Kungenzeka ukuthi uthukutheliswe yisimo (kunomuntu) evikini eledlule noma kunjalo. Ngesikhathi usuqedile ukufunda le ndatshana, uzoba nakho konke okudingayo ukulwa nale ntukuthelo lapho ihlasela ngokulandelayo.
Mhlawumbe isitimela sakho esibuyela ekhaya siphuma emsebenzini siphuzile noma mhlawumbe ikhompyutha yakho ihlangabezana nokukhanya kwesibhakabhaka sokufa ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kulezi zimo, nakwabanye abanjengabo, akekho umuntu okufanele asolwe, kepha ukuthambekela kokuthukuthela kusekhona.
Intukuthelo yesimo yabelana ngezici eziningi nalokho okuqondiswe kubantu: uzizwa uphatheke kabi ngoba okuthile akuhambanga ngendlela obukade ufisa ngayo, uzizwa udumele, ungahle uthande ukuqhuma, futhi uhlangabezana nezimpawu ezifanayo zomzimba.
Ukubhekana nezimo ezicasulayo ozithola ukuzo, noma kunjalo, kudinga indlela eyehluke kancane kulezo ezibandakanya omunye umuntu. Nazi izivivinyo zomqondo ezi-5 ongangeza kubhokisi lakho lamathuluzi eliphakeme kakhulu lezo zikhathi.
Bheka Ukuhlekisa Ngolaka
Kufanele uzikhumbuze ukuthi empeleni awukwazi ukuthola impendulo evela esimweni esibi sezinto ozithola usesitimeleni nasekhompyutheni zingabonakali ngokuphelele emvelweni. Kangangokuba ungathanda ukuthukuthela, akukho ongakusho noma ukwenze ukwenza isimo sizwakale kabi - noma uzwe noma yini ngalokho nje.
Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukuzibona unengxabano egcwele egcwele ngalo mzuzu we-inert futhi ongaphenduli ngesikhathi. Cabanga ukuthi bekuyobukeka kanjani kwabanye nokuthi bazokubona kanjani ukusabela kwakho futhi bacabange ukuthi akusizi ngalutho. Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wahlangabezana nomuntu ogibelayo ethuka inhlamba ngaphansi kokuphefumula kwakhe noma wabona osebenza naye eshaya ikhibhodi yekhompyutha efriziwe. Lezi yizenzo ezihlekisayo lapho ubonwa ngamehlo omuntu wangaphandle, ngakho-ke zama ukubona intukuthelo yakho njengeyodwa.
Ungaze uthole ukuthi ukumamatheka kuyaphuma ebusweni bakho lapho uza ukubona ukuthi ukusabela kwakho kuwubuwula kangakanani.
Cabanga Zonke Izikhathi Izinto Izinto Zihambe Ngayo
Lapho ubhekene nesimo esingathandeki, kulula kakhulu ukubona umhlaba embonweni womhubhe. Lo mbono omncane wezinto awukhawulelwanga lapha namanje, kepha uhlanganisa izimo ezedlule lapho izinto zihambe kahle futhi zihlela.
Ubuchopho bungcono kakhulu ekuqapheleni nasekukhumbuleni izinto ezimbi kunokuhle (ukubandlulula kokunganaki). Ukuziphoqa ukuthi ucabange emuva kuzo zonke izikhathi lapho izinto zihambe kahle, mhlawumbe okungcono kakhulu kunalokho obekulindele, kukwenza ubone ukuthi umhlaba awulwi nawe.
Uzothola isabelo sakho esilinganayo sezimo ezicasulayo, kepha nabo bonke abanye bazothola kanjalo.
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Cabanga ngekusasa ethi You Looking Back
Indlela yesibili ongahamba ngayo isikhathi sokwehlisa intukuthelo yakho esezingeni eliphakeme ukungena engqondweni yakho kusukela kusasa. Cabanga ngomzuzu obalulekile onesiqiniseko sokuthi uzokwenzeka ngosuku olulandelayo - mhlawumbe umhlangano obalulekile womsebenzi noma ubusuku obuchithwe nabangane - bese uzama ukuzibona ngokwengqondo lapho lapho. Manje zama ukubheka emuva kulokho kuqubuka obhekene nakho njengamanje sengathi sekudlulile.
Okufanele kwenzeke ukuthi, ngokubona ngamehlo akho esikhathi esizayo, uzoqonda ukuthi noma yini eyenzekayo manje izobe ingabalulekile futhi uzobe usuyekile ukuthukuthela isikhathi eside.
Lapho ekugcineni ubuyisela ukunaka kwakho kumzuzu wamanje, kufanele uzizwe uzolile futhi unokuthula ngokwenzekayo.
Cabanga nge-What What Uma
Lapho okuthile kusithukuthelisa, masinyane sicabanga ukuthi umphumela omubi kakhulu wenzekile, kepha nokho ngeke ukwazi ukwazi okungenzeka kwenzeke esikhundleni salokho.
Ukubuyela ezibonelweni zethu zangaphambilini, isitimela esabambezeleka kungenzeka ukuthi sathinteka engozini noma ekuphambukeni ukube bekufike ngesikhathi - ngabe ubucabanga ngalokho? Futhi ukube ikhompyutha yakho ibingazange ishayeke ngesikhathi kwenzeka, ubungeke uchofoze ngephutha i-imeyili equkethe igciwane lapho ubunikazi bakho bebungabiwa khona.
Ngiyabonga izinkanyezi zakho ezinenhlanhla-ke ukuthi isitimela sakho siphuzile futhi ikhompyutha yakho yayeka ukusebenza.
Kungabonakala njengokuxakile noma ngisho ukwesaba okuncane ukucabanga okubi kakhulu okungenzeka, kepha ngokwenza njalo, kubeka ukuphazamiseka kwakho okuncane kunombono.
Phula Umjikelezo Wokucabanga
Izimo ezingafuneki yinto ingqondo engakwazi ukuyikhathaza ngobude obukhulu uma iyekelwa kumadivayisi ayo. Ngaphandle kokuthi isixazululo sitholakale ngokushesha, uyakwazi ukugxila enkingeni kungekho okukuvimbela ukuthi wenze kanjalo. Lapho ucabanga ngokwengeziwe ngayo, lapho uzithola uthukuthele ngokwengeziwe, ngakho isixazululo esisobala kungaba ukuthola okunye ongacabanga ngakho.
Njengoba kulula njengokuzwakala kwayo, inselelo yengqondo ephindaphindwayo ingasebenza kakhulu ekuphazamiseni izinqubo zokucabanga ezingenampilo eziqhubekayo. Ungazama izibalo ezithile zengqondo, njengokuphindaphinda inombolo ngo-2 kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka - ngakho-ke ukuqala ku-1, ukulandelana kwakho kuzohamba ngo-1, 2, 4, 8, 16, 32, 64,…, 1024, 2048, 4096, njll.
Ngenye indlela, ukuzama ukusho (noma ucabange uma ungafuni ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo) ukugogeka kolimi okufana 'noPeter Piper uthathe ipelepele eqoshiwe kaninginingi - ukushesha nokushesha lapho uhamba - kungenye indlela enhle ukumisa ukunganaki okuzwayo.
I-Conscious Rethink: intukuthelo imizwa engenamsebenzi ngezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu, kepha lapho ubhekene nesimo oke wakwazi ukulawula amandla akho, ukuthukuthela kungukuzivocavoca okungenanjongo nakakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi lapho ukwazi ukubona imizwa yentukuthelo kusenesikhathi, izivivinyo zizosebenza kangcono, ngakho-ke qaphela izimpawu zomqondo nezomzimba.
