Ubuciko bokuphila bufana nokubambana kunokujuxuza, njengoba nje ulungele ukulwa ngengozi nokungalindelekile, futhi awukufanele ukuwa. - UMarcus Aurelius, Ukuzindla
Impilo iletha ukujikajika okuningi okungalindelekile. Ungahle ube nesifiso esijulile sokufeza into ethile kepha ukhishwe endleleni ngezimo ezingalindelekile.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, bewazi kanjani ukuthi ngeke wamukelwe kulelo kolishi? Ingabe impilo yayingenele ngokwanele kulowo msebenzi? Ngingazi ukuthi lobo budlelwano ngeke busebenze?
Kungabonakala njengokuphikisana nokwenza uhlelo lokuphila lapho singazi ukuthi ikusasa lisiphatheleni.
Empeleni, okuphambene kuyiqiniso. Iqiniso lokuthi asazi ukuthi ikusasa lisiphatheleni yisizathu esihle kakhulu sokwenza uhlelo lwempilo.
Uhlelo lwempilo olubhekwe kahle, olunengqondo lungasebenza njengekhampasi yakho lapho uzama ukuthola ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani futhi uthole impumelelo empilweni yakho - noma ngabe leyo mpumelelo ingabukeka kanjani. Ungahlala ubuyela ohlelweni lwakho lwempilo lapho amanzi eba namandla futhi ujikijelwa ngapha nangapha.
Kuzokusiza ukukubeka phansi, ucabangele izinketho zakho, bese ubheka izindlela eziningi zokuqhubekela phambili uma wenza kahle.
Ake sibeke isisekelo sohlelo lwakho lwempilo. Kuzosiza ukubhala lezi zinto phansi noma ukuzithayipha kudokhumenti yokucubungula amagama.
1. Cabanga ngalokho okubalulekile kuwe.
Wonke umuntu unekhampasi ngaphakathi kwabo elizama ukubaholela ohlangothini oluthile. Futhi asikhulumi nje kuphela ngekhampasi yokuziphatha, kepha ikhampasi ekhomba ohlangothini lwezinkanuko zakho nezifiso zakho zokuphila.
Uyazithanda izilwane? Ubuciko? Isayensi? Ukusiza abantu? Yini ekudalela inhlansi?
Futhi uma ushoda ngenhlansi njengamanje, yini eyakudalela inhlansi esikhathini esedlule?
Thatha isikhashana ucabange ngendlela yakho yokuphila kuze kube manje. Kungani uphishekele izinto ozenzile? Thatha imisebenzi oyamukele? Ufake ubudlelwano obenzile? Ingabe ikhona ingqikithi lapha?
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngabe lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuyinto ofisa ukuqhubeka nokwakhela ikusasa lakho?
Kulungile ukushintsha izindlela uma ungasayizwa leyo okuyo. Kepha kungaba lusizo ukwenza iphivothi endleleni osuvele uyihamba esikhundleni sokuqala phansi.
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Ukuthola ikhampasi yakho kuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuthola indlela ekufanele.
Ngokweqile, lesi sinyathelo sidinga ukuthi uthembeke ngokuphelele kuwe mayelana nokuthi yini empeleni kubalulekile kuwe ngokungafani nalokho wena cabanga kubalulekile noma kufanele kubalulekile.
Ukuqhubekela phambili emsebenzini womuntu ngokuvamile kuyisibonelo esihle salokhu. Abantu abaningi babona ukuqhubekela phambili kukhuphuka isitebhisi nemivuzo yezezimali lokhu okuletha njengento ebalulekile kubo. Kepha, lapho beqala ukubhala phansi okubanikeza leyo nhlansi yangaphakathi, umsebenzi wabo awufiki ndawo eduze kwaphezulu, noma kwesinye isikhathi hhayi ohlwini nhlobo.
Bakholelwa nje ukuthi ukwenza kahle emsebenzini nokuthola ukukhushulwa yilokho ohloselwe ukukwenza empilweni. Kungumcabango osuselwa endleleni umphakathi obheka ngayo impumelelo futhi abayibuzi. Kepha kufanele.
