Okukhulu noma okuncane, sibhekene nezinqumo eziningi nsuku zonke.
Imvamisa, bayasimisa lapho sihamba, bengaqiniseki ngalokho okufanele sikwenze.
Izimo zingahluka kokuncane kokushintsha impilo, futhi kungaba ezomuntu siqu noma ezobuchwepheshe, kepha sizithola sibhajwe okomvundla emalambini, sikhubazekile.
Ingabe kufanele uqale ibhizinisi lakho noma uhlale uyisigqila somholo kuze kube phakade?
Ngabe kufanele ubuyele esikoleni uvule indlela entsha yomsebenzi noma uhlale lapho ukhona?
uyeke kanjani ukuthanda umuntu ongakuthandi
Ingabe kufanele ubuqede ubudlelwano noma udle amazinyo akho bese unamathela ethembeni lokuthi izinto zizolunga?
Lezi yizibonelo ezimbalwa zezinqumo esihlala silwa nazo.
Uyacabanga, uyakhathazeka, bese uyeka ukukhetha noma iyiphi indlela, ngokujwayelekile ukubambeka kumjikelezo wokunqikaza.
Futhi into ekhungathekisayo ukuthi ubukhulu benkinga buvame ukuhlotshaniswa nesikhathi osichitha wenza isinqumo senkambo engcono kakhulu.
Kungaba yinto encane - ukunquma ukuthi uyasamukela yini isimemo esingalindelekile emshadweni womngani wasekolishi, isibonelo - kepha kungazizwa kukhulu uma ungazi ukuthi wenzeni ngenxa yokwesaba ukukhubekisa.
Ukuseshwa kwe- Okufanele Ukwenze singakhathazeka ngokweqile futhi, awu ma, isikhathi esiningi esichithwa phansi kulowo mgodi wonogwaja.
Ngakho-ke, yini ongayenza ukuze unqande lesi simo?
Njengesikhulu esishukumisayo, uJim Rohn, ukubeka:
Akukhathalekile ukuthi uhla luphi uhlangothi locingo kwesinye isikhathi. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukwehla! Awungeke uthuthuke ngaphandle kokwenza izinqumo.
Uma ungalahla lezi zinkinga - ukukhathazeka, ukungaqiniseki, nokungazi - futhi uhambise indlela yakho esinqumweni, cabanga nje ukukhululeka ongakuzwa.
Ngakho-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi uzenzele umusa ngokugxumela phansi kulolo cingo futhi wenze indlela yakho isebenze.
Noma isiphi isenzo, ngemuva kwakho konke, kungenzeka sibe ngcono kunesingekho.
UMongameli Theodore Roosevelt ukubeka ngale ndlela:
Kunoma yimuphi umzuzu wesinqumo, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza yinto elungile. Into embi kunazo zonke ongayenza ayilutho.
Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokuqeda inkinga yokunquma:
1. Funa ulwazi olufanele.
Kungenzeka ufike enkingeni ebonakalayo nganoma iyiphi inkinga obhekene nayo, kodwa akusona isimo esiyingqayizivele nesingakaze sibonwe nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Othile, ndawo thile, uzobe eseke wabhekana nayo futhi wabhekana nayo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi bakhiqize i-vlog, babhala ibhulogi, i-athikili, noma ngisho nencwadi emayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nohambo lwabo lokuxazulula le nkinga.
Funa lolo lwazi bese ulusebenzela ukuthola ukuthi uvelaphi lapha.
Thola umgomo wakho.
Kulula ukukholelwa ukuthi isenzo ogcina ukusithatha kungukuphela kwakho, kepha kaningi kunalokho, empeleni kumane kuyindlela yokuzifeza.
Isibonelo, ukuhlukana nobudlelwano obungagculisi akusona isiphetho, kepha izindlela (ngethemba) zokuthola ukuxhumana okuzwana kakhudlwana nomunye umuntu.
Lapho usuthole umgomo wakho wokugcina - iziphetho - ungaba nombono ocacile wezindlela ezingaba namandla zokukuletha lapho.
3. Sebenzisa impumelelo edlule ezinkingeni zamanje.
Icebo lapha lilula: hlola ukuthi yini okusebenzelile esikhathini esedlule bese wenza okuningi ngayo.
Encwadini yabo Shintsha: Ungaziguqula Kanjani Izinto Lapho Ushintsho Lunzima , U-Chip noDan Heath babiza le nqubo befuna izindawo ezikhanyayo.
Lapho ubambeke esimweni ungazi ukuthi wenzeni, cabanga ngempumelelo ephumelele yangaphambilini, noma ucabange ngezinkinga ozixazulule esikhathini esedlule.
