Ngaphandle kokuthi ube nenhlanhla yokuthola ifa elibalulekile, kuzodingeka ukuthi wenze uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi ukuze uzondle ngokwezezimali, kuthiwani ngesidingo sokuhlala wembethe, wondliwe, ufakwe ezindlini, nakho konke.
Uma sebesetshenzisiwe, abantu bavame ukuthola ukuthi izindawo zokusebenza ziyizindawo eziyinqaba ongazulazula kuzo, kuthiwani ngokuxhumana nabantu, ipolitiki yasehhovisi, okulindelwe okungashiwo, nokunye okunjalo.
Kepha kuzo zonke lezi zimo, ama-empaths anenzuzo ephawuliwe: uyakwazi ukuthola izinkomba ezicashile abanye abangazenzi, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kungavimbela ubulukhuni, bese weqele empumelelweni yomsebenzi.
ungasho kanjani uma uthanda umfana
Ngisho nemiphakathi yabantu abazisebenzelayo kanye / noma abasebenza ekhaya bangadonsela kula mathalente angokwemvelo ukuze bathuthuke, njengoba amandla ngokuvamile engathathwa kude, futhi umuzwa usebenza noma ngabe ukuphi.
Noma ngabe usebenza ekhaya noma ehhovisi elimatasa, ungathola amakhono akho ahlukile wokuqonda ukuze uphumelele futhi uthuthuke emsebenzini wakho.
Okokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu, Khetha Umsebenzi Wothando Othembekile
Abantu abaningi baphelela emisebenzini abangayithandi ngempela, kodwa abahle kuyo.
Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka lapho belandela izeluleko zabazali, abeluleki bezokuqondisa, njll. Bese bethola ikhono elithile abanalo, kunalokho okusezinhliziyweni zabo.
Manje, kukhona okuhle nokubi imisebenzi yabantu abazwelayo , kuya ngamazinga akho wamandla nezinga le- ukungenisa kukhona.
Indawo yokusebenza engalungile nayo kukukhiphe noma ikubeke esimweni sokuvuselelwa ngamandla, kanti okulungile kungakuvumela ukuthi uchume.
Ngisho nalezo zindlela zemisebenzi ezikukhanga kakhulu zingalimaza uma ugcina usendaweni engafanele.
Njengesibonelo, empath obehlale ephupha ngokuba ngumhlengikazi angahle aqhume amandla futhi aqhekeke uma kufanele basebenze egumbini lezimo eziphuthumayo, ngoba kuyindawo enengcindezi enkulu enama-alamu amaningi, izinhlabamkhosi, nokugcwala ngokweqile kwezinzwa.
Lowo muzwa ofanayo ungakhula kahle esikhungweni sokunakekela asebekhulile noma endaweni yokunakekela abagulela ukufa esikhundleni salokho, ngoba bazokwazi ukubeka konke ukugxila kwabo ekunakekeleni iziguli zabo, kodwa endaweni ezolile, ethule.
Landela Ukuthambekela Kwakho!
Wake wanikeza isethulo noma wabamba umhlangano futhi wazizwa sengathi izinto azihambanga 'kahle'?
Kungenzeka ngoba ubulungiselelwe ukuthi abanye ababambiqhaza bazizwa kanjani, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ukuqonde kahle ukuphendula kwabo ngaleso sikhathi.
Ngokuzayo lapho lokhu kwenzeka, thatha umzuzwana bese uvumela amandla akho ahambisane nawabanye abathintekayo. Ingabe bazizwa becindezelekile? Kushubile? UKUKHATHAZEKA?
Kungenzeka ukuthi uyakhuluma kubo ngokweqile futhi kungahlanganyeli nabo , ngakho-ke ungasebenzisa lokho kuqonda futhi uphendule umhlangano.
Buza imibono yabo, vula ithebula emibonweni ehlukahlukene, futhi uvumele ukuxhumana kugeleze phakathi kontanga abahlonishwayo.
