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Ngawo wonke amagama asetshenziselwe ukuchaza ukuphola kwanamuhla, akekho ongakusola uma uzizwa udidekile kancane ngokuthi kusho ukuthini konke, wazi kanjani ukuthi kwenzeka kuwe, nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nakho.
Okuningi njengoba ungahle udidiswe yile migomo, kuyasiza impela ukubeka umunwe wakho ezinkingeni eziningi abantu abahlangabezana nazo lapho bethandana.
Bafingqa izinto eziba ubhadane emhlabeni wezithandani zanamuhla.
Kungenzeka ukuthi kwenzeke kuwe, noma ube necala lokuzenza, kodwa awukaze ube nethemu lokuzichaza.
Le ndatshana izogxila ku-breadcrumbing: iqhinga lokuphola elisetshenziswe kabi kulezi zinsuku selokhu kwafika ama-app wokuphola namawebhusayithi.
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I-breadcrumbing yilapho uhola umuntu kwezothando ngokusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana noma ukuthumela imiyalezo.
Cabanga uHansel noGretel belingeka beqhubekela phambili ekubhujisweni kwabo ngumthakathi.
Kusho ukuthi bayakucindezela, kodwa ngosizo lobuchwepheshe besimanje.
Ama-breadcrumbs yimiyalezo oyithumelayo ukuze ugcine umuntu ekuthakasela, noma ngabe empeleni awubathandi noma awunantshisekelo yothando ngabo.
Abanye abantu bangadla ngamabomu ukuze bakugcine ulenga, kepha abantu abaningi abazi ngokuphelele ngokuziphatha kwabo.
Bafaka ikhanda labo esihlabathini futhi bazikholwe ukuthi akukho okubi abakwenzayo.
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Ama-breadcrumbers imvamisa yilabo abalwela ukuba bodwa ngokweqiniso, ngakho-ke badinga ukuba nomuntu lapho 'olindile,' ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwabo ngenkathi belinde intshisekelo yothando lwangempela ukuthi ifike.
Kepha noma ngabe abantu ababa nesinkwa bayazi noma cha, kuseseyiqhinga lokuphola elinamandla ngokomzwelo…
… Futhi okungadala ukulimala okukhulu kumuntu oholelwa kuye, ngaphandle kwethemba lobudlelwano obuthatheka empeleni.
Izimpawu Zokuqhekeka Kwesinkwa
Uma ungakaqiniseki ngokuthi kuyini ukugaxwa kwesinkwa noma ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kuwe, nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokukhomba oholelwa kuzo.
eyodwa. Zishisa zishise futhi zibande.
Abakuthumeli umlayezo ngokungaguquguquki.
Ungaxhumana kakhulu izinsuku ezimbalwa, bese kuthi isonto noma ngaphezulu kudlule ngaphambi kokuthi bakuphendule futhi.
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Banobuciko obungaqondakali bokukuthumelela imiyalezo lapho nje usuqalile ukukhohlwa ngabo bese uqhubekela phambili, okusho ukuthi ubuyela emuva kusikwele esisodwa.
2. Imiyalezo yabo iyindida.
Ahlala engazibophezeli futhi awathandi ukuthola imininingwane ethile.
Basikisela ukuthi nibonane ‘maduze,’ kodwa nigweme ukwenza noma yiziphi izinhlelo ezibekiwe.
Bahlale bekwazi ukusho izinto ngendlela ekunika ithemba ngaphandle kokuzibophezela kunoma yini.
3. Akukho lutho ekuxhumaneni kwakho.
Ungaba nezingxoxo ezijulile kaninginingi, kepha imilayezo yabo imvamisa ayinabulungisa engajulile futhi ejwayelekile.
Abenzi noma yimuphi umzamo wangempela wokukwazi.
4. Baphosa imvuthuluka yesinkwa kuwe ngemigudu ehlukene.
Abayiphenduli i-Whatsapp yakho, kodwa-ke bathanda okuthunyelwe kwakho ku-Instagram, noma ubona ukuthi bayibukile indaba yakho.
Lokho kubagcina ku-radar yakho futhi kukuvimbele ukuthi uqhubekele phambili noma ukhohlwe ngabo.
5. Azikwenzi uzizwe umuhle ngawe.
Uma uthola umyalezo kubo, ungenza inhliziyo yakho igijime futhi ikunikeze lowo muzwa wenjabulo, kepha ayenzi inhliziyo yakho ikhanye.
Noma uzizwa kamnandi ngenkathi empeleni bekuthumela imiyalezo, lokho kuyaphela ngokushesha futhi esikhundleni sayo kube nokukhathazeka ngokuthi uzophinda uzwe yini kubo.
Bakuncoma kuphela ukuthola abakufunayo kuwe, kepha empeleni ungenzi lutho khulisa ukuzethemba kwakho .
6. Baphanga bayakubiza.
Bangase bangakupeli, kepha uma bekuthumela imiyalezo ebusuku kakhulu kunokwenza izinhlelo ezifanele nawe, basuke bengemuva kwento eyodwa kuphela.
Bangaze bakuthumelele nemiyalezo ukuze nje ‘bakubone ukuthi unjani’ ngaphandle kwenhloso yokuxhumana, kodwa baqiniseke ukuthi ulele ubuthongo ebusuku ucabanga ngabo.