Bese uzibuze:
- Laliyini isu eliphumelelayo?
- Uyixazulule kanjani inkinga?
- Iziphi izinyathelo ozithathile ukufeza izinhloso zakho?
- Ungazisebenzisa kanjani lezi zinto ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho zamanje?
umenze angikhumbule njengohlanya
Ngamafuphi, zindla ngezindawo ezikhanyayo bese ubheka izindlela zokuziphindaphinda ezimweni zakho zamanje.
4. Khulumisanani kahle.
Thola indlebe elalelayo ezwelayo bese uchaza inkinga yakho kulowo muntu.
Lokhu kungaba ngumngani, ilungu lomndeni, osebenza naye, umeluleki, noma ilungu lesithangami esiku-inthanethi. Ngamafuphi, noma ngubani ozolalela.
Inqubo nje yokuzwakalisa inkinga obhekene nayo inganqamula inkathazo engapheli obhajwe kuyo.
Noma ngubani okhuluma naye cishe ngeke athole impendulo eqondile.
ungagcina kanjani ingxoxo enhle iqhubeka
Kepha kukhona okuthile ngokubeka imicabango yakho ngendlela enengqondo yokuchaza isimo kumuntu wesithathu okungaletha ukucaca obekade ukufuna.
Kungaphumela kumzuzu wesibani sokukhanya futhi isenzo esifanele singabonakala.
Inzuzo eyengeziwe yokuchaza amaqiniso njengoba uwabona komunye umuntu amandla empendulo yabo ebalulekile.
Kubonwa ngombono wabo wokungachemi, bangahle babe nokuqonda okuthile okukuzwile kuze kube manje.
5. Thola umuntu oke waba sezicathulweni zakho.
Akukho okufana nesipiliyoni sokukuqondisa uma ubhekene nenkinga futhi ungakwazi ukukhomba isenzo esifanelekile.
Zama ukuthola umngani, ilunga lomndeni, noma ojwayelene naye obhekane nenkinga efanayo futhi cela usizo lwabo ekutholeni indlela yakho ebunzimeni.
Ngokuzuza kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, okuhle nokubi, izeluleko zabo noma iziphakamiso ngenkambo yesenzo zingaba lusizo olukhulu ekudedeleni ekumeni kokuthatha isinqumo.
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6. Zinike isikhala nebanga.
Imvamisa ukukhubazeka lapho ubhekene nenkinga akuhlobene ngqo nenkinga nhlobo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi izingcindezi nezingcindezi zomsebenzi, ezomndeni, kanye nokuphila kukonke kukushiye asikho isikhala sekhanda noma amandla angokomzwelo ukuthola indlela yakho edlule ukuvinjelwa kwengqondo yakho.
Kodwa-ke uyazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuyivika le nkinga, futhi ubambeka enkingeni yaphakade yokukhathazeka ungenathemba lokuthola indlela enqamula kumugqa wokungaqiniseki.
Uma uzizwa ukuthi kunjalo kuwe, isisombululo esihle kunazo zonke, uma kungenzeka ukukufeza, ukukwenza zinike isikhathi sakho.
Zama ukubaleka endaweni yakho ejwayelekile, izibopho zakho ezijwayelekile, nasesimisweni sakho.
Ukuguqulwa kwesimo nokushintsha kombono kungahle kulethe impendulo ku-conundrum ongakwazanga ukuyithola.
7. Thatha isinyathelo somntwana.
Esinye sezizathu ezivame kakhulu zokunamathela ocingweni ukuthi ufuna ukuqiniseka ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile.
Unqena ukwenza noma yini uze ube nesiqiniseko esingu-100%.
Kepha akukho lutho empilweni oluhlala lukhona. Kuzohlala kukhona izinto ongeke ukwazi ukubikezela izimanga eziphuma ngokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
Ngakho-ke kunokuba ulinde kuze kube uqiniseka ngo-100% esinqumweni sakho, yenza okuthile okuncane okucabanga ukuthi ususithathile leso sinqumo.
Bese ubona ukuthi kwenzekani nokuthi uzizwa kanjani ngakho.
Ucabanga ngokuthuthela kwelinye idolobha? Chitha impelasonto yonke lapho - ukuhlala ehhotela uma kufanele - ukuthola indawo yomhlaba.
Bona ukuthi kunjani ukuba lapho. Unjani umkhathi? Ingabe abantu bendawo banobungane? Ingabe inazo zonke izitolo, imigoqo, nezindawo zokudlela ezinhle ozifunayo?
Ufuna ukubhala incwadi yezingane? Vele uqale ngesahluko sokuqala.
