Umhlaba ungahle ungaqondi, kepha wena uyaqonda. Wena empathini ubazi kahle kakhulu ubumnyama obutholakala ngokuba nalesi sipho esingaqondakali. Ubuhlungu nosizi olwehlukile kulabo abezwa konke ukudlidliza kwamandla okubazungeza sengathi iminwe eyisigidi idonsa izintambo zomphefumulo wabo.
Ungumuntu abanye abavame ukuphendukela kuye lapho bedinga ukukhipha imithwalo yabo, futhi, ngenxa yalokhu, ubonwa njengomlingiswa ozinikele, othembekile. Yebo, uyazwela, kepha kubonakala sengathi ubhekana kahle kakhulu nokuxokozela okungokomzwelo okukufake kuwe.
Laba bantu abazi ukuthi, ngaphakathi, uyibhola eligcwele imizwa ehlukile, yonke ididekile ndawonye ukwakha umsindo ongaqondakali futhi ongapheli olwela ukuwuthulisa.
Kwesinye isikhathi iba namandla kangangokuba kuye kube sengathi isandla esingabonakali sibhajwe sigaxe entanyeni yakho ingcindezi enamandla kangangokuba kuthatha wonke amandla akho ukuze ungancishi.
Ukushintshwa kwamandla okungazelelwe nokubi emandleni yikho okubi kakhulu ngoba kuvela ngokuphelele kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi kukunikeza isikhathi esincane sokuzilungiselela. Bakushaya njengesitimela esithwala impahla, bakuqhubekisela ukudideka, incithakalo nosizi.
Ngokudabukisayo, kungamandla amabi owazizwa kakhulu, futhi enziwa abi kakhulu ngumhlaba owubona okuzungezile. Ukuhlupheka, ubuhlungu benhliziyo, namandla amabi adala lokho akusindise wena kakhulu kunokuhle, futhi abanomusa bangakuphakamisa. Umphakathi awudalelwanga abantu abanjengawe.
Ngaphakathi kwenhliziyo yakho, imizwa ihlala izwakala ngokujulile futhi ngamandla amakhulu akukho mhlaba ophakathi, akukho ukudayela kwevolumu okwehlisa izinzwa. Kokubili ngokomzimba futhi ukukhathala ngokomqondo ukuze uphile impilo yakho esimweni esicishe sibe njalo somzwelo ophakeme, kepha uyabamba ndawonye… ikakhulukazi… ukunikeza ukubukeka okuqanjiwe, uma kwesinye isikhathi kukubi.
umbukiso omkhulu andre the giant
Kungaba khona ukuba nesizungu njengempath noma ngabe uzungezwe abantu, ukuxubana kwamandla kungakushiya uzizwa ulahlekile. Awunasiqiniseko sokuthi ugcina kuphi nokuthi abanye baqala kuphi, futhi lokhu kufiphala kwemingcele yomuntu siqu kusebenza kuphela ekunciphiseni umuzwa wakho wokuba yilokho.
Ngokudabukisayo, lokhu umuzwa wokuhlukaniswa ingakushayela ezandleni zabantu abafuna ukukuxhaphaza. Ukulangazelela kwakho ukuthi ungubani, nokuthandwa noma ukuthandwa nguwe, kungakubona uwela ezingibeni ezibekwe ngabakhohlisi nabahlukumezi. Bahlasela abantu ababucayi njengawe ngifuna ukuzwa lowo mqondo wokuba yilungu .
Ukufunda okubalulekile kwe-empath (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Amathiphu angu-17 okusinda ama-Empaths nabantu abanozwelo kakhulu
- Izimpawu ze-4 Ungu-Empath enembile (Hhayi I-Empath Yodwa)
- Ezinye izindlela ezi-3 zama-Empath ezikhathele ukuzivikela
- Izimpi Zezimpi eziyi-11 zibhekene nezisekelo zansuku zonke
- Umthambeka Obushelelezi Wokunganaki: Isexwayiso Kuwo Onke Ama-Empaths
- Ungakusebenzisa Kanjani Ukulalela Ngempathic Ukuhlakulela Ubudlelwano Omkhulu Bomuntu Siqu
Wena, ngokuba ngumphefumulo onomusa nothando oyiwona, awububoni ubungozi obuzimele nxazonke. Awuziboni izinhloso ezinonya zalabo abangenalo umuzwa, futhi emzameni wakho wokubasiza, uzibeka engcupheni yokubandakanyeka emidlalweni yabo.
