abanye abantu ukuze uphile impilo eyiqiniso ngezidingo zakho, okufunayo, namaphupho akho?
Lalela, siyazi ukuthi impilo ayihlali ilula njengoba i-athikili ye-inthanethi ikwenza kube lula. Uma ungakakulungeli ukwenza izinguquko ezinkulu njengamanje, ungahle uzame ukuthola ukuqondiswa maqondana nokuphishekela injabulo ethile. Usengenza ushintsho oluncane ukusondelana nempilo yakho ekahle, noma ngabe ihlala ingafinyeleleki okwamanje.
Ungahle ulungele ukwenza izinguquko ezinkulu ngokuzayo noma esikhathini esizayo esikude. Ngokusobala kungancamela ukubenza basheshe, kodwa mhlawumbe ukwenza ushintsho oluncane manje kuzoba yisikhuthazo esikushukumisela ukuba wenze lezo zinguquko ezinkulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Futhi uma ungeke ukwazi ukwenza ushintsho olukhulu manje, kuwumqondo omuhle ukusebenza ekukhombeni izesekeli ezahlukahlukene futhi izindlela zokubhekana uzodinga ukubekezelela isimo sakho samanje uze ukwazi.
Ngenye indlela, uma usufinyelele eqophelweni lapho usukulungele ukuthola isiqondiso esigcwele, esikhululayo esingenazo izingqinamba zesimo esikhona, uzodinga ukudala uhlelo.
3. Yakha uhlelo lokuthi uzolwenza kanjani.
Ungahle ube nama-crossovers kulezo zinhlu ozibhale ngaphambilini. Isibonelo, uma iphupho lakho losuku oluphelele lungahlanganisa eminye imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke yamanje, noma isikhathi osichitha nomlingani wakho wamanje, lapho-ke lezo ezinye zezinto zokwakha impilo entsha oyihlosile.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma kungekho lutho ohlwini lwakho lwezinto ozithandayo ozohamba nazo empilweni yakho yamaphupho, kahle… lelo isileti ozodinga ukusisula.
Nquma uhlu lwezinto eziseqhulwini ngokuqondene nezinto ozidingayo / ofuna ukuzishintsha. Faka kuhlu lokhu ngokulandelana kokubaluleka, usuke kokucasulayo nokukulimaza kakhulu njengamanje, uye kulokho ongakubekezelela isikhashana.
Isibonelo, uma ubudlelwano / umshado wakho ubucayi kepha umsebenzi wakho uyisicefe, uyazi ukuthi yini okudingeka ixazululwe ngokushesha.
Ngenye indlela, uma umsebenzi wakho ukuqhubela emcabangweni wokuzibulala kodwa ulungile ngokuhlala endaweni yangakini isikhashana, khona-ke ngumsebenzi / umsebenzi wakho okufanele ubekwe eqhulwini.
Yiziphi izinyathelo ongazithatha ngokushesha?
Uma uthanda indlela yakho yomsebenzi kepha uzonda izimo zakho zomsebenzi zamanje, buyekeza i-resume / CV yakho ngokushesha nje lapho uqeda ukufunda le ndatshana. Ngemuva kwalokho qala ukufuna umsebenzi omusha, mhlawumbe ngosizo lomqashi.
Ngenye indlela, uma ngabe usuyidelele le ndlela yokusebenza isikhathi esithile futhi ufuna ukwenza okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele, bheka ukuthi yini engabandakanyeka ukulandela lelo phupho elisha.
Impela, ungazizwa wesaba kakhulu ukuqala okuthile kabusha, ikakhulukazi uma ubusenesikhathi usebenza lapho ukhona. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukushintsha imisebenzi kungabandakanya ukulahlekelwa ukuphepha kwezezimali noma udumo. Ungaba nesikhundla esiphakeme lapho ukhona, futhi imali oyitholayo ingakuvumela ukuthi unethezeke ngezinga elithile, kodwa kusizani lokho uma ukhala ebhavini njalo ebusuku?
Izindawo zokududuza yilapho amaphupho ayofa khona.
4. Thola ukuthi yini oyithandayo.
Manje, esinye sezizathu esenza abanye abantu babe nobunzima ekutholeni ukuqondiswa empilweni ukuthi bakhohliwe (noma abakaze baqaphele ngempela) ukuthi yini abayithanda kakhulu.
Kungenzeka ukuthi bawele emisebenzini ethile ngoba babekwazi kahle ukwenza okuthile, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi bayakujabulela.
