Zimbalwa izinto ezenelisa futhi ezinobuhlakani njengokushiya i-expletive ngesikhathi esifanele.
Kunezikhathi lapho kuphela isithuko esingaveza ngokweqiniso umuzwa womphefumulo obhekene nawo njengamanje.
Noma ngabe ukhumulile uzwane noma ulahle ngephutha izinto obuziphethe, kucishe kube ukwelashwa ukuvumela igama elithi cuss lindize.
Ngokufanayo, igama lesifungo lokuzikhethela lingazizwa lilungile ezimeni ezinhle, futhi, lapho ufuna ukujabula ngento enhle.
Ukuqalekisa okuvamile njengendlela yokuphuma noma engxoxweni kungakha umkhuba omubi, noma kunjalo. Inkinga ukuthi isihlungi sakho samagama amukeleka emphakathini sihlupheka lapho uhlala uthuka inhlamba.
Awufuni ukulahla ibhomu le-F phambi kwenkampani engafanele ngoba kungakha umbono ongalungile. Lowo muntu angahle alunge ngokufunga ngomqondo ongajwayelekile kodwa angakubona kungasifanele isimo okuso njengamanje.
Izindawo zokusebenza kungashaywa noma kuphuthelwe ngesiqalekiso esingajwayelekile. Indawo eyodwa yokusebenza ingaba yinoma yini ehamba imvelo lapho abantu besika futhi bebhanqa usuku lonke. Iminyaka ekuleso simo izokubeka esimweni sokufunga ngokunganaki, ongakufuni uma uzithola ususemsebenzini ohlukile lapho uqine khona kakhulu.
uqala nini umfowethu
Enye inkinga ngokuthuka okungajwayelekile ukuthi kukhuthaza ubuvila bokukhuluma. Amagama we-Cuss asetshenziswa kaningi kakhulu angaba isichasiselo esingacacile salokhu okhuluma ngakho. Lokho kuvimba ikhono lakho lokukhulumisana nabanye abantu ngendlela enenjongo, nephumelelayo.
Ngabe lokho kubukeka njengezinkunzi * t?
Noma kubonakala njengesiphetho esingenangqondo sokusetshenziswa okuvamile kwamagama e-cuss?
okufanele ukwenze lapho umyeni wakho ekubukela phansi
Lo mkhuba omubi ungalungiswa. Ngakho-ke, ake sibheke ezinye zezindlela zokunciphisa ukuthuka kwakho okungajwayelekile.
1. Siyini isizathu sakho sokuyeka ukuthuka inhlamba?
Noma ngubani ozama ukwenza ushintsho oluphawulekayo emikhubeni yabo angazuza ngokuba nesizathu esiqinile, esicacisiwe sokwenza ushintsho.
Isizathu sisebenza njenge Inkanyezi yaseNyakatho kukusiza ukuthi uhlale emgqeni lapho ukhungatheka noma uthukuthele.
Futhi mhlawumbe uzokwenza, ngemuva kokuthi wenze kahle ngokungathuki ngokunganaki futhi ngephutha uyeke eyodwa indize lapho ushaya umunwe wakho emnyango wekhabhinethi ngoba ubunganakile.
Ngakho-ke, yini isizathu sakho? 'Ngifuna ukumisa inhlamba ngokunganaki ngoba…'
'... Angifuni ukubhala phansi emsebenzini.'
'… Ngifuna ukuxhumana kangcono nabanye abantu.'
'… Ugogo wami omuhle unginikeza lokho kubukeka okudabukisayo, nokudumala lapho ngenza kanjalo.'
“… Ingane encane ingizwile futhi yatshela wonke umuntu esitolo ukuthi igama elisha abalifundile.”
2. Khomba lapho uthuka inhlamba.
Uthuka nini ngokunganaki? Ingabe ngaso sonke isikhathi kuyinto engasho lutho? Ngabe nje uma uthukuthele noma ucasukile? Ingabe kusejimini noma lapho wenza okuthile okukhandlayo? Ingabe emsebenzini lapho lokho kuyimvelo nje yemvelo?
Ukubona ukuthi uthuka nini kungakusiza ekunqandeni lo mkhuba ngokuhlela kusengaphambili.
Umuntu ofunga kakhulu emsebenzini angazikhumbuza ukuthi kufanele awakhumbule kakhulu amagama abo lapho bengena.
Ukufunga ngokuxhamazela ngenxa yentukuthelo kunganqandwa ngokuthatha imizuzwana embalwa ukwehlisa umoya nokukhipha ingqondo yakho ngaphambi kokuphendula esimweni esithile.
Ukungeza nje imizuzwana eyishumi phakathi kokukhanya kokuqala kwemizwa nempendulo kuzokwenza izimangaliso zokulawula lokho okushoyo nokwenzayo lapho uthukuthele. Ayisebenzi kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa isebenza kubantu abaningi uma ukwenza kube umkhuba.