Konke okuya ohlelweni lwakho lwempilo kufanele kususelwe ekwethembekeni komuntu siqu.
2. Cabanga ngokukulethela injabulo nentokozo.
Ukufeza noma yini ezuzisayo kuvame ukuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Akubonakali njalo, noma kunjalo, ngokombono wangaphandle. Ngezinye izikhathi konke esikubonayo kungaphezulu. Asiboni amahora amaningi wokufunda, ukulungiselela, ukusebenza, noma ukuqeqesha okungenzeka ngemuva kweminyango evaliwe.
Futhi ngenkathi kubalulekile ukuba nesifiso sangempela sokuthola indlela nokuhlangabezana nezinhloso ozibekayo, kufanele ugcine ibhalansi empilweni yakho. Awukwazi ukusebenza ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokushisa ngokubabazekayo.
Ukwenza uhlelo olufaka izinto ezikulethela injabulo nentokozo kuzokuthwala ezikhathini ezinzima futhi kukusize ukuqeda izinselelo zomsebenzi okufanele uwenze. Ukungena ezintweni ezikulethela injabulo kungakusiza uhlale uphilile, utshale imali ethe xaxa, futhi ugxile ezinhlosweni zakho.
Abantu abaningi abakunaki ukondla injabulo yabo ngenkathi besebenza kanzima behlela futhi befeza izinhloso zabo eziphakeme. Kepha ukwenza ngcono nokugcina impilo yakho yengqondo kubalulekile ukuze uphumelele ezinhlelweni zakho.
3. Cabanga ngokuzinakekela okusiza ukuthi uhlale uphilile.
Injabulo ingathathwa njengengxenye yokuzinakekela, kepha sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi sinakekela okungaphezu kwengqondo yethu kuphela.
Ukudla okudlayo nokuzivocavoca umzimba njalo kwenza izimangaliso zokukusiza uphumelele. Ukudla kukunikeza amandla owadingayo, nokuvivinya umzimba kusiza ukugcina umzimba wakho usebenza kahle.
Ungazinaki lezi zinto ngokulandela izinhloso zakho. Faka phakathi ukuthuthukisa nokugcina impilo yakho yomzimba ohlelweni lwakho lwempilo. Indlela elula yokwenza lokho ukuhlela ukuzivocavoca umzimba, uphumule, futhi ubanikeze ukubaluleka okufanayo nezinye izinhloso zakho. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi uhlala wenza isikhathi sokuzinakekela.
4. Chaza imigomo yakho emincane nemikhulu.
Ukubeka izinhloso kuyikhono elihle lokulithuthukisa elizokusiza ukuthi uthuthukise uhlelo lwakho lwempilo.
Yonke imigomo emikhulu obeka kuyo empeleni imane iyinhlanganisela yezinhloso ezincane, ezihlanganayo. Izinhloso ezinkulu azibonakali zinkulu kakhulu uma uzihlukanisa zibe izingcezu ezincane bese usebenza ukuzuza lezo ezifezwayo njalo.
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Yiziphi izinhloso ezinkulu ozibonela zona? Uzibona ukuphi eminyakeni emihlanu? Iminyaka eyishumi? Iminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu? Ungubani umuntu ofuna ukuba nguye?
Lapho usubeke leyo migomo, ungasebenzela emuva ukusetha izinhloso ezincane. Ake sithi ufuna ukuba ngunjiniyela. Uzodinga ukwenza kahle ezibalweni, uye esikoleni, usebenze i-internship, futhi kungenzeka uye esikoleni sokuphothula ukulungiselela isikhundla sezinga lokungena emkhakheni.
Ngayinye yalezi zinhloso ezincane ibuye iqanjwe imigomo emincane kakhulu. Mhlawumbe udinga ukuthatha izifundo ezimbalwa ukuxubha ezibalweni zakho ngaphambi kokufaka isicelo esikoleni. Mhlawumbe udinga ukwenza ucwaningo ukuze uthole imali evikelekile esikoleni. Mhlawumbe udinga ukuthumela izinhlelo zokusebenza.
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5. Dala izinhlelo ezisebenzayo zokufinyelela lezo zinhloso.
