Izimpawu Ezi-10 Ezibuhlungu Ukuthi Uphulukiswe ngokweqile (+ Ungakuyeka Kanjani Ukuba Munye)

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Oweqile ngokweqile umuntu owenza izinga eliphakeme noma othola impumelelo enkulu kunalokho okulindelwe kubo.



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Ngemuva kwakho konke, kunezinto eziningi kakhulu okudingeka zenziwe! Amabanga amahle esikoleni asho amathuba angcono kamuva.

Ukweqa leyo phrojekthi yomsebenzi ngemuva kokuhlala ubusuku bonke kusho ukuthi ungayibeka phambi komphathi futhi mhlawumbe uthole ukunconywa.

Izinto zidinga ukwenziwa, imindeni idinga ukunakekelwa, umuntu kufanele aqede zonke lezi zinto aqede manje ukuze aqhubekele kwezinye izinto ezidinga ukuqedwa!

Maye, kukhona ukwehla ekubeni nobuntu obedlula ngokweqile. Okungenani ukuthi izinga eliphakeme osebenza kulo nempumelelo oyifinyelelayo kuvame ukuvela ‘Okweqile’ umzamo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, izimpawu eziningi ezibonisa ukuthi ungaphezu kwamandla akho zibonakala zimbi.

Manje, yiziphi lezo zimpawu? Yiziphi izici umuntu ovame ukwedlula ngokweqile anazo?

1. Unezinkinga nokukhathazeka.

Isidingo sokufinyelela ngokweqile kuvame ukubangelwa ukukhathazeka kanye nesidingo sokulawula yonke into efinyelelekayo.

Lapho ukulawula okungaphezu kwamandla omuntu kungasebenza ngaphezu kwalezo zinto, ukukhathazeka kwabo kungabakhathazi kangako.

2. Unesithunzi esiphansi futhi ubopha ukubaluleka kwakho empumelelweni yakho.

Umuntu ophumelele ngokweqile angahlobanisa impumelelo yakhe nomuzwa wabo wokuzihlonipha. Bangazizwa sengathi abalungile ngokwanele uma bengaholi noma yini abayitholayo, noma ngabe ayifanele.

Lokho kungahle kube kuzisebenza ngokwabo kuze kufike ethanjeni emsebenzini. Kungaba ukweqisa ngokweqile ebudlelwaneni ngoba bezwa ukuthi abalufanele uthando abalutholayo ngaphandle kokuthi ngandlela thile ‘bangabuyisela’ umlingani wabo.

3. Unesikhathi esinzima ukwamukela ukwehluleka.

Ukwehluleka akuyona inketho ye-overachiever.

Noma kunjalo, izinto eziningi azisebenzi kahle ekuzameni kokuqala. Kungadingeka ukuthi uhluleke kaningi ngaphambi kokuthi ekugcineni uthole inqubo yakho ishayelwe ukuze uzuze umphumela owufunayo.

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Lokho kunzima kakhulu ukukwenza uma uzizwa sengathi ukwehluleka kukhombisa kabi isimilo sakho.

Wonke umuntu wehluleka ezintweni ngokushesha noma kamuva. Yilokho okwenzayo ngalokho kwehluleka okunquma ukuthi uzophumelela kangakanani ngemuva kwalokho.

4. Ukwabela abanye inani ngokuya ngempumelelo noma ukwehluleka kwabo.

Ungahle ungahlose ukukwenza, kepha ungazithola ubheka abanye abantu ngeso lempumelelo nokwehluleka kwabo.

Uma behlulekile, mhlawumbe-ke abazamanga kanzima ngokwanele, basebenze kanzima ngokwanele, benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuphumelela. Mhlawumbe babenqena!

Impela, ubungawenza umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu ukube bekunguwe owenza lowo msebenzi. Ungaba nobunzima ekwamukeleni ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi izinto azihambi njengokuhlelile.

5. Awugxili kakhulu empumelelweni futhi ugxile kakhulu ekugwemeni imiphumela emibi.

Impumelelo iyajabulisa. Kumnandi, futhi kuzwakala kukuhle. Kepha ophumelele ngokweqile akabheki impumelelo njengento yokuyigubha.

Esikhundleni salokho, owedlula ngokweqile ugxile kakhulu ekugwemeni imiphumela emibi emizamweni yabo.

Bangabheka izindlela zokugwema umthwalo wokwehluleka, benqabe ukwamukela ukusolwa kwemithwalo yabo yemfanelo, noma babe nohlu lwezaba zokuthi kungani behlulekile.

Abaphuza ngokweqile bazozama ukuhlala bengathathi hlangothi uma besengozini yokwehluleka.

