Ungabhekana Kanjani Nozakwethu Ongakwethembi: Izinyathelo Ezi-4 Ezibalulekile!

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Ukwethembana kuyisisekelo sobuhlobo obunothando.



Ubudlelwano ngaphandle kokuthembana abunakuchuma ngokweqiniso futhi bube nempilo ngoba umuntu ongethembeki uchitha amandla angokomzwelo kokwesaba kwabo.

Ubudlelwano buba umthombo wengcindezi nokukhathazeka esikhundleni sendawo yothando nokunethezeka.



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Lokho akusho ukuthi abantu abanezinkinga zokwethembana abakwazi ukuba nobudlelwano obunothando, obujabulisayo.

Noma kunjalo, badinga ukuthi bazimisele ukuphuma ngaphandle kwendawo yabo yokuhlala ukuze bakwazi ukubhekana futhi banqobe izinkinga zabo zokwethenjwa.

Kungani abantu behlangabezana nezinkinga zokuthembana?

Izwe liyindawo enolaka, futhi abantu abahlali benza ngomusa kwabanye.

Ukwesaba nentukuthelo kuqhuba izici eziningi zokuziphatha kwabantu kangangokuba ukukha umucu owodwa kungadala ukuthi ezinye ezimbalwa zivele.

Kungaba nezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umuntu enezinkinga zokuthembana ebudlelwaneni, kepha ake sithinte ezinye zezikhulu.

1. Babezungezwe ubudlelwano obungenampilo bekhula.

Abantu abakhulele emakhaya ahlukene noma anesiphithiphithi bangase bavele nombono ongalungile ngobudlelwano.

Kungenzeka ukuthi babuke lokho abazali babo abakwenzayo komunye nomunye futhi bacabanga ukuthi bunjalo bonke ubudlelwano.

Ngakho-ke, bangena ebudlelwaneni babo, becabanga ukuthi okubi kakhulu okuzokwenzeka.

Ukungathembani kwabo kwakhelwe ekucabangeni ukuthi badinga ukulungiselela ukulimala.

Ibanga elingokomzwelo lisiza ukunciphisa ukushaya.

2. Babehlukunyezwa noma bekhohliswa ebudlelwaneni bangaphambilini.

Ukukhohliswa kungaphazamisa yonke into umuntu ayicabangayo ngomhlaba wakhe.

Akulula njengokuphula ukwethenjwa. Umuntu angazithola ebuza ukuthi yini edale ukuthi akhethe umlingani onjalo, yiziphi izinkomba azishalazelele noma azilahlile, futhi abuze ukuzithemba kwakhe.

Ukukhashelwa komuntu omthandayo nomhloniphayo kuyinto engashintsha umuntu ngokujulile.

3. Kungenzeka kube nokwephula ukwethembana ebudlelwaneni.

Kwesinye isikhathi izinto zenzeka ebudlelwaneni futhi izithandani zizama ukulungisa izinto ukuze zihlale ndawonye.

Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi izinto azinakusetshenzelwa.

Kunzima ukwethemba ngomlando wenkohliso. Futhi ukungathembeki kunzima ukukuthola.

Ukubuyisela esimweni esidingekayo kudinga umuntu owoniwe ukuthi axolele, asebenze futhi aphathe yonke imizwa ezungeze ukwephula ukwethembana.

Lokho kufaka ukusola nokwesaba ukuthi ngabe kuzophinda kwenzeke / nini, noma ngabe uzimisele ngokungakuvumeli ukuthi kuphinde kwenzeke.

Akunabantu abaningi abangakwenza lokho. Kwesinye isikhathi ubudlelwano buyephuka buze bungasakwazi ukubulungiswa futhi budinga ukuphela kuphela.

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Kepha kuthiwani uma uqala ubudlelwano obusha noma uzimisele ukubusebenzisa? Yini-ke? Izinyathelo ezilandelayo zingasiza.

