Wake wazikholisa ukuthi ufanelekile kwenzeke izinto ezimbi kuwe ? Uke wezwa ubuhlungu futhi wakholwa ukuthi bekufanele? Uma kunjalo, udinga ukufunda le ndatshana.
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Lesi simo sengqondo sobuhlungu esivunyiwe ngenxa yento ongase uyicabange, uyisho, noma uyenze inobuthi okufanele usuke engqondweni yakho ukuze uthole ukuthula nenjabulo yangempela.
Ukuzizwa kabi ngento ozisolayo ukuyenza kungokwemvelo futhi kunempilo, yindlela yokufunda ukuthi imingcele yethu yokuziphatha ikuphi. Lapho sikhathazwa yizenzo zethu, kungenxa yokuthi siyayiqonda imiphumela yabo emibi futhi sifisa ukuthi ngandlela thile sizibuyisele emuva.
Kepha akusikho lokho esikhuluma ngakho lapha…
Sikhuluma ngenkolelo yangaphakathi yokuthi awuzange uzuze ilungelo lokukhululeka ebuhlungwini nasekulimaleni.
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Sikhuluma ngomqondo osabalele wokungafaneleki umqondo wokuthi indawo yonke lilonke ngandlela thile lifisa ukuthi uhlupheke ngesizathu esithile esingaziwa. Lapho ingqondo yakho iqala ukucabanga ngale ndlela, awusazami ukuvimbela ukulimala futhi, esikhundleni salokho, ukwamukela ngokusobala njengeqiniso lakho elisha.
Awungabazi ukucabanga ngemuva kobuhlungu, ukhetha ukubheka ikusasa lakho empilweni. Empeleni uqala ukuhlanganisa impilo yakho nokuhlupheka.
Kepha awufanelwe ubuhlungu nobuhlungu ukudlula noma ngubani omunye. Awudalelwanga ukuthi uhlupheke akukho mandla amabi aletha usizi emnyango wakho.
Uyisimangaliso sempilo okuyi kokubili umuntu ohluke ngokuphelele futhi ingxenye ephelele enkulu kakhulu. Ukuba nokuthula nomoya ungowakho njenganoma yimuphi omunye umuntu - konke okumele ukwenze ukwamukela ukuthi kunjalo.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
izimpawu zomuntu obandayo onenhliziyo ebandayo
- Ungayeka Kanjani Ukuzizwa Unecala Lamaphutha Esidlule Nezinto Oze Wazenza Kokungalungile
- Izimpawu ze-11 Zengqondo Ezizondayo
- Izindlela Ezi-8 Ezilula Zokuyeka Imicabango Emibi Ekungeneni Emqondweni Wakho
- Yisho Lezi Ziqinisekiso Eziyi-6 Zosuku Nosuku Ukwakha Ukuzethemba Nokuzethemba
- Ukuze Ukhulise Ukuzethemba Kwakho Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, Yenza Lezi Zinto Ezincane Eziyi-10 Njalo
- Ungayigcina Kanjani Imizwa Yokungabi Lutho
Kufanele wamukele ukuthi ngenkathi izinto ezimbi zenzeka, aziwona umphumela ongenakugwemeka wazo zonke izinyathelo ozenzayo. Unelungelo lokuthola injabulo uyifanele injabulo okufanelwe ukuzwa izikhathi eziningi zenjabulo.
Ukulo mhlaba kuphela isikhathi esifushane futhi akumele uchithe umzuzu owodwa ekukholweni ukuthi ubuhlungu yikho konke ongakulindela. Ngazo zonke izindlela uzilungiselele ukuthi kungenzeka ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo nobuhlungu obungokomzimba - lokhu kwehlela iningi lethu ngesikhathi esithile ezimpilweni zethu - kepha ungalokothi ufune ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi yilokhu kuphela okukhona.
Hlala uzikhumbuza ngesimanga esingatholakala kulo mhlaba uma usukulungele ukuwufuna. Veza okwamanje , thokozani ngobuhle bemvelo, futhi thokoza ngezikhathi ezihlanganyelwe othandweni.
Sazise isipho sokuphila okumsulwa sonke esinikwe sona futhi senzelwe sona sonke kufanele sithathe umthwalo wemfanelo . Ungakuvumeli kuchitheke enkolelweni yamanga yokuthi impilo yakho ifanelwe ukugcwala ubuhlungu nokujeziswa.
Yebo, ubuhlungu bungasifundisa izinto eziningi futhi busisize sikhule njengabantu ngabanye, kepha kuphela uma buza njengomphumela wemvelo wokuphila. Uma sifuna ukuhlupheka, ngeke kube nezifundo ezinjalo ukusifundisa, singalindela kanjani ukuthi sifunde noma yini lapho izingqondo zethu zingakwamukeli okuhle okuhle kunoma yisiphi isimo?
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Kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi ungathatha incazelo enkulu ekuhluphekeni, kepha akusikho ukuthi kufanele uhlupheke ukuze uthole incazelo. Eqinisweni, inqobo nje uma ugcina inkolelo yokuthi lobu buhlungu bulungile ngandlela thile, kungenzeka unganaki noma iyiphi incazelo engatholakala.
Ubuhlungu buyenzeka - kungahle kube umphumela omuhle wenhlanhla, umphumela wokuzikhethela kwethu, noma kwehle ezenzweni (ezinonya noma ngenye indlela) zabantu besithathu. Yize lokhu kuyiqiniso lethu, akufanele sivumele izingqondo zethu zisikhohlise sikholelwe ukuthi impilo kumele ilawulwe ubuhlungu noma ukuthi umuntu oyedwa ufanelwe okungaphezulu kokunye - womabili angamanga.
Ungalokothi ukhohlwe lokhu…
Wake waba kule ngqondo? Uma kunjalo, wenzeni ukuwubalekela? Shiya amazwana ngezansi bese wabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