6. Ungumuntu othanda ukuphelela.

I-Perfectionism imvamisa iyikhono lokubhekana nokungaziphathi kahle lokuzenyeza noma ukukhathazeka.

Isidingo sokupheleliswa emizamweni yomuntu noma emsebenzini wakhe sinikeza ithuba lokubalekela elilungele ukwamukela umthwalo wemfanelo noma ukwahlulela.

Akekho umuntu ongakutshela ukuthi umsebenzi wakho mubi uma uhlala usebenza kuwo, ngakho-ke akukaze kwenziwe. Oweqa ngokweqile kungenzeka abe ngumuntu othanda ukuphelela, asebenze kanzima ngokungapheli emsebenzini wabo ukuze ungalokothi ubhekane nethuba lokugxekwa noma lokwehluleka. Yonke into kufanele iphelele, futhi izimo kufanele zilunge.

7. Ngokuvamile uhlala esikhathini esizayo.

Umuntu ophumelele ngokweqile ubheke phambili ezinkingeni ezingaba khona namaphrojekthi aqhamukayo.

Banenkathi enzima yokuba sesikhathini samanje futhi bajabulele lokho abanakho.

Impumelelo ayinikezi injabulo enkulu kepha kunalokho inikeza ukukhululeka kokuthi izinto azihambanga kabi. Futhi manje, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukuhlela iphrojekthi elandelayo noma ukukhushulwa.

Umuntu owedlula ngokweqile ubheka njalo amathuba okuqhubekela phambili, noma ngabe kubiza ini ezinye izici zempilo noma zezempilo.

8. Izenzo zakho nokukhetha kwakho kusekelwe ekwesabeni ukunganele noma ukunganeli ngokwanele.

Izenzo zakho eziningi nokukhetha maqondana nokufeza kuvela endaweni yokwesaba.

Ungahle usebenze kanzima, amahora amade emsebenzini ukondla izingane zakho, hhayi ngoba ufuna zijabule, kepha ngoba wesaba ukuba ngumzali ongafanele.

Umphathi uyazi ukuthi bangakucela njalo ukuthi wenze imisebenzi engathandeki emsebenzini, futhi uzovuma ngoba wesaba ukuba yisisebenzi esinenhlanhla.

Uvame ukuthi yebo kubangani bakho noma ube nemikhawulo emibi ngokomzwelo ngoba awufuni ukuba umngane omubi.

Oweqile ngokweqile angasebenza ngaphandle kwewashi noma azame ngasese ukwenza imisebenzi ukunikeza isithombe sokuthi bangakwazi ukuphatha yonke into.

9. Ungaba nobunzima bokungaqondakali kunoma yini.

Umuntu odlula ngokweqile uzizwa enesidingo sokwahlulelwa nokubalwa. Kungenzeka bangazenzi izinto ngenjabulo yokuzenza noma uma bengekho kahle kuzo.

Ama-overachievers nawo ajwayele ukuhehwa yimisebenzi abangahlulelwa ngayo ukufeza leso sidingo.

Ubuciko buyisibonelo esihle kakhulu. Noma ikuphi ukuphishekela kwezobuciko kungaletha injabulo, kukhulise ubuhlakani, futhi kukushiye nento oyenzele ezandleni zakho.

Kodwa umuntu owedlula ngokweqile akanandaba nalezo zinto. Bafuna ukudala okuthile okuhle. Okuthile okungcono kunokwenziwa abanye abantu. Azikwazi ukuba maphakathi noma zibe maphakathi kubuciko bazo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuyicala lokuzibophezela kwabo.

10. Ungahle ubheke ukuthi ngubani owenza lokho ebudlelwaneni bakho.

Ubudlelwano budinga umsebenzi ukuze uphumelele. Lowo msebenzi uhluka ekuphathweni kwemizwa, ukubhekana nobunzima bempilo, ukwenza umsebenzi wasendlini, nokunye okuningi.

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Umuntu ophumelele ngokweqile angazithola egcina njalo amaphuzu nomlingani wakhe ngokuthi ubani owenza ini.

Bangase bazizwe sengathi bencintisana ngqo nomlingani wabo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bangabalingani abahle.

Umuntu odlula ngokweqile angaba nobunzima bokuhlala azole, aphumule lapho egula, noma avumele umlingani wakhe asingathe umthwalo. Badinga ukuhambisana, badinga ukufeza, futhi bafakazele umlingani wabo ukuthi kufanelekile ukubathanda ngokwenza izinto.

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Ungayeka kanjani ukuba ngokweqile.

Uhlobo oluphilile lokuba umuntu odlula ngokweqile ukuthi abe ngumuntu osebenza kahle kakhulu.

Ungaba ngumuntu owenza izinto zenziwe, izinto eziningi zenziwe, ngaphandle kokubukela phansi ubudlelwane bakho noma konakalise impilo yakho.

