Ingqondo ingaba yinto enkulu neyesabekayo.
Kuhle ukuthi singakhiqiza imibono nemibono emisha eminingi yomhlaba.
Kubi lapho kuqala ukusebenza ngokumelene nathi ukubukela phansi inqubekela phambili yethu nempumelelo.
Abantu abeza nemibono emikhulu noma bathola impumelelo kokunye ukuphila kwabo bangazithola sebebhekene ne-imposter syndrome.
I-Imposter syndrome wukwesaba okwenziwa ngaphakathi komuntu ekugcineni abe yikho ukukhishwa njengenkohliso.
Bayakungabaza ukufeza kwabo, banciphisa ulwazi lwabo nolwazi lwabo, futhi bangabaze amakhono abo njengomphumela.
Abantu abaningi abaphumelele, kusuka kosomabhizinisi kuya kubadwebi, baba ne-imposter syndrome. Futhi akukhawulelwe emisebenzini yezobuchwepheshe.
Umuntu angaba ne-imposter syndrome ngokuba muhle ngokwedlulele kokuzilibazisa okuthile, kepha angaqeqeshwanga ngokomsebenzi, ngakho-ke behlisa ikhono labo namandla abo.
Singakunqoba kanjani ukukhukhumeza futhi sizethembe ngempumelelo yethu namakhono ethu?
Qonda ukuthi awudingi ukuba ngophambili kulokho okwenzayo.
Abantu abanesifo se-imposter syndrome bangabukela phansi amakhono abo ngamakhono beziqhathanisa kubantu asebephumelele kakhulu noma abafundile babona ukuthi bangcono kulokho abakwenzayo.
Lokho yi ukulindela okungenangqondo kanye nezinga lokuzibamba.
Kuzohlala kukhona umuntu onolwazi kakhulu futhi ongcono kunawe entweni oyinikiwe.
Futhi kuzohlala kukhona umuntu owazi kangcono futhi ongcono kuleyo nto kunomuntu ozibambe kuye.
Ukuthi othile ungcono kokuthile, akusho ukuthi umnikelo wakho awubalulekile.
Gcina umbono ngokuzikhumbuza ukuthi labo bantu obabeke ezinyaweni banobuntu obufana nobakho, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bake baba nokwesaba nokungabaza okufana nokwakho.
Akudingeki ukuthi ube umhlabeleli kulokho okutholayo ukufeza impumelelo nempumelelo.
lapho umfana ebuka emehlweni akho
Yamukela ukuthi ubambe iqhaza empumelelweni yakho nempumelelo yakho.
Ukulinganisela kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Kuhle uku zithobeni , kodwa futhi kuhle ukukwazi ukuthatha isikweletu lapho kufanele khona.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, nguwe owenze umzamo futhi wazibeka engcupheni yokufinyelela empumelelweni onayo.
Kulungile uma ubusizwa endleleni. Akekho ophumelela kunoma yini ngaphandle kosizo oluvela kwabanye abantu. Leso akusona isizathu esizwakalayo sokuyekisa impumelelo yakho.
Noma ngabe ubusizwa noma ume emahlombe abantu abeza ngaphambi kwakho, ubuseneminikelo yakho yokwenza futhi wakwenza lokho.
Zinike isikhathi sokubheka ukuthi uqale kuphi, ukuphi njengamanje, nokuthi uyaphi.
Vuma umzamo wakho nomsebenzi, iyiphi amandla nezinsizakusebenza ozisebenzisile ukufinyelela lapho ukhona.
Gxila kumkhiqizo wokugcina womsebenzi wakho nenani olinikeza abanye.
Abukho ubufakazi obukhulu bokusebenza kunemiphumela nenani oliletha emhlabeni.
Umuntu osebenze kanzima ukudala okuthile uzoba nobufakazi obuphathekayo bekhono lakhe phambi kwabo.
Mhlawumbe kungumkhiqizo othengisa kahle, ubufakazi obuvela kumakhasimende, impendulo enhle evela kumlandeli othande ucezu lobuciko oludalile, noma ofinyelela umgomo omkhulu .
Ukwesaba nokungabaza okujova i-imposter syndrome kunganqotshwa ngokugxila kulobobufakazi obuphathekayo balokho okufezile.
Uyayibheka bese ulwa naleyo ndaba engezansi engemihle ngeyakhayo. Qinisekisa ukuthi umsebenzi nekhono lakho kusizile ukudala noma yini okuyiyona futhi kuphoqa izinqubo zokucabanga ezingezinhle zisuke engqondweni yakho.
Ukusho okulula kunokukwenza, akunjalo? Kulula, kepha akulula. Kepha kuba lula lapho ukwenza ngokwengeziwe.