3. Imbiza Yokufunga
Cishe uke wezwa ngembiza yokufunga ye-ol. Izizukulwane zabantu zikunqandile ukufunga kwazo zisebenzisa imbiza yokufunga.
Kuyinto elula futhi ephumelelayo. Faka idola embizeni njalo uma ufunga. Ngemuva kwesikhathi esinqunyelwe kusengaphambili lapho uye wakubamba ngempumelelo ukufunga, thatha imali embizeni, bese wenza okuthile ukuzivuza ngayo.
Kungani lokhu kusebenza? Ukulula kwendlela elandelwayo ngemuva kwesifungo kufihla ukusebenza…
iqiniso elincane elaziwayo ngami
Ukuthuka okungajwayelekile kuwumkhuba omubi. Futhi imikhuba yizinto esizenza ngaphandle kokucabanga noma ukucabangela ngoba yizinto esizenzayo nje. Ngokuvamile asihlali sicabanga ngemikhuba yethu ngenkathi siyenza. Siyazenza nje.
Imbiza yokufunga iphazamisa leyo nqubo ngokubeka inhlawulo kuwe ngokungacabangi umkhuba wakho nezenzo zakho.
Kunzima kakhulu ukufunga ngokunganaki lapho ucabanga ngenkuthalo ngeqiniso lokuthi uzodinga ukufaka elinye idoli embizeni uma wenza njalo.
Imbiza yokufunga yenza isikhala sokuthi uthathe isinqumo esingcono futhi ukhethe amagama ahlukile ozoziveza kuwo.
Futhi-ke, lapho usuphumelele ukungafungi isikhashana, ungasebenzisa isikhungo semiklomelo sobuchopho ngaleyo mali emnandi, emnandi oyizuzile ngokungathuki.
4. Thola umlingani ophendulayo.
Ukwenza ushintsho kuwe nasempilweni yakho kulula kakhulu uma usebenza kukho nomunye umuntu.
ngabe usangikhohlisa yini
Ngabe ukhona umuntu empilweni yakho ongazimisela ukuba nguzakwethu ophendulayo noma anqande inhlamba yakhe nawe?
Ukuthi omunye umuntu asho lapho ushibilika kungakusiza ukunaka ukunaka kwakho esenzweni somkhuba omubi futhi akuphoqe cabanga ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume esikhathini esizayo.
Ukubambisana nomunye umuntu naye ofuna ukuyeka ukuqalekisa kakhulu kusiza ngendlela emangalisayo. Bazokwabelana ngokukhungatheka okufanayo nokucasula okwenzayo lapho befunga ngephutha.
Lolo hlobo lokuqonda lungakusiza nobabili ukuba nithethelele kakhulu ukushiyeka kwenu futhi nibuyele kukho lapho nithuka ngokunganaki.
5. Faka igama noma wakhe amanye amagama.
Ukushintsha ukuqalekisa ngamagama abanye abangeke bakuthole kucasula umkhuba ongcono onawo.
I-heck, fudge, shoot, ne-darn kungenzeka ingabi nayo i-punch ne-pizzazz efanayo yamagama angempela okuqalekisa, kepha aqinisekisiwe ukuthi angacasuli muntu noma abangele ezinye izinkinga.
Ukusebenzisa lawa magama athambile kungazwakala kuwubuwula ekuqaleni, kepha uzobhekana nobunzima ngomzamo ojwayelekile. Ngemuva kwakho konke, akukuhle neze kunokuvumela igama elithi cuss lishelele phambi komphathi womphathi ngenkathi usemsebenzini.
Futhi ake sithi uwuhlobo lokudala noma lwe-eclectic. Uma kunjalo, ungahle uthande ukuzakhela owakho amagama ozowasebenzisa njengokufaka okunye esikhundleni noma ukwamukela okuthile okuhlekisayo - njengama-shish kebabs esikhundleni se-sh * t noma i-dagnabbit esikhundleni se-damn.
6. Gcina izifungo ngezikhathi ezifanele.
Akudingeki ufunge uqalekise ngokuphelele. Kwesinye isikhathi inhlamba iyafaneleka futhi ilindelekile. Kungakusiza ukuthi uzishaye uma usejimini noma usuzovivinya umzimba.
Mhlawumbe ulimi oluncane oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka luzokusiza ukuxhumana nomuntu onohlobo lobuntu obukhuni. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi alikho nje igama elingcono kune-F-izwi ukuveza ulaka nokukhungatheka kwakho.
Kulungile. Akudingeki ukuthi uphelele noma ungaphinde ufunge. Vele usebenze ekunciphiseni ukuqalekisa okungajwayelekile, futhi uzokwazi ukugwema amaphutha amaningi omphakathi futhi uziveze ngokucacile.
Imikhuba kunzima ukuyiguqula, ngakho-ke ungabi nzima kakhulu kuwe uma ungayitholi ngokushesha. Namathela kukho, futhi ungashintsha lowo mkhuba.
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