Abantu abaningi bakuthola kuwusizo ukusebenza ngalezi zinyathelo nobuchwepheshe bobudlelwano eceleni kwabo. Kungaba nguwe wedwa noma njengombhangqwana, ukuba nomuntu ozolalela izingqinamba obhekene nazo futhi akunikeze izeluleko ezithile kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngale njongo, sincoma. Izikhathi zabo eziku-inthanethi zikuvumela ukuthi uxhumane nesazi sobudlelwano futhi unikeze izinto ithuba eliphakeme lokusebenza. ukukhuluma nomuntu manje.

Isinyathelo 1: Beka imingcele yalokho okwamukelekayo nokungamukeleki.

Imingcele iyingxenye ebalulekile yokuzivikela ekucindezelekeni okungavela ngokusebenza ngalezi zinkinga.

Zisebenza njengendlela yokunciphisa umthelela wemizwelo, okulindelwe, nokuziphatha okungavela ngokungabi nethemba.

Kukhona okulindelekile futhi okungenangqondo ongase ube nakho.

Ukulindela okunengqondo kungafaka izinto ezinjengalezi:

- ukwazisa umlingani wakho ukuthi uyaphi nokuthi uzoba nini ekhaya.

- ukungena uma uzohlala isikhathi eside.

- ukungagcini izimfihlo mayelana nokuthi wenzani nokuthi uyaphi.

Ukulindela okungenangqondo okuhlukumezayo kufaka phakathi izinto ezifana nokuthi:

- ukuqapha ukuxhumana kwakho nabangane nomndeni.

- ukulawula noma ukuncisha ukufinyelela kubangani nomndeni.

- usebenzisa izinsiza zokuqapha indawo kumadivayisi eselula.

- ukuphoqa ukuthi ungene njalo ehoreni lapho uphume nabangani bakho noma usebenza.

- ekumangalela ngokukhohlisa ngaphandle kwesizathu.

- noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okuzama ukusebenzisa amandla noma ukulawula kuwe.

Futhi-ke kunezindawo eziningi ezimpunga okufanele zibhekwane nazo ngazodwana.

Isibonelo, abanye abantu abaneme nje ngabalingani babo bezihlalela nabalingani babo bakudala. Kodwa-ke, ungahle ube sebudlelwaneni lapho babambisana khona ukuze bazuze kakhulu ingane yabo.

Kuyafaneleka ukuxoxa ngokuthi imiphi imingcele yakho maqondana nezinkinga zabo zokwethembana ukuze nobabili nazi ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okuzobekezelelwa nokungazukubekezelelwa.

Yize ezinye izimo zingahlali zimnyama futhi zimhlophe, akufanele neze ubekezelele ukuhlukunyezwa ukwenza umlingani wakho anethezeke.

Lokhu kuzokulimaza kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi akusizi ngalutho kumlingani wakho.

Awusiye umzanyana wabo. Kudingeka ukuthi bafunde ukwelashwa ekuhlukumezeni kwabo futhi baphathe imizwa yabo.

Isinyathelo 2: Beka okulindelwe emizameni yamanje neyesikhathi esizayo.

Kunesizathu sokuthi othile akathembi ebudlelwaneni. Futhi ngeke bakwazi ukubhekana nokulungisa leso sizathu uma bengakulungele noma bengazimisele ukubhekana nale nkinga.

Amathuba mahle kakhulu ukuthi azodinga okungaphezulu kwezinye izindatshana ze-intanethi noma indlebe enobungane ukuze angene emthonjeni wokungathembani kwabo.

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Lokho kulindela kudinga ukuhlangatshezwa ngesenzo lapho kungenzeka.

Mhlawumbe abakwazi ukukhokhela ukuya kumeluleki ukuze baxazulule lezo zinkinga njengamanje, kodwa mhlawumbe bazovuma lapho bezinzile ngokwezezimali.

Ukulindela kwakho okuyinhloko kubo kufanele kube ukuqonda kwangempela kubo ukuthi le yinkinga edinga ukuxazululwa.

