Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuhlanganyela imisebenzi yasekhaya kubaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni obujabulisayo kunanini ngaphambili.
Eqinisweni, manje sekungokwesithathu ohlwini lwezinto ezenza ubudlelwano busebenze, ngemuva kokwethembeka (duh!) Kanye nokwaneliseka kwezocansi.
Lokho kusho isifundo esenziwe yiPew Research Center lokho kuqhathanisa izimo zengqondo ngezikhathi ezihlukene ezikhomba iminyaka eyi-17.
Ngaleso sikhathi, inani labaphendulile abathi ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasendlini 'kubaluleke kakhulu' emshadweni ophumelelayo lenyuke lasuka ku-47% laya ku-62%.
Okugqame kakhulu ukuthi lokhu kukhuphuka kuyafana kuwo wonke amadoda nabesifazane, abadala nabancane, noma abantu abashadile nama-singleton.
ngubani owawina umsindo wokuqala wasebukhosini
Futhi izindaba ezinhle azigcini lapho ngemibhangqwana ehlanganyela imisebenzi yasekhaya nxazonke.
I- ucwaningo lwamuva iphakamisa ukuthi imibhangqwana ehlukanisa ngokulinganayo imisebenzi yasendlini iba nobulili obuningi kunangaphambili futhi nobulili obuningi, ngokwesilinganiso, kunalabo lapho umlingani oyedwa enza iningi lemisebenzi.
Lokhu kuphambana nomkhuba ophelele wabalingani abenza ucansi oluncane kunasemashumini eminyaka adlule.
Umbiko uphakamisa ukuthi ubulungiswa yisizathu esiyinhloko salokhu:
Izithandani zibika ukuthi ziya ocansini olusezingeni eliphezulu nangaphezulu lapho zeneliseka ngobudlelwano bazo. Esimweni somphakathi sanamuhla, ikhwalithi yobudlelwano nokuzinza ngokuvamile kuphakama kakhulu lapho imibhangqwana ihlukanisa imisebenzi yasendlini ngendlela ebona ilingana noma ilungile. Futhi ubufakazi bukhombisa ukuthi lapho amadoda enza ingxenye enkulu yomsebenzi wasendlini, imibono yabesifazane yokulunga kobudlelwano nokwaneliseka kukhulu.
Futhi esinye futhi isifundo ithole ukuthi imibhangqwana enokuhlukaniswa okulingana ngokwengeziwe emisebenzini yasekhaya iyajabula futhi yaneliseka ngokwengeziwe.
Njengoba abalobi bephetha:
Kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane, izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lentokozo nokwaneliseka ngempilo isiyonke kwenzeka ngaphakathi kwemodeli yezindima ezabiwe.
Ngakho-ke umyalezo ucacile kwabesilisa nabesifazane ngokufanayo: uma ufuna ukuphila impilo enenjabulo ku- ubuhlobo obunempilo futhi ujabulele izimpilo ezingcono zobulili, uhlukanise imisebenzi ngendlela efanele futhi elinganayo.
Kepha iyiphi indlela engcono yokwenza lokho?
Ukulinganisela i-Chore Rota
Ukuhlukaniswa okuphelele okungu-50/50 akudingekile ukuthuthukisa isimo sobudlelwano bakho, ikakhulukazi uma umlingani oyedwa okwamanje enakekela imisebenzi eminingi yasendlini.
kusayina ukuthi akasafuni ubuhlobo
Eqinisweni, abantu banezibopho zesikhathi ezihlukile mayelana nomsebenzi neminye imisebenzi.
Okubalulekile ukuthi umuntu owenza imisebenzi embalwa akhuphule kancane inani alenzayo kuze kube kutholakala ukulingana okusebenzayo.
Mhlawumbe ukwahlukana okukhona phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho kungu-80/20 futhi ukushintsha lokhu kusondele ku-60/40. Ngenkathi omunye umuntu esaphinda futhi enza umsebenzi omningi njengalowo omunye, lowo muntu uzozwa ukuthi ubudlelwano buhamba kahle kunangaphambili.
ungayeka kanjani ukucabanga ngokweqile ngezinto ebudlelwaneni
Lokhu kungabi nabulungisa kuzoguqulela ekwanelisekeni okukhulu ngobudlelwano njengobonke - kuzo zombili izinhlangothi.
