Ukuzikhulumela phansi yinto sonke esinecala layo, kepha kudingeka siyeke ukuyenza! ASAP!
Akugcini nje ngokulimaza ukuzethemba kwethu, kusho nokuthi sizivulela ithuba lokugxekwa abanye.
Sigcina siphuthelwa amathuba esingazizwa ‘sibafanele’ futhi sizibambe ezintweni ezinkulu.
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Nazi izizathu ezinhlanu zokuyeka ukuzibeka phansi…
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Ukuzenyeza kungaba yindlela ukubhekana nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka , kanye nokuthola amahlaya ezimweni ezinzima.
Yize kungaba yindlela yesikhathi esifushane yokwenza sizizwe singcono, akuwona umkhuba omuhle ukungena esikhathini eside. Lapho uzimisele ngokwengeziwe ukuzibeka phansi, mancane amathuba okuthi uqaphele lapho othile okunye iqala ukukubeka phansi.
Ukuzibona unombono omubi kumema abanye ukuthi nabo bakubone ngaleyo ndlela. Uma uhlala ukhomba izinto ongazithandi ngawe, abantu bazoqala ukukulalela.
Impela, obathandayo bazokwamukela ukuthi uzibeka phansi futhi bazozama futhi bakusize ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho. Abanye kungenzeka bangakwenzi lokhu, futhi empeleni bangasebenzisa indlela ozibona ungalungile ngayo.
Uma uziqinisekisa wena, nabanye, ukuthi awubalulekanga kangako, ngeke ubone lapho omunye umuntu ezuza kulokhu.
Kungani ungacela ukwenyuselwa amaholo noma ukuthola isikweletu esengeziwe lapho wena awucabangi nokuthi ukufanele?
Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuguqula ukucabanga kwakho kuye kokuzethemba nokukholelwa, kepha uzozuza kakhulu kukho, ngezindlela eziningi.
Uyalahlekelwa
Lapho uzibeka phansi kakhulu, kulapho uzozithola ungumuntu onobungane.
Ukuphuthelwa yizinto kuzokukhathaza kakhulu ngawe, futhi uzogcina udala umjikelezo omubi wokunganaki.
Ungazithola uthi 'cha' ukuya ezinsukwini, ukuya emicimbini yomphakathi, ukuzibandakanya namathuba omsebenzi, nokuningi. Ngenkathi ungahle ungacabangi ukuthi uwafanele la mathuba, unikezwa wona ngesizathu!
Ukuzibeka phansi ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi uqala ukukholelwa ukuthi awufanelwe yilutho, noma omunye umuntu. Ungazizwa sengathi awunalutho ongakusiza, nokuthi awunathalente noma izici zobuntu ezihehayo.
Lapho ukukholelwa kakhulu lokhu, mancane amathuba okuthi uvumelane nezimo ezahlukahlukene, njengokuhlangana nabantu abasha, ngokwesaba ukungafaneleki noma ukuzijabulisa ngokwanele.
Yize kuqondakala ngokuphelele, kuseseyihlazo elikhulu. Ngokushesha ungamisa lokhu imicabango emibi , ngcono.
Ngesinye isikhathi, uzobheka emuva futhi uzizwe udabuke kakhulu ngezinto othe 'cha' kuzo, konke ngoba awuzange uzizwe sengathi uzifanele.
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Zama futhi ungene kumkhuba wokuthi 'yebo' ezintweni manje, futhi uzobona izinguquko eziningi kakhulu empilweni yakho, zesikhashana nezesikhathi eside.
Abanye abantu bakubona ngokucacile ukubaluleka kuwe, noma ngabe awukwazi ukuzibona wena. Themba lokhu, bese uzama ukukwenza shintshela ingqondo yakho iye kokunye okuhle .
Uyahlanya
Ngiyazi, ukuzibeka phansi kungaba yimiphumela yenkinga yezempilo yengqondo, njengokukhathazeka. Kungabonakala cishe kungenakwenzeka ukuzithanda, noma ukuzithanda wena, ngezinye izinsuku, kodwa kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzela kuyo.
Ngicabanga ukuthi sonke sihlangabezane nomuzwa osabekayo wokuqhuma ngokuphelele ngaphandle kolawulo ngemuva kokwenza iphutha elincane noma ukwenza okuthile okuyihlazo.