Uma kungeke kubhekwane nakho, lo muntu angahle angatholakali ngokomzwelo ukuba abe sebudlelwaneni obunempilo njengamanje. Kuyenzeka.

Ungayivumeli idangele noma ikhule buthule. Awukwazi ukusiza umuntu ongafuni ukuzisiza, futhi awukwazi ukumlungisela le nkinga. Kufanele bazilungisele bona.

Konke ongakwenza ukuzama ukunikeza noma yikuphi ukwesekwa onomuzwa wokuthi kulungile futhi kufanelekile.

Isinyathelo 3: Gxila ekwakheni ukwethenjwa ngokuba ngumuntu onokwethenjelwa.

Ukuthembela kunzima ukusungula uma ungeke ubhekwe njengomuntu othembekile.

Ukukhombisa ukwethembeka akunzima njengoba abantu becabanga.

Imayelana nezinto ezifana nokwenza lokho othi uzokwenza, ukukhombisa ngesikhathi, ukushaya ucingo lapho uthi uzokwenza, nokulwela ukwethembeka kulokho okushoyo nokwenzayo.

Ukuqinisekiswa okuhle nokusekelwa ngezikhathi ezinzima kungasiza kakhulu lapho uzama ukukhombisa ukuthi ukhona futhi ukhona ngomzabalazo wabo.

Bangakuthola kunzima ukukwamukela, kepha kufanelekile ukukwenza.

Lezi zinto ezincane zengeza emandleni egama lakho nasempilweni yonke yokuxhumeka.

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Abantu bayaqaphela lapho kunokungahambisani nokungahambelani. Futhi abantu abangathembi futhi ababukeka njalo bahle kakhulu ekutholeni lokho okungahambelani.

Uma ufuna ukwethenjwa, udinga ukwenza ngendlela ethembekile.

Isinyathelo 4: Yiba nesineke futhi uzimisele ukuvumela lowo muntu abhekane nezinkinga zakhe.

Ukubekezela kuyimfanelo entulekayo emphakathini wanamuhla. Sonke simatasa kakhulu, sinezinto eziningi okufanele sizenze, futhi sijwayele ukuzanelisa ngokushesha ngobuchwepheshe bethu.

Noma kunjalo, inqubo yokuzithuthukisa nentuthuko akuyona into eyenzeka ngokushesha.

Ukuphulukiswa kwamanxeba okungenzeka ukuthi ebephuma buthule iminyaka kudinga isikhathi nomzamo ongaguquguquki.

Udinga ukubekezela ukuze ube nguzakwethu kothile osebenza ngezinkinga zabo zokuthembana.

Badinga ukuba nesikhathi esanele sokukhipha leyo mithwalo, bahlele ngayo, belaphe kuyo, futhi bafunde izindlela ezinempilo zokusebenza ebudlelwaneni.

Kungaba nezimpikiswano nokungaphatheki kahle kuyo yonke le nqubo, kepha ukusungulwa kwemingcele yakho kuzokusiza ukukugcina endaweni enengqondo enempilo.

Kepha, uma ungakwenza lokho, uzothola ukuthi uza ngenqubo enobudlelwano obusondelene ngokujulile obukhula othandweni nasekuhlonipheni.

Ukuhamba indlela yokuphulukisa nomuntu akuyona into encane futhi kuletha abantu ndawonye njengoba ezinye izinto ezimbalwa zingenza.

Ngeshwa, akubona bonke abantu abazimisele noma abafuna ukusebenza ngezinkinga zabo.

Mhlawumbe abanazo izindlela. Kungenzeka ukuthi bebengaboni ukuthi kunenkinga edinga ukulungiswa. Noma mhlawumbe banenkani nje .

Noma ngabe siyini isizathu, kungahle kwehle ekuthathweni kwesinqumo sokuthi ngabe lobo budlelwano buyisinqumo esihle yini kuwe.

Kungenzeka kungabi njalo. Futhi lokho kulungile.

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