Ngokuvamile, kunengqondo ukuthi umuntu ngamunye athathe umthwalo wemisebenzi ethile. Lokhu kubenza bakwazi ukusebenza kahle futhi baqede umsebenzi ngamunye ngesikhathi esincane.
Uma kungenzeka, zama ukwaba imisebenzi ngokuya ngokuthi umuntu uthokozela kangakanani - noma, okungenani, akakwenyanyi - ukuyenza.
Ngakho-ke uma omunye wenu engakhathazeki ngokusebenzisa i-duster ngaphezulu kwendlu ngenkathi omunye umuntu ethola ukugunda utshani ngomsebenzi weZen, yenza lezo zinto.
Vele, kuzoba khona imisebenzi okungekho kini eniyithokozelayo. Uma nobabili nizonda ukukhipha udoti, futhi ukungavali amapayipi akuwona umqondo womuntu wokuzijabulisa, qiniseka ukuthi uhlukanisa lokhu ngokufanele futhi.
Umuntu ngamunye kufanele abe nenhlanganisela yezinto ajabula ukuzenza, izinto azithola zidinisa kancane, nezinto angathanda ukungazenzi.
Futhi lapho kunethuba lokwenza umsebenzi ndawonye, thatha. Imisebenzi efana nokugeza izitsha noma ukususa ukhula engadini kunganikeza isikhathi sokubamba noma ukujabulela nje inkampani yomunye nomunye - okwenza kujabulise kakhulu nobudlelwano bakho busondele.
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Kubonisa Ukwazisa
Enye indlela yokwenza ukuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi yasendlini kukusebenzele ukukhombisa ukwazisa kwangempela ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle.
Lapho usebenzise isikhathi sakho samahhala wenza imisebenzi edingekayo ukuze uphathe ikhaya eliphumelelayo, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzovuma ukuthi kuzwakala kubaluleke kakhulu uma umlingani wakho Ngiyabonga ngakho.
Futhi ungacabangi umzuzwana ukuthi ukwehlukanisa izinto ngokulinganayo kwenza ukubonga kungathandeki ukuzwa.
umyeni wami uhlala efonini yakhe
Kodwa lokhu akusho nje ukuncoma isidlo sakusihlwa ophekiwe umlingani wakho. Kusho ukubonga ngokweqiniso ngomsebenzi ngamunye umlingani wakho awunakekelayo - kusuka ekuqoqeni ngemuva kwezingane nasekuhlanzeni amawindi.
Ukwazi nje ukuthi uyaziswa nguzakwenu kwenza wonke umehluko endleleni ozizwa ngayo ngokuqedela imisebenzi ongayithokozeli ngokukhethekile.
Ukugcina Ibhalansi Ezimweni Ezishintshayo
Uma kunesiqiniseko esisodwa empilweni, ukuthi izinto ziyashintsha. Lapho izimo zomlingani oyedwa zishintsha, noma lapho iyunithi lomndeni lishintsha lilonke, kufanelekile ukuthi ubuye ubuke irota yomsebenzi ukugcina ukwabiwa okufanele.
Kunezibonelo eziningi zalokhu, futhi ezinye ezijwayelekile zingafaka:
- Uma umlingani oyedwa elimala ngokomzimba noma okunye ukuwohloka kwezempilo, imisebenzi kufanele isuswe ukuze bathathe okuncane, noma bashintshele endimeni abangayenza naphezu kwesimo sabo esiguqukayo.
- Uma ingane entsha izalwa emndenini, lindela ukuthi ukwabiwa kwemisebenzi kuzoshintsha kakhulu okwesikhashana njengoba ingane ithatha ukunakekelwa kukanina okuningi.
- Uma omunye umlingani kudingeka ukuthi athathe umsebenzi owengeziwe okhokhelwayo, kungenzeka balindele ukuthi omunye abagcwalisele uma kukhulunywa ngeminye yemisebenzi yabo.
- Uma isikhathi somlingani oyedwa sithathwa ngemisebenzi yezokuphatha 'engabonakali' njengokuhlela iholide lomndeni noma ukubhekana nabasebenza ngokulungiswa kwamakhaya, indlela ohlukanisa ngayo eminye imisebenzi ingashintshwa okwesikhashana.
Khumbula, konke kwehlela ekutholeni uqhekeko oluzwakala lulungile kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Akekho ofuna ukuzizwa ethwele kanzima ngemisebenzi ethile lapho umlingani wakhe engenzi lutho.