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Yamukela ukuthi ungumuntu futhi uzowenza amaphutha. Lokho akusho ukuthi ungumkhohlisi.
Wonke umuntu uyawenza amaphutha. Wonke umuntu. Akunandaba ukuthi ucebile noma umpofu, uchwepheshe noma umqali, uhlakaniphile noma cha. Wonke umuntu uyawenza futhi uzowenza amaphutha uma bezama ukwenza noma yini.
Abantu abanesifo se-imposter syndrome bavame ukuthatha iphutha abalenzile futhi balibeke njengesiqinisekiso sokuthi abalungile njengoba becabanga ukuthi bangabantu noma ukuthi bayinkohliso.
Kodwa akubona ubufakazi bokuba ngumkhwabanisi. Ukuzama nokwehluleka kokunye kuwubufakazi bokuthi wenza umzamo osebenzayo wokushintsha okuthile.
Ukwehluleka kuyingxenye yenqubo yempumelelo. Uma ukhula uye bheka ukwehluleka njengengxenye yendlela eya empumelelweni , baqala ukuphelelwa ngamandla abo kuwe.
Ungavele uhlabe umkhosi uzitshele, “Kulungile. Ngenze leli phutha. Ayikho inkinga enkulu. Asithole isixazululo. ” Bese uqhubekela engxenyeni elandelayo yalokho ofuna ukukufeza.
Ngemuva kwawo wonke amabhizinisi aphumelelayo kuvame ukuba nochungechunge lwezinqumo ezimbi, ukwehluleka, nokuqala kabusha njengoba abantu ababandakanyekayo belungisa futhi behlonipha indlela abasebenza ngayo. Konke okubonayo empeleni kungumphumela wokugcina womsebenzi omningi.
Qonda ukuthi awudingi ukuba nazo zonke izimpendulo.
Umuntu ophethwe i-imposter syndrome angazizwa sengathi uyinkohliso uma engenazo zonke izimpendulo zemibuzo abuzwa yona.
Inkinga ngale mindset ukuthi akekho noyedwa, ngisho nochwepheshe onolwazi kakhulu, onazo zonke izimpendulo zayo yonke imibuzo abuzwa yona.
Kulungile ukungazazi izinto, njengoba nje kufanelekile ukwehluleka ezintweni.
Eqinisweni, empeleni ungakuthuthukisa ukwethembeka kwakho ngokuvuma ukuthi awuzazi izinto uma ucindezelwe ngodaba ongajwayelene nalo.
Ukuntuleka kolwazi akukwenzi ube ngumkhwabanisi noma umkhohlisi. Ukuntuleka kolwazi kuyinto ongayilindela.
Kukhona i-trope ejwayelekile lapho umuntu ofunda ngendaba ethile abona ukuthi kungakanani empeleni angazi ngakho. Kuyinto trope ngoba iqiniso.
Ulwazi ngento ethile lusiza ukukhanyisa lapho kunezikhala nezimbobo kulokho ocabanga ukuthi uyakwazi ngale ndaba. Lokho kuvamile futhi kulindelekile.
Phusha kuyo bese uqhubeka usebenza, kungakhathalekile ukuthi uzizwa kanjani.
Iqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi abanye abantu basazizwa benomuzwa ojulile wokungabi yilungu, noma ngabe basebenza ngenkuthalo ukukuvimba.
Ungazithola ulwa ne-imposter syndrome noma ngabe uzama kangakanani ukuyidambisa noma ukuyikhulula.
Kunabantu abathile abaye balwa nayo ngisho nangemva kokuphila okufeziwe. Abantu bayathanda UMaya Angelou , UTom Hanks , U-Emma Watson , futhi UNeil Gaiman bonke benze izitatimende zomphakathi ngokuzizwa njengabakhohlisi yize bekwenzile.
ufuna ukuyithatha kancane kepha uyangithanda
Kwesinye isikhathi asikwazi ukubalekela indlela esizizwa ngayo, noma singazama kangakanani.
Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi usengakhetha ukubhekana nokwesaba nokungabaza kwakho uphinde ukudlulele empumelelweni.
Awudingi ukuvumela le mizwa emibi ikuyekise noma yehlise ijubane ekuphishekeleni kwakho okufunayo empilweni, ukuthi ufuna ukufeza ini, yiziphi izinhloso ofuna ukuzichoboza.
Ungavumeli ukwesaba nemizwa yakho kukuvimbe.
Hlunga ngazo uma udinga, zikhumbuze ukuthi i-imposter syndrome akuyona into enembile yokuthi ungubani, gcina amehlo akho emgomweni wakho bese ulandela kanzima ngangokunokwenzeka!
