Ngelinye ilanga ngiyobe ngihambile. Lokhu kimi. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuzokwenzeka njengomzuzwana wokuhamba uye ngasekushoneni kwelanga, kepha mhlawumbe kuzoba nokuqhuma okukhulu, ama-elekthronikhi abizayo, namashubhu angalawuleki, kucatshangwa ukuthi ngishiya lo Mhlaba ngenxa yokuguga hhayi ...
- isandla sami,
- isandla somunye umuntu,
- ukuzimela kwezepolitiki (okwaziwa nangokuthi impi),
- isibhakabhaka,
- ushaka,
- injabulo yezocansi, noma
- Ekugcineni ukuqonda ukuthi iCosmic Joke ayikho kithina sonke, akunjalo kuyinto sonke, sinekhono nje lokuxaka imigqa yezibhakela.
Isingeniso esisontekile ukusho ukuthi azikho izindlela ezishodayo zokuqeda ukuhlangana kwama-ambulensi kokuhlangenwe nakho esithanda ukukucabanga njengokwethu. Ngaphakathi kwaleyo mihlangano, yonke indawo yonke yezinto iqala futhi iphele.
Ngakho-ke ake sikhulume ngeziphetho ezingenakugwemeka, kodwa ngendlela egqamisa ubuhle. Umphumela wokwamukela lezi ziphetho ngukuthi impilo yakho izothuthuka ngokuphawulekayo.
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Ukufa
Sizoyikhipha enkulu endleleni. Le yiyo wonke umuntu abalekela kuyo, efaka izingalo zakhe sonke isikhathi.
Kodwa ake ucabange ukuthi besingazizwa silima kangakanani ukugijima sibalekele igumbi elingenaminyango. Kuzoba nenqwaba yamaphuzu angenangqondo okugoqa izindonga size sigcine sikhathele futhi kufanele siphumule.
Lokho ngukufa. Phumula. Ukulala kancane. Ukulala okukhulu. Konke okwakungathi “thina” okuholela kuleyo ndawo yokuphuma kuzolingana 'nathi ekufeni' noma 'kungasekho kithi' kuya ngokuthi sikubheka kanjani. (Kepha lowo ngumbuzo wezimbongi, ababhali bemidlalo, abakhohlisi nabapristi.)
Impendulo okuyiyo kuphela esidinga ukuzikhathaza ngayo yile: silapha njengamanje.
Asazi nakancane ukuthi ukufa kukuphi nokuthi kuzofika kanjani, ngakho-ke kunokuba sichithe isikhathi esiningi ngokweqile sikhathazeka ngokuthi asikatholi indawo yayo yokucasha, kufanele sisebenzisane nalokhu esinakho.
Phila impilo. Impilo ephilayo ithuthukisa impilo iphindwe kalikhulu lapho kwenziwa ngaphandle kwengqondo nomzimba ekuxwayisweni okubomvu kuMnu Snatch.
Kunabantu abafa ngokoqobo kuzo zonke izifunda zalo mhlaba njengamanje, kodwa kukhona nabantu abazalwayo, abantu abenza uthando, abantu abanambitha isobho, abantu abazama izingubo ezinhle, ngisho nabantu abanethemba lokuthola impendulo noma ezimbili kwi-World Wide Web .
Bhekana nalokho. Bhekana nayo futhi uzizwe ukhululekile ezinkingeni zokukhathazeka ngokuthile esingakwazi ukukubona, ukukuthinta, ukunambitha, ukuhogela, noma ukuzwa. Ngiyaqinisekisa ukuthi izoshintsha izinto.
Ukuguquguquka
U-Octavia Butler ongasekho, ongomunye wababhali bamanoveli abaqanjiwe kakhulu besayensi, wayenalokhu ukusho ngoguquko ochungechungeni lwakhe olumayelana nombono we-United States osesikhathini esizayo esiseduze, Umzekeliso woMhlwanyeli :
Konke okuthinta ukukushintsha. Konke okuguqukayo kuyakushintsha. Okuyiqiniso okuhlala njalo ushintsho. UNkulunkulu Ushintsho.
indlela yokukhuluma nobudlelwano naye
Ukuguquguquka kusho konke kungashintsha, futhi ekushintsheni, kuyaphela.
Lokho akuyona into embi ngempela. Ukujwayelana kuphenduka ubungane kuphenduka uthando. Imbewu iba yizithombo zibe yizihlahla zezithelo zibe yitshe legumbi lemiphakathi.
Ngisho nento elula nejwayelekile njengokudla kwasekuseni iyaphela, noma ngabe yingxenye yethu esiyithandayo yosuku noma cha.
Konke kuyashintsha. Ubungani, amandla omndeni, impilo yothando - ikakhulukazi uthando lwezimpilo, kodwa sizofika kulokho - bonke babhekana nenqubo yokuguquka kwenguquko, futhi ukuziphendukela kwemvelo akulandeli ukubophezeleka kokuziphatha. Ushintsho lungaba ngcono kokunye futhi / noma lube nobungozi kwesinye.
Ushintsho luqeda izinto ukuze izinto zikhule. Ukwamukela ushintsho kunokuba sizame ukukuvimba kusho ukuthi nathi, siyakhula, ngokufana nesihlahla esikhula siba side ngokwedlulele, sisondele kakhudlwana kumuntu waso ophakeme.