Lokhu kuzoba nemiphumela emihle ehlukahlukene: hhayi nje ukuthi abantu osebenza nabo (nabaphathi bakho) bazokucabanga kakhulu ngawe ngenxa yokuthi umhlangano uhambe kahle kangakanani, uzogwema nokuthi 'abangilaleli!' umuzwa.
Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka lapho abantu bengabandakanyekile kahle, nalapho bengazizwa bebalulekile.
Njengokuzwelana, unekhono elingandile lokwenza abantu bazizwe bezwakala, babonwa, BAYE bezwakala, ngakho-ke uma kufika isikhathi sokubuyekezwa kokusebenza kwakho, uyazi ukuthi uzozuza izinkanyezi zegolide kulo lonke ibhodi.
angazi ukuthi ngifuna ukuba yini empilweni
Sawubona umhlaba wokukhuthaza!
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Izimpawu ze-4 Ungu-Empath enembile (Hhayi I-Empath Yodwa)
- Amathiphu angu-17 okusinda ama-Empaths nabantu abanozwelo kakhulu
- Imizabalazo Yezimpi eziyi-11 ibhekene nezisekelo zansuku zonke
- Umthambeka Obushelelezi Wokunganaki: Isexwayiso Kuwo Onke Ama-Empath
- Ungakuxoxa Kanjani Ukuba Yimpumelelo Nomuntu
Uyazi Okudingekayo Ngaphambi Kokuba Kubuzwe Kuwe
Isici esisodwa esihle ama-empaths amaningi abelana ngaso yikhono lokukhomba kokudingekayo ngaphambi kokuthi kucelwe.
Kukangaki ufunda kahle ukuthi umqashi wakho angahle adinge / afune ukwenziwa okuthile, kuphela ukugcizelela isihogo kubo lapho bekucela bese usinikela ngokushesha?
Yebo. Lokho.
Amandla okulindela izidingo kunoma yisiphi isimo esithile - bese wenza ngokuvumelana naso - enza amandla abe namandla futhi abaluleke kakhulu eqenjini lasemsebenzini.
Kungenzeka ukuthi waqagela okwesibili le mikhuba esikhathini esedlule futhi wangazenza, noma ngabe kungenxa yokwesaba ukweqa ngokweqile noma ukungabaza ngoba ubungazi ukuthi 'kulungile' ukwenza lokho noma cha.
Uma lokhu bekulokhu kunjalo, kuwumqondo omuhle ukwenza okunye ukuzivocavoca ukwakha ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kwakho , futhi ufunde ukuthembela emibonweni yakho.
Uma uzwa ukuthi kufanele kwenziwe okuthile, kwenze.
Lona futhi umthetho omuhle ongawulandela uma ngabe uzisebenza. Njengoba ubophezeleke ngokuphelele empumelelweni yakho (noma ukungabi khona kwayo), ungalandela umuzwa wakho futhi ufinyelele kubantu ngesikhathi ozizwa ukuthi yisikhathi esifanele.
okufanele ukwenze uma othile ekhuluma ngemuva kwakho
Lokhu kungaba yinoma yini kusuka ekwethulweni kwe-imeyili okuheha iso kumqondo wokuklanywa kwemidwebo okhazimulayo nokho-ongavumelekile welinye lamakhasimende akho.
Amandla Wobuholi Ofanelekayo
Amakhono ama-empaths amaningi abelana ngawo, njenge-intuition, isifiso sokubambisana, uzwela, nokwazisa ngokulunga, ngamakhono “athambile” alungele labo abasezikhundleni zobuholi.
Uma kwenzeka uzithola usesikhundleni sokuba ngumphathi (ngisho nomphathi wephrojekthi noma umphathi), esikhundleni sokuba ngumphathi onenkani ongayekethisi futhi obusa ngenqindi yensimbi, uzoba ngumholi omangalisayo olawula ngobumnene nangokwesekela .
