Kudlulela ngaphezu kokukhathala, ukukhathala okwedlule… yikho impela ukuphakama - noma kufanele kube ukujula - kokukhathala.
Luhlobo lomuzwa okwenza ufune ukuhlala ugoqene ebholeni njalo ekuseni, ngaphansi kwesihlangu esivikelayo seduvet efudumele, ethambile.
izibonelo zemingcele ebudlelwaneni
Kuyisicefe sempilo esikulandelayo nomaphi lapho uya khona, njengesithunzi sesibili esikucoshelayo, esibonisa konke okwenzayo.
Okukhona ukukhathala.
Esikhundleni sokuvuka uvukela ukuhamba, ubingelela njalo ekuseni ngokuzamula okuphelelwe yithemba. Usuku seluqale nje, kepha usuvele ugijimela kokungenalutho.
Ikhofi, ushukela we-4: ukuphela kwendlela ongathintitha ngayo ama-cobwebs engqondweni yakho futhi usebenze njengomuntu 'ojwayelekile'.
Konakelephi?
Akunanjongo, Akukho Ukugqugquzela
Impendulo iqala ngokuthi yona kanye injongo yokuba khona kwakho .
Noma ukuntuleka kwayo okusobala.
Awukakatholi ukuthi wenzani lapha. Ini wena funa ukwenza lapha. Uqinisekile, noma kunjalo, ukuthi okwenzayo manje akukhona.
Uyakuthola ukuzijabulisa osukwini lwakho. Awukasheleli kude ngokwanele phansi emthambekeni oshelelayo ubheke ekushayweni ngokugcwele inkinga ekhona .
Kepha izikhathi zenjabulo nezenjabulo ziyadlula, futhi azanele ukukushiya okunenjongo wanelisekile.
Ukugcizelelwa kwencazelo kwakuhloselwe. Lokhu kungumgogodla wokungabi namandla kwakho.
Uthola amandla okudla okwanele usuku ngalunye, kepha awutholi amandla anele ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Futhi-ke, uzizwa kukhishwe ingunaphakade .
Njengoba nje udla ukudla ukugcwalisa izitolo zakho zoshukela, amafutha, nezinye izinto ezibalulekile zokwakha umzimba wakho, udinga ukusebenzisa uhlobo olufanele lokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila ukuze ufake isitsha sakho somoya.
Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwehlukile kithina sonke, kepha kugcwele incazelo egcwele. Yile ncazelo esivusa ebuthongweni bethu.
Okushiwo kungukudla komphefumulo, umoya, noma yini ofuna ukuyibiza ngayo. Incazelo isinikeza isisusa sokwamukela usuku ngalunye namathuba okungenzeka aqukethe.
Lapho incazelo ingekho, kanjalo nesisusa. Lapho isisusa singekho, ibhethri lakho elikhona liyaphela kancane uze uphoqelelwe ukuba ungene kumodi yamandla aphansi.
Kulesi simo, izinqubo ezingabalulekile zicishiwe. Awusakwazi ukugcina ileveli yokuqapha, umcabango wakho nobuciko bususwa kokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi, futhi uthando lwakho luncishisiwe.
Usuka ekuchumeni, uye ekusindeni.
Izimpawu
Ukudinwa okungapheli kulandela. Ngaphandle kwamandla engqondo, imizwa yakho iyadamba. Ngaphandle kwalezo zikhathi ezimfishane zobumnandi ezishiwo ngenhla, bonke ubukhona bakho buyinto ejwayelekile, enesidina, emile.
Isikhathi sihamba kancane, futhi uzithola ufisa ukuba kude nemizuzu namahora ukuze nje uthole ukunethezeka kokulala noma ukuphumula ngempelasonto.
Ubheka iminyaka ngemuva kwakho futhi uzizwe ungekho empumelelweni. Uphonsa ukubuka kwakho esikhathini esizayo futhi awuboni lutho ngaphandle kokuchitha amandla.
Isikhathi, kubonakala sengathi, asibalulekanga nakancane.
ungayenza kanjani impilo ibe ngcono kuwe
Uma usebenza, uqala ukwenza amaphutha amancane ngobuwula ngoba awukwazi ukugxila. Awunikeli ngokuzithandela imisebenzi futhi ukhalela inhlanhla yakho lapho wabelwa yona.
Uzama ukubaleka ngokwenza ubuncane obungenalutho obudingeka kuwe ngokwanele ukuze ungaxoshwa.
Ukubukeka kwakho komzimba kuyashintsha: amehlo akho alahlekelwa yinhlansi, kuvela imibuthano emnyama ngaphansi kwawo, amahlombe akho awe, ugoba futhi uthambe, isikhumba sakho siyakhanya.