Akudingeki ukuthi kube yindatshana eqediwe, kepha ngokufaka izinto phansi ephepheni, ungathola ugqozi oludingayo ukubhala isahluko esilandelayo, njalonjalo.
8. Musa ukulengiswa ekupheleleni.
Kwesinye isikhathi singabambeka ngoba sicabanga ukuthi noma yini esiyenzayo kumele kube yinto ephelele ngokuphelele engu-100% ezimweni.
Njengoba ikhambi eliphelele lithi njalo kunzima (futhi kwesinye isikhathi kungenzeki ukukhomba), umphumela wokugcina awunasenzo nhlobo.
Isibonelo kungaba ukubhala incwadi yenduduzo.
Uyakhathazeka ngalokho okufanele ubhale ngendlela yokududuza abashonelwe isikhathi eside kangangokuba ekugcineni, ikhadi alithunyelwa nhlobo.
Umphumela ophelele: unembeza wakho usinda futhi awekho amagama aduduzayo atholakalayo.
Ngakho-ke thatha isinyathelo sengane, njengoba kusikiselwe ngenhla, bhala amagama ambalwa alula, kodwa ungalindeli ukuphelela.
Akudingeki ukuthi kube yikhadi elihamba phambili, eligcwele ukukhuluma kakhulu abalitholayo, kodwa lizokwaziswa kakhulu kunokuthula.
ukuthi zingaki izingane ezenziwa insimbi yomsizi
Esinye isenzo, noma yisiphi isenzo, ngaso sonke isikhathi kungenzeka sibe ngcono kunokungenziwa nhlobo.
9. Hamba namathumbu akho.
Ungalokothi uyithathe kalula impendulo yakho engokomzwelo engokwemvelo.
Imizwa yakho yamathumbu iqondiswa izinkolelo nezindinganiso zakho eziyinhloko , okwenza babe umhlahlandlela onamandla kangaka lapho ufuna into efanele ukuyenza.
Ungazizwa uqotshiwe ngosayizi omkhulu wolwazi ojikeleza ikhanda lakho uma usuthole iseluleko sokuthi ungaxazulula kanjani isimo esinameva.
Gaya imininingwane, kepha bese uvumela isisu sakho semvelo sikuqondise enkambweni efanele yesenzo.
Qiniseka ukuthi uyalalela!
10. Gwema ukuba namawala.
Ngenkathi uzoba nentshisekelo yokwenza okuthile uma usuthathe isinqumo ngenkambo yokwenza, ungasheshi ukuyenza.
Uma ukwazi, lala kuso.
Leli khefu elifushane lizonikeza ingqondo yakho ithuba lokugxila kokunye, kuyilapho imibono ibila ngemuva.
Uma kusabonakala kuyinto elungile ukuyenza ngakolunye uhlangothi lokulala okuhle ebusuku, bese uqhubeka phambili.
11. Ungalaleli ukungabaza.
Lapho ekugcineni unesibindi sokuthatha isinyathelo ngemuva kokucabanga isikhathi eside nangokunzima Okufanele Ukwenze , kuvame kakhulu ukungabaza njengoba imiphumela yezenzo zakho iqhubeka.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma izinto zingahambi ngendlela obulindele ngayo.
Ungahlukunyezwa ngezinto okufanele ube nazo nalokho onakho, kepha ungakhohlwa yileli qiniso elibalulekile:
Wenze ngendlela owenze ngayo ngezinhloso ezinhle kuphela futhi wahloma kuphela ngolwazi owawutholakala wena ngesikhathi kwenziwa lesi sinqumo.
Unalokhu engqondweni, zama ukungamoshi amandla akho engqondo ngokucindezela ngezinto ezingahambisani nendlela obuhlele / othembe ngayo.
Uma sonke besingabusiswa ngokubheka emuva okungama-20-20, besizoba yisizwe esiphakeme kakhulu, impela.
Ngokufigqiwe…
Ukusebenzisa ezinye zalezi ziphakamiso kufanele kukunike isibindi osidingayo ukuze unqamule isikhubekiso sokungazi ukuthi wenzeni futhi sikuvumele uthathe isenzo.
Lokho kusho ukuthi, lesi sisho esingaziwa singase sibe iseluleko esihle kunazo zonke lapho maqondana nendaba yokuthi yini okufanele uyenze lapho ungazi ukuthi wenzeni:
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Thatha isinqumo. Okulungile noma okungalungile, yenza isinqumo. Umgwaqo wempilo ugandayiwe ngezingwejeje eziyizicaba ezingakwazanga ukuthatha isinqumo.
Ungabi yisikwele.