Okuqala njengokuthile okuncane kuba yinkinga enkulu, bese uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe / kungani noma ubani ekuthanda, ukuthi uwukwenza kahle umsebenzi wakho noma cha, futhi uma unanoma yini izici zobuntu ezinhle .
Ngaphambi kokuthi wazi, uqinisekile ukuthi wonke umuntu uyakuzonda, usuzoxoshwa, futhi uwena ngizohlala ngingashadile unomphela . Kuzwakala kujwayelekile?
Yize konke lokhu kungazizwa kukhungathekisa futhi kuyikho impela, okwangempela ngaleso sikhathi, khumbula ukuthi lokhu kwehla akuyona into efanele impilo yakho.
Zama bese uyibhala phansi le mizwa njengoba iphakama. Kamuva, lapho usuthulile, bheka emuva ohlwini lwakho. Isibonelo, 'Ngiwudoti emsebenzini wami' - lokhu akulona iqiniso. Ukube ubusabeka emsebenzini wakho, ubungeke ube nawo. Kungahle kube nendawo yokuthuthuka, kepha lokhu kungaba yinto enhle ongasebenzela kuyo.
Dlulisa ukwesaba kwakho nemicabango engemihle uthathe isikhathi sokuzilinganisela. Ngethemba ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi wehlise umoya ngokuzayo lapho uzibeka phansi kakhulu.
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Ithinta umbono wakho jikelele ngokuphila
Lapho uzibona kabi ngokwengeziwe, kulapho uzobona kabi kakhulu konke .
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Ukuhlala uzizwa ungafaneleki, ucasukile, futhi ukhungathekile kuzoqala ukuthinta indlela ozibheka ngayo zonke ezinye izinto empilweni yakho.
Ungaqala ukuzonda ukuzethemba ezimpilweni zabanye abantu, bese uba nomona ngokwengeziwe ngenjabulo yabo futhi impumelelo .
Lokhu kuyaqondakala, kunjalo, kepha akuyona indlela emnandi yokuphila!
Ngokuzikholisa ukuthi awunalungelo lezinto ezinhle, noma injabulo, uzoqala ukusuka ezintweni nakubantu abangakunikeza lokhu. Ungazithola ududula abanye abantu ngoba uthukuthele kakhulu noma udabukile ngawe nangezimo zakho.
Ukuhlala ngizizwa ngiphansi futhi ngingafaneleki kuyesabeka, futhi bengingeke ngikufisele kunoma ngubani. Njengoba ngihlushwe ukukhathazeka iminyaka, ngiyazi ukuthi kungakanani ‘umhlaba ongaphandle’ ongaba isikhala esibi.
Uqala ukuthola kunzima ukujabulela noma yini ngoba awuzwa sengathi ukufanele. Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuzizwa umuhle ngezinto uma uhlala ukhathazeka futhi ucindezela ngokuthi uvunyelwe noma cha ukujabula.
Yize lokhu kuqondakala, akuyona indlela yokuphila impilo yakho! Kunezindlela zokushintsha umbono wakho ngempilo.
Kungathatha izinyathelo eziningi ezincane esikhathini eside, kepha wena kuthanda fika lapho futhi kuzokufanele lokho.
Impilo Imfishane
Ufanelwe ukujabula. Kulula kanjalo nje.
Ubaluleke ngaphezu kokuzifihla bese uzijezisa.
Awuyena umuntu ongaziwa, noma onesidina, ongathandeki ongenathemba futhi onganikeli lutho ngaye. Noma yini ozitshela yona ngezikhathi zakho zobumnyama akusona isithombe esinembile sempilo yakho.
Impilo yakho iyigugu kakhulu, nawe ngokunjalo. Ufanelwe ukuthola injabulo ezintweni, ukuhlola nokujabula okungenamahloni.
Noma ngabe yiziphi izizathu ocabanga ukuthi zikwenza ungafaneleki akuzona izinto ongaphila ngazo impilo yakho. Ulapha ngesizathu, futhi uvunyelwe ukwenza okwenza uzizwe kamnandi, noma kungaba yini.
Yeka ukuzikhulumela phansi - noma ngabe kumane nje kungukufaka omunye umcabango omubi ngomqondo omuhle usuku ngalunye. Qala kancane futhi uzobona izinguquko ezinkulu…