Lokho kuyinqoba, bangane bami.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Ungabhekana Kanjani Nokwesaba Kwakho Ukufa Futhi Wenze Ukuthula Ngokufa
- Izimpawu Eziyi-12 Oziguqulela Ezingeni Eliphakeme Lokuqaphela
- Izizathu eziyi-10 zokungathathi impilo ngokungathi sína
- Ungakunqoba Kanjani Ukwesaba Inguquko Futhi Ngokuzethemba Ubhekane Nezinselelo Ezintsha
- Ungayishintsha Kanjani Impilo Yakho Ibe Ngcono
Ubuqiniso Obuthembekile
Yebo, sonke sikhuluma ngokuphila impilo eyiqiniso, kepha imvamisa lokho kusho ukuthi akukho themba lokusiphonsela inselelo ukuthi sizelule ngaphandle kwezindawo zethu zokunethezeka.
Izindawo zokududuza zikhona kuphela ukusitshela ukuthi akukho lutho oluzophela siphephile amabhamuza ethu aqinile futhi akhelwe ukuhlala isikhathi eside.
Amanga. Akukho okunye ngaphandle kwamanga.
Ngokwethembeka, ukuphela kwempilo eyiqiniso yileyo esichithe senza izinto esingakaze sizenze phambilini, u-AKA ukufunda .
Impilo eyiqiniso ihlala izolile ekucabangeni, kepha ungalokothi ube nethemba elethusayo lokuthi, njenge-titmouse endle, ayikaze iqashelwe.
Uma samukela ukuthi zonke izinto ziyaphela, samukela ukuphela kwamabhamuza ethu okunethezeka.
Lokhu kuvula izimpilo zethu ekutholeni okuningi okuhle kakhulu ukuthi kuzoba nzima ukungazisoli ngokungakwenzi masinyane, yize ukuzisola, njengokubheka emuva, kuningi kodwa ngokuvamile kungenamsebenzi.
Nikela amandla, esikhundleni salokho, ngokwethembeka ekubeni yithina: izidalwa ezikulo Mhlaba ezimagange ukufunda ukuthi kukhona okuningi kithi kunokuhlangana neso.
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Uthando
Uthando olusha, uma sinenhlanhla, luphenduka uthando oludala. Ingabe siyilungele inqubo yokuguga? Ngabe sikulungele ukwamukela ukuthi isikhumba esibushelelezi, esingenasici esisiphulula ngentshiseko enjalo sizoba imibimbi, sibe namachashaza, futhi simboze amathambo aminyene, achy?
Uthando lwentsha luyaphela. Njalo. Ukuvuthwa kuyakuyala. Ingabe sikulungele?
Uthando oluvuthiwe uthando olubuza imibuzo, ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Izimpendulo zalo zivame ukubamba abantu bengazelele, ngoba izimpendulo zalo zibekelwe kushintsho:
- Ingabe isithandwa sami engangithandana naso?
- Ngabe yimina abathandana naye?
- Ngabe sisese-equation, noma kukhona ukungalingani?
- Yini eshintshile phakathi kwethu?
Ukwazi ukuthi uthando alunalutho ngaphandle kokuphela okukhulu nokuncane kuzo zonke izindlela zokuphila kuvumela ukwanda kwenhliziyo, nayo evumela ukunotha, ukuqonda okuhlukahlukene kothando ukusithwala ohambweni lwethu lwempilo.
Uthando luyimbewu yakho konke esikwenzayo. Kukuthula.
Uma singakwemukela ukuthula njengento engaphansi kwemisinga kanye nokushintshwa koshintsho (kokuphela nokuqala), sisondela kuyo yonke into empilweni singazesabi kakhulu 'izinto' esiziqoqele kithi ukuthi zisuswe.
Ukwamukelwa Ekugcineni
Ukwamukela ukuthi zonke izinto zizophela kuzo:
okufanele ukwenze lapho impilo yakho iyisicefe
- Thuthukisa impilo yakho yothando
- Kwenze ube ngaphezulu umuntu othembekile
- Kukuqinise isibindi ukuthi uyeke ukucabanga ngokufa njengomuntu ophansi kombhede wakho
- Kukulungiselela ushintsho NOGUQUKO, ngoba okukhulu nokuncane akulandeli amaphethini noma amashejuli angenakuguqulwa, avele eze. Baqeda izinto. Baqeda konke.
Ingabe igama elithi “ukuphela” ngokwemvelo limbi? Cha. Ukuphela kufana ne-Big Big Bang yamathuba angenamkhawulo, izinjini zezingxenye ezilinganayo zokudalwa nokubhujiswa.
Kukhona indlela eyimfihlo eyisihlanu yokuvumela ukuphela ukuthi kuthuthukise impilo yomuntu:
Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuphela kuyinto embi.
Ukwesaba kwethu kwenza iziphetho zizwakale njengezinkuni ezimnyama nezindlu eziphansi ezingaphansi, lapho iqiniso liphikisana ngokuphelele: Konke kuyaphela, bese - kuguqulwa - kuyaqala futhi.