Kodwa-ke awukwazi ukumelana nesilingo sokuzama ukusiza abanye kuyimvelo yakho ukuguqula ukunaka kwakho ezifweni nasezidingweni zalabo abasenkingeni ngoba ngandlela thile unomuzwa wokuthi ukubasiza kuzokusiza wena.
Awuboni umthwalo obekwa yileli zinga lokuzidela empilweni yakho, noma uma wenza kanjalo, umelana nesilingo sokusivuma ngenxa yokwesaba ukuphinde uphoqeleke ukubhekana namademoni akho. Uncamela ukuhamba emigwaqweni uboshwe isisindo somhlaba sikucindezela, kunokuba uhambe ngokukhululeka ubone ubuhlungu bakho kanye nobuhlungu obuphambi kwakho.
Lokhu kugwema akukusizi ngalutho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngoba kungekudala inhliziyo yakho nengqondo yakho kuyangena ku-spasm, okuqhutshwa emaphethelweni ukwehluleka ukulungisa izingqinamba zangempela. Ngokubambezela ukuqala, umane umbe umgodi ojulile oziphonsa kuwo ngokuzithandela ukuze ubalekele umhlaba wangaphandle. Uhoxa kuyo yonke into bese uzidonsela amanzi ngomzimba nangokomzwelo ukuze ungene ngokujulile ngaphakathi futhi ulwe namanxeba akho angaphansi.
Usizi lwakho ngalesi sikhathi lukhulu kanjani ukuthi lungaba luncane kangakanani kumuntu ohlangabezana nemizwa ngendlela ejulile futhi ejulile? Ukuhlushwa kwakho kunjalo ngoba inhliziyo yakho ifanekisa izinganekwane njengoba ulwa nabo bonke ubuhlungu obuhlala lapho - obakho nobalokho obumunce.
kungani kunzima kangaka ukuthandana
Uma ukhuluma ngezinhliziyo, awukwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunikeza okwakho ngokugcwele kumlingani onothando, futhi lokhu kukushiya unokudabuka nokuzisola okuthile. Kepha ukuvula ngokugcwele kungasho ukuzwa uthando olukhulu kakhulu, olungalawulwa. Awazi nje ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukuphatha amandla amakhulu kangako, futhi uyangabaza ukuthi uzakwethu uzokwazi ukubhekana nakho uma uzama ukukungenisa konke.
Ngakho-ke uyazivikela ngandlela thile, ungalokothi ubonise isandla sakho sonke ukuthi ubambe okuthile ukuze uvimbele ubuhlungu benhliziyo obuzayo ekukubhubhiseni ngokuphelele. Kodwa-ke ulangazelela isikhathi lapho ungalamukela khona uthando kulo lonke uthando lwalo namandla alo, ngoba uyazi enhliziyweni yakho ukuthi yilokhu okufuna ngokweqiniso.
Akufanele uzivumele uhlulwe yisipho sakho esinamandla, nokho esiyinselele. Kukhona ithemba… .kuhlala kunethemba.
Uhlangothi olumnyama aludingi ukuwina unomphela. Ungakwazi, ngokuzijwayeza okuthile, nangokusekelwa yilabo abakuthandayo, ukufunda ukubhekana nobunzima bokubhoboza kwemizwelo oyitholayo. Ubuhlungu bakho nokulimala kwakho kungadamba, futhi ungafunda ukubona ukuthi imiphi imizwa eyakho nokuthi ivela emithonjeni yamandla yangaphandle.
Awudingi ukuhlala unogada wakho njalo phezulu kunendlela yokuvumela abanye bangene ngaphandle kokucindezelwa yilokho okuzwayo. Kuza ngokwamukelwa, ngokuzikhandla, nangokuzimisela okukhulu nokuzimisela ukungavumeli ikhwalithi yakho eyigugu ibe ijele lakho lempilo yakho yonke.
Ungalokothi uyeke, ungalokothi uyeke.
