Ingqondo yakho ilulwandle olungalawulwa lwemicabango nemizwa, ishaya sengathi amagagasi ashaya ngaphakathi kogebhezi lwakho. Uyazama ukuhlala untanta, kodwa awukwazi ukusiza ukuzizwa sengathi kuyindaba yesikhathi ngaphambi kokuba ikhanda lakho linyamalale ngaphansi kobuso bamanzi.
Lokhu nguwe lapho uzizwa usindwa yimpilo. Yile ndlela ingqondo yakho esabela ngayo lapho yonke into iba phezu kwakho lapho uzizwa ungakwazi ukubhekana nakho konke.
Imbangela yalokhu kungazwakala kusobala kakhulu: kuyindlela yokuphendula ukucindezeleka. Futhi, yebo, uzobe uqinisile uma ucabanga ukuthi lokhu ukuqonda okungaphezulu kakhulu kwesimo. Kepha, ngokuyisisekelo, umuzwa wokugcwala okutholayo ukusabela komzimba nengqondo yakho ekucindezelekeni.
Ngokuqondile, kuyimpendulo yengcindezi ebangelwe ukwakhiwa kwemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi - emikhulu nemincane - kanye nenkolelo yokuthi awukwazi ukugcina wonke amapuleti ejikeleza isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ukwesaba okungazi lutho kokuvumela ipuleti liwe futhi liphihlize kubangela ukusabela kwengcindezi okuholela ekuzweleni ngokweqile.
Lolu hlobo lwempendulo lucace bha ngoba luthinta ukuhlanganiswa kokukhathazeka okuningi - akulona uhlobo lwempendulo ongaluthola ngokujwayelekile lapho ukucindezelwa kuyinto eyodwa njengokungagcwaliseki emsebenzini wakho noma ukufelwa kamuva nje.
Lapho kwenzeka okweqile, ubuchopho bakho buzabalaza ukucubungula zonke izingqinamba ezahlukahlukene ngoba ungacabanga kuphela ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kepha uma uzama ukwenza kanjalo, ukukhathazeka okubangelwa zonke ezinye izinkinga zakho kukuvimbela ekucabangeni kahle kulowo omkhethe.
ukuthandana nowesilisa oshadile okuthandayo nawe
Cabanga ngengqondo yakho njengomnyango lapho izinkinga zihambisana khona nezixazululo lapho zidlula. Uma uzizwa ukhungathekile, kunezinkinga eziningi kakhulu ukuzama ukungena emnyango ngomnyango okuthi, ekugcineni, kungabi bikho noyedwa kubo ongacindezela ukwedlula ezinye.
Isixazululo siqonde ngqo: kufanele ususe isivimbamgwaqo ukuze izingqinamba obhekene nazo ziphinde zidlule ngomnyango lapho kutholakala khona izixazululo.
Kunezindlela ezimbili ongakwenza ngazo lokhu:
- Beka ezinye izingqinamba ngokuphelele ukuze umgwaqo ucacele abanye.
- Dala uhlelo lokulawulwa kwethrafikhi ukuze inkinga ngayinye ikwazi ukubhekana ngayinye ngesikhathi ngokucabanga okucacile nokufingqiwe.
Ngokwenzayo, cishe uzogcina uhlanganisa zombili izindlela zokwenza isu elilodwa elihambisanayo.
Kuzwakala kulula, kepha empeleni ukuthatha kanjani lokhu futhi ukwenze emhlabeni wangempela?
hamba ngokushesha okukhulu futhi imizwa ihambile ukuzama ukuzibamba ikuthobela phansi kuphela
Yebo, okokuqala udinga ukukhomba zonke izinto ezibe nomthelela ekutheni uzizwe ukhungathekile. Ngaphandle komqondo ocacile wezinkinga eziningi ezidinga ukulungiswa, ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nenkinga yonke ngokuqaphela.
Thatha ipeni nephepha bese ubhala phansi konke okukhathazayo okudlala engqondweni yakho kulo mzuzwana. Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi abanye bangabona kungabalulekanga kanjani ukuthi kubenze bavuleke bonke obala.
Okulandelayo, nquma ukuthi yiziphi, uma zikhona, ezikhathazayo ongakwazi ukuzibamba ngokuphelele. Bheka uhlu lwakho bese uzibuze ngempela ukuthi ngabe into ngayinye iyinto efanele ukuyinaka, noma uma ukhathazeka ngento engenasisekelo sikakhonkolo empeleni.