Uyaqonda ukuthi abantu abakusebenzelayo bangabantu abazoqubuka kwesinye isikhathi, babe nezinkinga zomndeni / zomuntu siqu ezingadlulela emahoreni okusebenza, futhi nabo abadinga ukwaziswa ngeminikelo yabo.
Uzongena kahle lapho bedinga isikhathi esisodwa, ubathembe ukuthi bazosebenza ngokuzimela, futhi bakhuthaze lapho bengase bazizwe bedangele.
Umphathi onjengalona uthola inani elithusayo lokwethembeka kubasebenzi babo, abazonikeza amandla abo amaphesenti ayi-110, ngoba bazizwa behlonishwa futhi baziswa nguwe.
Imisebenzi Nemisebenzi Yama-Alpha Empaths
Uma uwela kufayela le- I-Alpha empath isigaba (<– click that link to find out if you do), you might be ngizizwa ngilahlekile maqondana nokuthi ungena kuphi.
Ungahle ubhekane nenani elifanele le-hypersensitivity to stimuli stimuli, kepha unenhliziyo yengonyama nokushayela ukuze uphumelele.
Le kungaba yindawo enzima ukuzulazula kuyo, njengoba indawo yasemsebenzini egcwele imisindo ehlabayo nokuxoxa njalo kungahle kungabi kuhle engqondweni yakho, kepha futhi udinga ukuphonselwa inselelo futhi uhlanganyele noma uzophuma ekukhatheni.
Kungumqondo omuhle ukucabanga ngezinto ozijabulela ukuzenza kakhulu, bese uthola ukuthi ungasebenza kanjani kangcono kule mikhakha ukukhulisa zombili izimfanelo zakho ze-Alpha nezokuzwelana.
ironda rousey izolwa futhi
Uma ungumuntu wemvelo ekwenzeni ukuxhumana, futhi / noma ufuna ukubeka amakhono akho ukuguqula umhlaba ube ngcono , cabanga ngendima esekelayo kwezepolitiki noma njengomphathi womcimbi.
Ungasiza ukubeka yonke into endaweni ukuze kwenzeke imicimbi nokunye okunjalo, kepha bese uzisusa kwi-maelstrom ukuze ungakhungatheki ngomsindo, ukukhanya, noma izixuku zabantu.
Ngikubhala lokhu ngokuhlangenwe nakho, njengoba ngisebenze njengentatheli yomculo iminyaka eminingana: bekuyisimo esihle kimi, ngoba bengikwazi ukuya emakhonsathini ngiphinde ngixoxe nabaculi lapho amandla ami ephezulu.
Ngemuva kwalokho, phakathi nezinsuku zokululama ngokuthula ngemuva kwalokho, bengingabhala ukubuyekezwa nezingxoxo ngibe ngikhululekile ehhovisi lasekhaya. Ibhalansi ephelele.
Noma ngabe amandla akho ayini, futhi noma yini ekujabulisa kakhulu uma uyenza, landela injabulo yakho.
Ungahlala uthola izindlela zokwenza zivikele kusukela ekuhlaselweni, kungaba sehhovisi elizimele emsebenzini noma ngokunikela ngama-headphone futhi uciphise ivolumu kwezinye izingoma ezihamba phambili.
Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubeke wonke amandla akho ekuphumeleleni ngokwemibandela yakho, ngendlela yakho.
Inothi elilodwa lokugcina : uma ugcina usebenza ehhovisi, njenge-empath, udinga ukwazi ukuzivikela emandleni amabi, ikakhulukazi uma kukhona ama-narcissists kanye nama-sociopaths asebenza eceleni kwakho.
Bazokwazi ukucija amakhono akho okuzwelana nabo futhi bazame ukusizakala ngawe, noma bakukhohlisele izinjongo zabo.
Njengoba kunzima futhi kuyadumaza njengoba kungagcina udonga lwesihlangu luqinile ngenkathi uzama ukwenza umsebenzi, kuphinde kube kwenzuzo yakho nokuzivikela.