7. Zikwenza uzizwe sengathi kuyiphutha lakho.
Yize le nkinga ingeyabo ngokuphelele, kubonakala sengathi kungaphansi kwakho.
Noma nini lapho bekuphakamisa futhi bekuphonsa futhi, awukwazi ukuthola ukuthi wenze iphutha elingakanani, kepha kungukungqangqa okukhulu ekuzethembeni kwakho.
8. Abakwazi ukuzibophezela osukwini, ingasaphathwa eyakho.
Bayakuthumela futhi bakuphakamise ngokungacabangi ukuhlangana, kepha gwema ukwenza izinhlelo.
Uma ubabuza ukuthi kwenzekani phakathi kwenu, bayavika umbuzo noma bathi abafuni ukubeka ilebula ezintweni.
Yize kuvumeleke ngokuphelele ukungafaki ilebula ezintweni, uma kuhlanganiswa nakho konke okunye ukuziphatha kulolu hlu, kungenzeka nje abafuni ukuzibophezela kuwe.
9. Banentshisekelo kwezocansi kuphela.
Uma, lapho ukwazile ukuzibona, izinto zishesha ukuba mathupha phakathi kwakho, lokho kuyisibonakaliso esibi.
Uma begwema ukuhlangana nawe emini noma lapho kungekho thuba lokubuyela endaweni yakho ngemuva kwalokho, futhi ufuna okungaphezu kwalokho, khona-ke udinga ukuthembeka kuwe.
Ungaphendula Kanjani Ekuqhekekeni kwesinkwa
Okokuqala, uma ngabe usubonile ukuthi une-breadcrumber ezandleni zakho, wenze kahle ngokuthembeka kuwe.
Kungaba nzima ukwamukela izimo ezinjengalezi, kodwa ukwenza kanjalo nokunquma ukuzithathela izinto ezandleni zakho kusho ukuthi ngeke usachitha esinye isikhathi sakho kumuntu ongakufanele.
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Nawa amaqhinga ambalwa wokubhekana nabanye abakucindezelayo.
1. Phakamisa usuku.
Phakamisa usuku ngesikhathi esithile nasendaweni ethile, njengekhofi ngeSonto ntambama.
Ama-breadcrumbers ajwayele ukuthanda ukugcina nje izinto ezibonakalayo ukuze zikwazi ukukhuphuka lapho zidinga eyodwa futhi zazi ukuthi ukhona uma zikufuna.
Uma ngabe yilokho kuphela abakufunayo, ngeke basamukele isimemo sakho futhi kufanele bazi ukuthi awenelisekanga ukubavumela balawule isimo.
2. Shintsha indlela ophendula ngayo.
Uma ujwayele ukulandela ukuhola kwabo, sekuyisikhathi sokuxuba izinto kancane.
Uma bekuthumela imiyalezo ebusuku, cisha ifoni yakho bese ubathumela imiyalezo ngosuku olulandelayo bephakamisa ukuthi nihlangane.
Khombisa ngqo lapho befuna khona ukuthi imingcele yobudlelwano ibe kuphi, njengokuyigcina ekuxhumaneni okungajwayelekile ebusuku.
Lokho kusho ukuthi ungacindezela leyo mikhawulo futhi ucacelwe ukuthi ngabe bazimisele ukwenza noma yiziphi izinguquko, noma uma ukuphela komgwaqo.
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3. Uma bekukhansela, bazise ukuthi akulungile.
Uma benza amapulani kaninginingi bese bewakhansela ngomzuzu wokugcina ngezaba ezisilelayo, bazise ukuthi ngeke nje uzithathe ulele phansi.
Uma beshilo ukuthi bathathwe umkhuhlane okwesine, bazise ukuthi uqaphele, futhi ubone ukuthi baphendula kanjani.
Kwenze kucace ukuthi ibhola lisenkantolo yabo ngokuzayo, futhi ungahlali ulinde ukuthi babize. Qhubeka nempilo yakho wenze ezinye izinhlelo.
4. Kwamukele lokho okuyikho.
Uma izinto phakathi kwakho zingokomzimba nje futhi ulunge ngempela futhi ngokweqiniso ngalokho, lokho kuyakhazimula.
Bayeke beze kuwe bajabulele isikhathi osichitha nabo. Lungisa okulindele bese uzijabulisa ngakho.
5. Batshele ukuthi kunjani.
Babuze ngqo ukuthi kungani behlala bekhansela amapulani, bengalokothi bakwazi ukuwenza kwasekuqaleni, bakuthumele umlayezo ngehora lesithathu ekuseni, noma benqabe ukubeka 'ilebula' ezintweni.
Lokhu kungasho ukuthi kufanele uthathe umoya ojulile futhi ube nesibindi, kodwa nakanjani ngeke kube yilokho abakulindele.
Kungaze kuholele engxoxweni eqotho ngokuziphatha kwabo, futhi kukuongele isikhathi esiningi nobuhlungu benhliziyo.
6. Uvalelise.
Uma uthola ukuthi indlela ophathwa ngayo ithatha umthelela wayo futhi ikwenza ukhathazeke noma ungabaze ukuzihlonipha kwakho, sekuyisikhathi sokuvalelisa.
Bazise isizathu sokuthi kungani usika izinto nabo futhi uqine ngakho.
Lapho usuthathe isinqumo, namathela kuso, bese unaka ukuzithanda , nokwenza isikhala empilweni yakho ngobuhlobo obufanele.
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