Mhlawumbe ukuthole ekhanda lakho ukuthi usengozini yokuxoshwa umqashi wakho. Dweba ujule kancane bese ubuza ukuthi ngabe le ngozi ingokoqobo futhi ingathi sína, noma ngabe ukhathazeka nje ngalutho. Thembeka kuwe uqobo futhi uzothola izimpendulo ezifanele zale mibuzo.
izibonelo zokuba matasa esikoleni
Sethemba ukuthi manje uzoba nohlu oluncane lwezinto ongakhathazeka ngazo ozosebenza nazo ngemuva kokukhomba lezo ongazinaka ngenjabulo ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Umsebenzi wakho olandelayo ukuthola indlela yokubeka lezo zingqinamba ezisele kuhlobo oluthile lokuhleleka.
Kuphela lapho ubeke phambili uzokwazi ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo nodaba ngalunye lapho umnyango wakho uvulekile futhi umgwaqo odlulayo unendlela eyodwa yezimoto.
Ukubekwa eqhulwini kwehlela ezintweni ezimbili ezinkulu: ingakanani inkinga esesondele kuyo futhi idinga ukubhekelwa ngokushesha kangakanani?
Ake sibheke ezinye izibonelo:
Isibonelo 1: umninikhaya wakho ukunikeze isaziso sezinyanga ezimbili sokushiya ikhaya lakho lamanje. Umbuzo wesikhathi ungabonakala uqondile - unezinyanga ezimbili zokuthola kwenye indawo yokuhlala - kepha kufanele ubuyele emuva kusukela kulolo suku olunqunyiwe bese ucabanga ngezinyathelo eziphakathi kwaleso sikhathi nanamuhla. Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuhlela ukubukwa kwenye indawo yokuhlala, kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukusayina izivumelwano, kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuhlela inkampani yokususa, futhi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukupakisha?
Uma ungahlephula inkinga ngayinye kanjena, uzokwazi ukubhekana nesinyathelo ngasinye ngesikhathi esifanelekile.
lapho umfana ekubiza ngokuthi muhle
Mayelana nokuthi inkinga ibaluleke kangakanani, ukungabi nakhaya empeleni akuyona into ongathanda ukuyicubungula, ngakho-ke uzobe ulungile ukumaka lokhu njengokukhathazeka okukhulu okudinga ukunakwa kwakho.
Isibonelo 2: usuku lwakho lokuzalwa luza ngesikhathi sesonto futhi ungathanda ukuhlela umkhosi nabangane bakho.
Isikhathi esibekiwe siphinde salungiswa, kepha kulokhu ungahle ungakhathazeki kangako uma kungekho okuhlelwa kahle ngoba ungahlala uqhubeke ngamandla bese uthola indawo yokudlela, ibha, noma umsebenzi ngosuku. Njengamanje, mhlawumbe okuwukuphela kwento ecindezela ngempela ukwazisa abantu ukuthi kufanele bagcine usuku lukhululekile.
Isibonelo 3: aweneme emsebenzini wakho wamanje futhi ungathanda ukulandela indlela ehlukile yomsebenzi ngokuthatha iziqu ezintsha.
Lapha isikhathi sesikhathi sokukhathazeka kwakho sincane kakhulu. Unomsebenzi nemali engenayo elandelayo futhi, uma kudingeka, ungaqhubeka ngomthambo ofanayo isikhashana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungahle udangele kakhulu ngesimo sakho uze usinikeze amaphuzu aphezulu ngokuya ngokubaluleka kwaso.
igama elingokwengqondo lokusola abanye ngezinkinga zakho
Ngakho-ke, ngento ngayinye ohlwini lwakho, kufanele ulinganise ubunzima besimo nanoma yiziphi izingqinamba zesikhathi ezingabekwa ekutholeni isisombululo. Ngeke ihlale imnyama noma imhlophe, kepha ngandlela thile kufanele u-ode uhlu kusuka kokucindezela kakhulu kuye kokuncane.
Ngemuva kwalokho, ngombono ocacile wokuthi yini okufanele yenziwe kuqala, ungaqala ukubhekana nezinkinga zakho ngaphandle komuzwa wengozi ezayo owawunayo ngaphambi kokusebenzisa lo msebenzi.
Ingqondo yakho ingahle ingathuli ngokuphelele, kepha uzokwazi ukunikela ngokwanele amandla akho engqondo ekuxazululeni ukukhathazeka ngakunye ngasikhathi.
Zama le ndlela ngokuzayo lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile ngezinkinga zokuphila. Sazise uma kusebenza ngokushiya amazwana ngezansi.