Amasosha akho omzimba aba buthakathaka futhi uvame ukugula, okungena esimweni sakho esivele silula.
Uqala ukungabaza yonke into.
Ingabe le yindlela impilo yami ezoba ngayo? Akukho yini okunye ongakulindela? Ingabe ngidalelwe ukuzizwa ngale ndlela kuze kube phakade?
Ngabe ngi…? Kumele ngi…? Kuthiwani uma…? Kungani ngi…? Kulapho…?
Ingqondo yakho ifuna isisombululo. Usesha ikhambi lesifo sakho.
Usesha kanzima, empeleni, uze ufake isandla kumuzwa wakho wokukhathala. Uphela ingqondo yakho ngokuhamba emibuthanweni, ubuze imibuzo efanayo kaninginingi.
Ulangazelela induduzo yempendulo, kepha kuyaqabukela ifike.
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Ubudlelwano bakho buqala ukonakala. Ukukhathala kwakho nokungabi nentshisekelo kwanoma yini kubeka ubunzima bangempela ekuxhumaneni okwakha nabanye.
Awusekho bafuna ukwenza noma yini ngoba umane awunawo amandla.
Izingxoxo eziningi zibukeka njengezichitho ezingenamqondo zokuphefumula ukuze zixoxe ngalutho ngaphandle komgqomo ongenangqondo wokuphila.
Uqala ukuthola inkampani yezinja, amakati nezinye izilwane ijabulisa kakhulu kunabantu. Umona ngokunganaki kwabo.
Ubona ukusakazwa okungapheli kokuthunyelwe kokuphakelayo kwakho kwezokuxhumana komphakathi bese uyakhungatheka. Izigidi zezifinyezo ezincane ziminyene ndawonye - ingabe lokho kumayelana nempilo?
Uyazelapha ngotshwala, izidakamizwa, ukudla, ne-TV, ongacisha ngokuphelele inkampani yakhe. Noma yini yokuthambisa ingqondo yakho ekhathele.
Udinga ukushaja kabusha. Kodwa kanjani?
Ukuvuselela Umphefumulo Wakho
Esikhundleni sokuvuselela umyalezo ofanayo futhi, ngithanda ukukuqondisa kokunye okuthunyelwe lapha ku-A Conscious Rethink.
Kuzo, sifaka izihloko ezibopha ngokusondelana okukhona kanye nesifiso sokuthola incazelo.
- “Ngenzani Ngokuphila Kwami?” - Isikhathi Sokuthola
- Ukudangala Okukhona: Ungayinqoba Kanjani Imizwa Yakho Yokungabi Nanjongo
- Ngabe Ufuna Inhloso Yokuphila Endaweni Engalungile?
- Uma Ulahlekelwe yi-Mojo Yakho, UNGENZI Lezi Zinto Ezi-11
Lokhu okuthunyelwe kuqukethe izifundo eziningi ezibalulekile nezeluleko ezingokoqobo zokuthi ungazikhipha kanjani ekuweni kwakho.
Kepha nakhu okunye.
Funda. Lalela. Bhekisisani. Funda.
Awusiye umuntu wokuqala ukuzizwa usuphelelwe amandla futhi ungenasiqondiso. Ngeke ube owokugcina.
Ukuqonda indawo yakho kulo mhlaba nokwenza izinguquko ezinhle empilweni yakho kuyinqubo ende, futhi odinga umngane wakho.
Vumela izincwadi ( Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso ), ama-podcast, izethulo, izinkulumo, izindatshana zomagazini, kanye nayo yonke enye indlela yolwazi kungaba yilowo mngane.
Thatha impilo yakho engokwengqondo, engokomzwelo nengokomoya ngokungathi sína. Zifunze ngezifundo nogqozi lwabanye. Yondla umphefumulo wakho.
Kancane kancane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile, uzobona amazinga akho wamandla ekhuphuka futhi nokubuya kwesisusa sakho.
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Futhi lapho uzizwa uphila ngokwengeziwe, ungayeki ukondleka. Umzimba wakho, ingqondo nomoya wakho konke kudinga ukondliwa nsuku zonke.
Yenza lokhu kube yisibopho sempilo yakho yonke.
Khumbula: isinyathelo sokuqala sinzima kakhulu. Uzizwa uphukile njengamanje, futhi lokhu kubonakala njengokunye nje ukuchitha isikhathi.
Akunjalo. Ngethembe.
Isinyathelo ngasinye sizokunika amandla okuthatha okulandelayo, nokulandelayo, nokulandelayo.
Usuqalile vele. Qhubeka.