Ngakho-ke, yini othanda ukuyenza?
Ingabe unento ethile yokuzilibazisa noma into oyiphishekela yona ekulethela injabulo enkulu? Kungani uyithanda kangaka? Ngabe uzoqhubeka nokuyithanda uma uyenze ngokugcwele?
Kungenzeka yini ukuzondla (nalabo abathembele kuwe) uma ngabe ubungakwenza lokhu njengomsebenzi?
Ukuqondiswa kugeleza kusuka ekuthandeni nasekuzinikeleni. Uma wenza lokho okuthandayo, unomqondo oqinile wenhloso nokugcwaliseka.
Ngisho noma ungenzi imali eningi ngendlela obungase ube nayo ngaphambili, lokho kulungile impela. Kugcizelelwa kakhulu kule ngcebo yezezimali kulezi zinsuku ukuthi abantu bakhohlwe ukuthi ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo nangokomoya kubaluleke kakhulu.
Futhi, impilo ayilula njengale ndatshana noma yini enye ongayifunda ikwenza - siyakuthola lokho. Asisho ukuthi wonke umuntu angenza lokho akuthandayo njengomsebenzi ngoba lokho akulona iqiniso.
Kepha abanye abantu bathola ukusebenza umsebenzi ongagcwalisi kubulala umphefumulo kakhulu kunabanye. Futhi uma usuyitholile indlela yakho eya kule ndatshana, ungomunye walabo bantu.
Ngakho-ke, uma ikhona indlela ongaziphilisa ngayo ngokuthokozela okuthile okujabulelayo, kufanele ubeke yonke imizamo ongayenza ukwenza lokho kube ngokoqobo.
5. Yeka ukwenza izinto ozizondayo.
Ingabe uba nokukhathazeka nokudangala okungakanani ngoba wenza izinto ongeke ukwazi ukuzimela?
Isimo sakho sengqondo besingaba njani uma ubungagxila kulokho obungathanda ukukwenza esikhundleni salokho?
Ungahle uzizwe uvalelekile njengamanje ngoba wenza izinto ozidelelayo ukuze uzigcine (futhi mhlawumbe nomndeni wakho) uhlala futhi wondliwe. Uma kunjalo, khuluma nomlingani wakho / oshade naye / amalungu omndeni ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka mayelana nokuthi uzizwa kanjani. Akunamahloni okucela usizo ukuze uzikhulule esimweni esibuhlungu.
Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi omusha, kungadingeka usebenzise isikhathi esithile (nemali) ukufundelwa ngale ndlela entsha. Yenza ucwaningo ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izibonelelo nezinhlelo ezitholakalayo zemfundo yesibili yokufunda. Ungahle ufaneleke ukuthola usizo lwezezimali - hhayi imfundo yakho kuphela, kepha nezindleko zakho ngenkathi usaqeqeshwa kabusha.
Umbuthano wakho womphakathi (umndeni, abangane, umphakathi ongokomoya) nawe ungakusiza. Ubungasukuma futhi usize labo abaseduze kwakho ukuthi baphume esimweni ebesibalimaza, akunjalo? Yebo, kunethuba elihle kakhulu lokuthi obathandayo bangajabula ukukusiza nawe.
Ngaphandle komsebenzi, ngabe zikhona ezinye izinto empilweni yakho oqhubeka uzenza yize zikulethela okuphambene nenjabulo? Ingabe bakhona abangane ongasakujabuleli ukuchitha isikhathi nabo? Ingabe kukhona imisebenzi ongathanda ukuthi ungayenzi? Kufanele ube nalokhu ezinhlwini ozenze ngaphambili.
Ungazisusa kanjani lezi zinto empilweni yakho? Kungathathani?
6. Thola ukuthi iyiphi indlela esebenza kangcono kuwe.
Ingabe uwuhlobo lomuntu osebenza kangcono ngezinhloso nohlaka olufinyelelekayo? Noma ukhetha indlela yefomu yamahhala ngaphezulu?
Ngokufanayo, uyathanda ukusebenza kumaphrojekthi amaningi ahlukene ngasikhathi sinye? Noma uthanda ukubhekana nezinto ngasikhathi sinye?
Ayikho indlela yobukhulu obulodwa yokuthola (nokulandela) izinkomba ezintsha. Esikhundleni salokho, umuntu ngamunye udinga ukuhlunga ukuthi yini ezobagcina bekhuthazekile futhi bekhuthazekile njengoba beqhubekela phambili.
