Ungabuthola Kanjani Ubuhlobo Obuyimpumelelo Ne-Manolescent

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Iningi lethu cishe selivele lijwayele umqondo we-manolescent. Kwesinye isikhathi kuchazwa ukuthi bane-Peter Pan syndrome, laba bantu, ababizwa nangokuthi 'ngabantwana,' abasoze bavuthwa kunoma ikuphi ukufana kwabantu abadala. Akunjalo Empeleni.



Kungenzeka bheka njengabantu abadala, bephelele ngokungenela izinwele zangemuva kanye nempunga ebusweni, kodwa empeleni bangabafana kuphela abagqoke amasudi abantu, bajabule ngokuthi manje sebengaphuza ngokusemthethweni kuze kube phakade.

Imibukiso ye-TV namafilimu kugcwele amathopi afaka abafana abafana nalaba: cabanga uJake Peralta waseBrooklyn 99, Sheldon ovela eBig Bang Theory, noma iyiphi indima uWill Ferrell aseke wayidlala, ngisho noDokotela we-11 kuDoctor Who. Zonke zinamahloni futhi ziyintsha, kepha noma ngabe ama-antics azo angavuthiwe namazwana angathukuthelisa ngokuphelele, angathandeka ngendlela ebabayo. Bayahlekisa, banomfutho, futhi noma besho noma benza izinto ezicasula kakhulu, uyazi ukuthi abakwenzi lokho nganoma yimuphi umqondo wokuphikisana, kodwa ngoba bangabafana nje ngeke, noma ingakwazi, ukukhula .



Lezo zikhathi zobumnandi obuthandekayo azikwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuvala ukungaziphathi kahle kwabo okukhungathekisayo, noma kunjalo. Laba bantu bavame ukungathembeki, ukuzithokozisa, futhi banganaki nakancane indawo ebazungezile. Bangase bangashintshi izingubo zabo izinsuku, bazowela phezu kwamachibi ezihlanzo zekati ngoba nje abaziboni, noma bazinqumele phakathi kwezinqwaba zamathini kabhiya angenalutho namabhokisi e-pizza ngoba bebegxile ezinhlelweni ezinhle zokudlala. Yini inkinga?

Inkinga ukuthi iningi lalaba bantu nabo banesizungu, futhi bangathanda ukuhlakulela ubudlelwano nabalingani abavulekele ukubabekezelela.

wwe isihlangu vs kwemvelo

Ungabenza kanjani ubudlelwano bakho busebenze

Kungenzeka yini ukuba nobudlelwano bangempela, besikhathi eside bothando ne-manolescent?

Impela, yebo ... kepha isihluthulelo sempumelelo ukubona kahle ukuthi ubhekene nobani, futhi umamukele njengoba enjalo, ngaphandle kokulindela ukuthi uyakwazi ukushintsha ezingeni elithile eliyisisekelo. Yilokho okusemqoka.

Wena ngeke ngena ebudlelwaneni nomfana onje ucabanga ukuthi ngandlela thile uzoba yisikhuthazi somlingo esizomenza abe yindoda.

izinzuzo zokungabikho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana

Ngeke.

Uyindlela ayiyo ngezizathu eziningi, futhi okuwukuphela kwendlela ongenza ngayo ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho busebenze futhi bobabili bajabule uma wamukelana njengoba ninjalo, ngaphandle kokulindela ukuthi kuzoba noshintsho olukhulu oludingekayo kunoma yiluphi uhlangothi. Lokhu kubalulekile ukwamukela, ngoba akuyona nje umbuzo wethemba lokuthi uzokhula: kunethemba lokuthi uzovuleleka ekwamukeleni ama-quirks akho kanye nezinkinga ngezandla ezifanayo ovulekele ukumamukela.

Uma ucabanga ukuthandana nomuntu osemncane ngoba umbona njengephrojekthi, egcwele amandla ongawakha abe yindoda yakho ekahle, ukhohlwe. Angase akwazi ukudlala leyo ndima kuwe ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside kakhulu, futhi nobabili nizogcina senizondekile ngalesi senzo.

Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):

Ngubani Okufaneleke Kakhulu Ukuphola I-Manolescent

Kukhona umuntu okhona owenzela wonke umuntu: okusemqoka ukuba nomuntu ohlanganisa izici ozithola zikhanga kuzakwethu.

kungani ehoxa lapho izinto zihamba kahle

Uyazi ukuthi bakhona kanjani abesifazane abasha abakhangwa abesilisa asebekhulile ngoba bathola izibalo zobaba zikhanga? Bano 'hlobo', futhi ngeke bajabule nozakwethu odlala indima nje emzamweni wokuphoqa izinto ukuthi zisebenze. Abantu kufanele bakwazi ukuzimela, futhi ubuqiniso bubaluleke kakhulu kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo bangempela.