Umgomo ngaphandle kohlelo uyisifiso nje. - U-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Sebenzisa umgomo ngamunye njengesihloko. Njengoba ucwaninga ukuthi ungazifeza kanjani izinhloso zakho, bhala uhlu lwezinto odinga ukuzenza ngaphansi kwesihloko ngasinye.
Leli rekhodi lizokusiza ukuthi uqhubekele phambili ngoba uzokwazi ukuthi uke wazama ini, yini ongakayenzi, futhi ingakusiza ukuthi ukhiqize imibono emisha lapho uzizwa sengathi uyamile.
Phinda uhlole lezi zinhlelo njengoba ufeza izinhloso zakho zokwenza izinguquko njengoba izinselelo zezinhloso zakho zikhula.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nzima ukuthola ukuthi ungayifinyelela kanjani leyo migomo. Enye yezindlela ezingcono ukubheka abantu asebevele bakufezile lokho ohlela ukukwenza. Bangakukhomba endaweni efanele futhi bakusize ugweme ezinye izingibe ezivamile zokulandela leyo ndlela ethile.
Uma ufuna ukuya ekolishi, ungahle uthande ukukhuluma nomeluleki wasekolishi ongakusiza wenze izinqumo futhi uhlele indlela yakho odlula ngayo.
Abaqeqeshi bomsebenzi noma bokuphila abanesipiliyoni kulokho ofuna ukukwenza nakho kungasiza. Vele uqaphele noma ngubani owenza izethembiso ezingafinyeleleki.
6. Hlaziya njalo inqubekelaphambili necebo lakho lempilo.
Njengoba ukhula futhi uthuthuka nohlelo lwakho lwempilo, uzofuna ukuma ngezikhathi ezithile uphinde uhlole kabusha okwenzayo nokuthi kungani.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi umbono wakho nezinhloso ziguquke njengoba ukhula futhi ufunda izinto ezintsha. Ngokunokwenzeka, uneminyaka engama-21-uzofuna izinto ezihlukile kuneminyaka engu-45-wena. Kepha izehlakalo empilweni yakho zingasho ukuthi okuza kuqala nezinhloso zakho kuguquka ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho.
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Ungase futhi ufeze imigomo ethile futhi uthole ukuthi akuyona into obucabanga ukuthi iyoba yiyo. Kulungile ukushintsha inkambo, uzibekele imigomo emisha, bese uphupha iphupho elisha uma kuyilokho okufunayo.
Uhlelo lwakho lwempilo alubekiwe. Kungumbhalo ophilayo okufanele uvakashele njalo, ubuyekeze, ungeze kuwo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ususe kuwo.
Futhi yini ongayenzi ngohlelo lwakho lwempilo…
Ungazibeki usendleleni eyodwa uze ungaboni amathuba. Ukufeza izinhloso zakho kungahle kuvule eminye iminyango noma izinselele obukade ungazilindelanga.
Vumela ukuguquguquka njengoba uqhubekela phambili ukuze ukwazi ukugoba nezinselelo ozohlangabezana nazo. Ukuyekethisa kungahle kungabi yilokho okufunayo, kepha kwesinye isikhathi kungakusondeza ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho yesikhathi eside.
Ungasetha imigomo ethile, kepha udinga ukuthi ulunge ngokungazihlangabezi, nayo. Njengokuthi, 'Ngifuna ukuba ngibe udokotela sengineminyaka engama-30.' Mhlawumbe lokho kuzolunga, mhlawumbe ngeke. Mhlawumbe uzoba nenkinga yezempilo ukubhekana nayo, noma ungakwazi ukukhokhela ukuya esikoleni, noma ukukhulelwa okungalindelekile, noma enye inombolo yezinto engaphazamisa kakhulu uhlelo lwakho.
Kuhle ukugcina umcabango wokuthi izinto zizohamba kanjani futhi nini, vele ungafaki imali eningi kakhulu kukho kuze kulimaze impilo yakho yengqondo uma ungakwazi ukulandela indlela yakho. Kwesinye isikhathi izinto azihambi nje futhi lokho kulungile.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokwenza uhlelo lokuphila? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakwazi ukukuhambisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhumana nenye.
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