Abanye abantu bangaphumelela ngezinhloso ze-SMART, kanti abanye bazenzekela ngokwengeziwe ngezinguquko.
Uma upholile ngokuyeka umsebenzi wakho, upakisha izinto zakho, futhi udabula izwe lonke, bese uyakuthola! Ngenye indlela, uma ukhululeke ngokwengeziwe ekudaleni izigaba ezifinyelelekayo nekhalenda elibuyisela emuva emsebenzini, ngakho-ke lungiselela lokho esikhundleni salokho.
7. Hlanganisa izinguquko ezinkulu nezincane.
Ngenkathi usebenza kwezinye zezinto ezinkulu empilweni yakho, nakekela ezinye zezinto ezifinyeleleka kalula / ezifinyeleleka kalula.
Lokhu kunikeza ukuthokozisa okuseduze, okuzokukhuthaza ngenkathi uqhubekela phambili nezinguquko ezinqala.
Isibonelo, ake sithi izinto ezimbili ezisendleleni yakho yezinguquko ziya ngokuma, futhi zishintsha ukuhlobisa kwekhaya lakho. Okwedlule kuzothatha isikhathi ukuthi kwenzeke ushintsho lwangempela, kepha ukugcina i-logbook lapho ubona khona inqubekela phambili yakho kungakusiza ukuthi ubheke inqubekela phambili yakho nsuku zonke, masonto onke, nangenyanga.
Ngenkathi lokho kuthatha isikhathi ukuphishekela, ungakhetha igumbi endlini yakho ongashintsha. Ake sithi igumbi lakho lokulala liza kuqala. Bekela eceleni impelasonto ukuyipenda, hamba uzitholele okombhede abasha, mhlawumbe ezinye izitshalo. Lahla noma yini engasakulungeli, hlela kabusha ifenisha, mhlawumbe usakaze amanye amaphunga amasha lapho.
Lokho kuzodala umehluko omkhulu, futhi kuzoqinisa iqiniso lokuthi usohlelweni lokushintsha zonke ezinye izici ozibhalile futhi.
8. Yiba nesibindi.
Abantu abaningi bayazigodla ekuphishekeleni izinto abazithandayo empeleni ngoba besaba ukubeka engcupheni (futhi okungenzeka balahlekelwe) abanakho.
Bazohlala emisebenzini, ebudlelwaneni, ngisho nasemadolobheni abawadelelayo isikhathi eside kakhulu kunalokho okufanele, ngoba nje besaba ukuthi ukushintsha izimo zabo kungahle kube nobuhlungu obukhulu kunalokho asebebhekene nabo.
Lokho kusho, ukuhlala engcupheni. Akunakubakhona noma yini ukugcwaliseka noma ukuvuza uma kungekho zinga elithile lezinto ezingasebenzi ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Vele, ukuphela kwendlela yokuqinisekisa impilo yokudumala nokuzisola wukuma lapho ukhona.
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Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungasithola kanjani isiqondiso esifanele empilweni yakho? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakudlulisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
Ukuhleka ukuzibeka engcupheni yokuvela nesiwula.
Ukukhala ukuzibeka engcupheni yokubizwa ngomzwelo.
Ukufinyelela komunye ukufaka engcupheni ukubandakanyeka.
Ukudalula imizwa ukuzibeka engcupheni yokudalula ubuqiniso bakho.
Ukubeka imibono yakho, amaphupho akho phambi kwesixuku kungaba sengcupheni yokubizwa ngokungenangqondo.
Ukuthanda ukuzibeka engcupheni yokungathandwa ngokubuyiselwa.
Ukuphila ukuzibeka engcupheni yokufa.
Ukuthemba ukubeka engcupheni ukuphelelwa yithemba,
futhi ukuzama ukuzibeka engcupheni ukwehluleka.
Kepha kufanele kuthathwe izingozi, ngoba ingozi enkulu empilweni ukungazibeki engcupheni.
Umuntu ongafaki lutho engozini akenzi lutho, akanalutho futhi akabi yilutho.
Angakugwema ukuhlupheka nosizi, kepha akakwazi nje ukufunda nokuzizwa futhi aguquke futhi akhule athande aphile. Eboshwe ngamaketanga akhe, uyisigqila, ulahlekelwe inkululeko yakhe.
Umuntu ozibeka engcupheni kuphela okhululekile ngokweqiniso.
- Leo Buscaglia
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