Ukhiye wokwenza ushintsho ukuqonda ukuthi kungani uzizwa ukuthi udinga ukufinyelela ngokweqile kwasekuqaleni.

Lokho kungahle kuboshelwe entweni efana nobudlelwano obuhlukumezayo bangaphambilini, ukukhuliswa okuhlukumezayo, noma ezinye izingqinamba ezingasonjululwanga ezihlobene nokuzizwa kwakho unenhlalakahle. Ungadinga kakhulu ukuhlola lelo engela nomelaphi oqinisekisiwe wezempilo yengqondo ukuze udalule kangcono indaba yakho.

Usizo lochwepheshe eceleni, nazi izeluleko ezingasiza ukudonsela izenzo zakho endaweni enempilo.

1. Funda ukuthi cha.

Ama-overachievers avame ukuba nenkinga yokuthi 'yebo' kunoma yimaphi amaphrojekthi ahlangabezana nawo. Ukuthambekela kwabo kwemvelo ukuthi bangakwazi ngokuphelele futhi bazokuphatha.

Lokho kuyinkinga ngoba akuwona wonke amaphrojekthi afanele wena nempilo yakho. Unamahora amaningi kangaka ngosuku, futhi awufuni ukuwachitha ngokwenza amaphrojekthi kanye nezibopho zabanye lapho ungadingi.

Amathuba amahle kakhulu ukuthi abanye abantu basebenzise ukuzimisela kwakho ukuthi 'yebo' lapho bedinga ukwenziwa okuthile. Ungamangali uma abanye abantu abaseduze kwakho benesimo sengqondo noma bethukuthele lapho uqala ukuthi cha.

2. Gxila emsebenzini onenjongo.

Umuntu owedlulele ngokweqile ubheke ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi balungile noma bayafaneleka. Bakwenza lokho ngokufeza izinto.

Kwesinye isikhathi, owedlula ngokweqile uzothatha umsebenzi omncane noma ongenanjongo ukuze nje azinikeze umfutho owengeziwe kubo. Bangabheka umsebenzi ongabalulekile ukuze bavele benze okuthile futhi bakufeze, noma ngabe kungumsebenzi wabo noma cha.

Yenza izinqumo ezizwakalayo kulokho okwenzayo nokuthi kungani ukukwenza - buza ukuthi kungani uthatha isinqumo sokuthatha umsebenzi owengeziwe.

3. Yamukela ukuthi ukuphelela kungamanga.

Isidingo sokuphelela ngokuvamile sivela ezindaweni ezimnyama, ezibuhlungu. Kodwa awuphelele. Akekho. Akunakwenzeka ukuba.

Awusoze wenza wonke umsebenzi wakho, ubuciko, noma uthando ngokuphelele. Awusoze wakufeza ngokuphelele konke ofuna ukukufeza. Kungamanga okukugcina ekufinyeleleni okunenjongo.

Futhi qaphela abantu abalindele ukuphelela ngoba amathuba amahle bayayisebenzisa njengendlela yokulawula, ukumboza izinkinga zabo, noma ukugwema umthwalo.

4. Letha ngokwakho okwamanje.

Thatha imizuzu embalwa lapha nalaphaya ukuzindla. Zama ukuzindla okuqondisiwe ukuze uzame ukuletha ingqondo yakho njengamanje. Thatha isikhathi sokujabulela ukunqoba kwakho futhi ukhale ngokulahlekelwa kwakho okwamanje. Zijabulise lapho ukwazi khona futhi ungangeneli emsebenzini noma umthwalo olandelayo.

Umsebenzi uzohlala ukhona. Kuhle kakhulu okuphakade. Nguwe kuphela ongabhala isikhathi esimisweni sakho esimatasa sokuphumula futhi uthole ukuthula nenjabulo okwamanje. Ikhona ekulindile.

5. Yiba yiqiniso wena.

Ubuqiniso bakho abuphelele futhi ngeke buzuze njalo. Okuyiqiniso uzothola izinto zingahambi kahle ngezikhathi ezithile futhi kungahle kuxake.

Kepha ngokwethembeka nangokwethembeka ngezinkinga zakho esikhundleni sokuzifihla noma ukugwema ukwehluleka, udala ithuba elicebile lokuxhumana okunengqondo nabanye abantu.

Ubudlelwano obuqhamuka ekuthembekeni futhi bube yiqiniso buzojula kakhulu futhi buqine kakhulu kunalobo obungaphezulu obukhuliswe nguwe ngokudlalela okulindelwe abanye.

Ulunge ngokwanele, futhi ufanelekile - noma ngabe uthola impumelelo enkulu noma ukwehluleka.

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