Kulowo mthambo, umuntu ofaneleke kakhulu ukuphola ne-manolescent umuntu ojabule ngokudlala indawo yokuba ngumlingani onomthwalo wemfanelo, ovuthiwe ukumelana nokungavuthwa komfana wabo. Asikhulumi ngokusula okucashile kokudalelwe umuntu lapha, noma: sikhuluma ngesifiso esiqotho sokuhlakulela ukubambisana kwesikhathi eside ne-doofus ozoziphatha njengentsha impilo yakhe yonke.

Lokho kungazwakala njengokubeka iningi lethu, kepha njengalabo bafana abafuna ukubizwa ngo “Daddy” embhedeni, kukhona abesilisa nabesifazane ubudlelwano nomuntu osemncane ngenhliziyo abuthandeki nje kuphela - kubalulekile.

Abantu abanjena bathanda ukuthanda ukuba seqenjini lobuholi uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano babo bomuntu siqu. Bathanda ukuba yibo abathatha izinqumo, abalawula ezezimali, ngokuyisisekelo benza konke okusemandleni ukuze konke kusebenze ngendlela abathanda ngayo. Badinga ama-manolesenti ezimpilweni zabo ukuncika kubo ukusiza ukuphatha izimpilo zabo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nge-a ubuntu obuqinile bamise amakhanda ngezabo.

Bangase futhi babujabulele ngempela ubungqabavu bobusha obulethwa yindodana kubambiswano lwabo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ubudlelwano nabafana abanje abulokothi bube yisicefe. Bangakumangaza ngamathikithi aya eDisneyland ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, noma akugcine ezinzwaneni zakho lapho bethatha isinqumo sokugibela ikiriva wehle umqansa oyingozi.

izinto okufanele uzenze lapho unesizungu futhi uwedwa

Enye inzuzo enkulu yokuthandana nomuntu onjengalokhu ukuthi banamandla okukugcina umncane enhliziyweni ngokushintshana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungazizwa ukhungathekile ukuthi uwena wedwa umuntu omdala osendlini futhi umthwalo ukuphezu kwakho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izikweletu ziyakhokhwa, indlu igcinwa ingenamagundane, futhi izingane azizigingqizi ukungcola kwakhe, kepha ungalahlwa uqinisekile ukuthi uzokuphatha imicimbi ngenjabulo yangempela nangomdlandla, futhi uzokuhlekisa, ikakhulukazi, ikakhulukazi uma ekwenzela ama-pancake amiswe kabi ngebhulakufesi lakho lokuzalwa.

Thanda Futhi Wazise UManchild Wakho, Noma Umyeke

Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, kufanele wamukele ukuthi i-manolescent ayisoze yakhula, futhi uma unethemba elilindelekile lokuthi uzokwenza, wonke umuntu uzoba lusizi. Uzophatheka kabi ngoba akakhuli ngomlingo kulo mfana ocabanga ukuthi unamandla okuba yikho, futhi uzokhathazeka kakhulu ngoba uhlala umhlukumeza abe yinto okungeyona, bese uyakhungatheka futhi udumale naye ngokungaphumeleli kulokho okulindele.

Ubani ojabulayo esimweni esinjalo? Akekho.

Mhlawumbe owelapha wakho.

Ngokuyinhloko akekho.

Intukuthelo yonke ingaphuphuma lapho kunokungalingani ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngokunganaki nokungakwazi ukuncika kumlingani wakho. Ama-Manolescents adume ngokungazenzi imisebenzi yawo yasendlini, ngokwesibonelo, noma ukungakhathali uma kuziwa ekunakekelweni kwengane.

igoldberg ibuyela ku-wwe

Ingabe ulungile ngomqondo wokuba nomuntu ongeke ukwazi ukuthembela kuye, noma usesimweni esibucayi? Umuntu ongagijima futhi acashe ezinkingeni zokuphila ezingaba khona esikhundleni sokuma eceleni kwakho ukuze abhekane nazo ngqo? Umuntu ozohlala akudinga ukuthi umbhalele uhlu lwezinto 'okumele zenziwe' ngoba ngokweqiniso akazi ukuthi kumele enzeni ngaphandle kwesiqondiso sakho esicacile?

Umfana ozozama ukukukhohlisa ngenkathi egqoke isikhindi sangaphansi seSpongebob ngokungajwayelekile?

Uma ungaphendula leyo mibuzo ngo 'yebo' oshisekayo, futhi usho ngobuqotho, ungahle ube nethuba nomntanakho.

Uma ungakwazi, noma unqikaza ukwakha ikusasa nalo mfana, ungahle uthande ukuhlukana nalo bese umshiya ukuze abhekane nomunye umuntu.

Njenganoma yimuphi omunye umntwana ongasoze wakwazi ukuchazela osebenza nabo, ukukhanga kumuntu we-manolescent kufanele kube qotho ezingeni eliyisisekelo, noma ngeke nje kusebenze.