Faka isithombe se-psychopath futhi kungenzeka ucabange ngombulali we-serial stereotypical waseHollywood njengoHannibal Lecter noma umlingiswa kaChristian Bale ku-American Psycho.
Kepha ngenkathi kulinganiselwa ukuthi iphesenti elilodwa labantu abadala lingahle lifakwe kwizigaba ze-psychopaths, eziningi ziyasebenza, zivame ukuba ngabantu abaphumelelayo.
Esikhathini esiningi, kungenzeka ube nobunzima bokukhomba eyodwa, kepha uzithole usuphikisana - noma impikiswano ebonakalayo enobungane - futhi kuba sobala kakhulu ukuthi ubhekene nobani.
Nazi izimpawu ezi-8 zokutshela ukuthi uphikisana ne-psychopath.
eyodwa. Ukuqamba Amanga Ngezifo
Lapho impikiswano igxile ezenzakalweni ezedlule nakwizenzo zalo muntu, uzohlangana negagasi lokuqamba amanga, ukuphika, kanye nefantasy engafani nhlobo neqiniso njengoba wazi.
Bazokuphika ukona, basole abanye, bakwenze ube nephutha kumaqiniso, futhi basebenzise zonke izinhlobo zentuthu nezibuko phrojusa eyabo imicimbi .
Noma ngabe unikeza ubufakazi obuphikisayo ukufakazela okunye, bazokuqambela amanye amanga ukukuphazamisa uze ungabe usazethemba ezinkumbulweni zakho.
2. Ukwenqaba Ukuthatha Umthwalo Wemfanelo
Amanga e-psychopath azovame ukusetshenziswa njengendlela yokugwema ukuthatha noma yimuphi umthwalo ngezenzo zabo. Abakwazi ukuvuma lapho benephutha futhi bazovikela ubumsulwa babo kuze kube sekufeni lapho kudingeka khona.
Akukhathalekile ukuthi kungukukhulu kangakanani noma kuncane kangakanani ubuqili, bazokuphika noma yikuphi ukuphendula ngoba kungahle kungcolise umbono omkhulu ababenawo ngabo.
3. Ungalokothi Ukhombe Iphuzu Olenze Kahle
Akukhathalekile ukuthi impikiswano yakho ihleleke kahle kangakanani, noma ukuthi iphuzu licace kangakanani futhi liyiqiniso, i-psychopath ayisoze yavuma ukuthi, nganoma iyiphi indlela encane, ulungile.
Bazokwenqaba ukukunikeza ngisho isenzo esincane kakhulu sokuhalalisela, esikhundleni salokho basebenzise imininingwane engamanga nemininingwane engabalulekile ukudida iphuzu olikhulumile futhi balijikeleze ukuze bakwazi ukugcina umoya wabo wokuphakama.
4.Indlela Esehlisayo Nethoni
Ama-Psychopaths, uma evumelana nawo, akwazi kahle ukugcina ingaphandle lawo elipholile nelilungile. Bangahlala bezolile noma ulahlekelwa ukuzinza, futhi lapho ekugcineni ushaya phezulu futhi usabela ngokucasuka, bazokujivaza ngakho.
Ingxenye yendlela abenza ngayo ifaka ukukuphonsa nokukuhlohla - ukukhuluma ngokufanisa - ukukuphoqa ukuthi uphendule. Bazi kahle ukuthi benzani ukukufaka ekuphenduleni okungokomzwelo kubavumela ukuthi bathole amandla aphezulu.
Okuthunyelwe okuhlobene (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Ulimi Olufihliwe LwamaNarcissist: Baziphatha Kanjani Futhi Bazihlukumeze Izisulu Zabo
- Ungabhekana Kanjani Ne-Narcissist: Ukuphela Kwendlela Okuqinisekisiwe Ukusebenza
- Izindlela Zokubhekana Nesimo Lapho Ushiya Umlingani We-Narcissistic Ngemuva
- Uthando Lokuqhuma Amabhomu: Isibonakaliso Sesexwayiso Sokuqala sokuthi Uthandana Nomuntu OyiNarcissist
- Ukususwa komuntu: Indlela YamaNarcissists Nama-Sociopaths Ukuphatha kabi Abanye
5. Ulimi Lomzimba Ohluke Emazwini Abo
Ukudlulisa isithombe sabo njenganoma yini ngaphandle kwe-psychopathic, kwesinye isikhathi bazozama ukuveza imibono noma imizwa engeyona eyangempela.
Bangaba ngamakhosi ekutholeni lokho okuzwayo, kepha ama-psychopaths alwela ukuhumusha lokhu kube yimizwa yabo abanokuzwelana kwengqondo, kepha hhayi ukuzwelana ngokomzwelo.
umlwi owabulala umndeni wakhe
Umphumela uba ukuthi bavame ukushelela lapho bezama ukudlulisa imizwa ebonakalayo ngokungabikho kwabo. Ulimi lwabo lomzimba luyasho ikakhulukazi, kodwa iphimbo lezwi labo nokubukeka kwamehlo abo nakho kungakhombisa isimo sabo esingaphansi.
6. Ngokushesha Shifting Moods
Ngoba ukubukeka kwabo okupholile nokuzolile kuvame ukuhlelwa njengendlela yokulawula impikiswano, i-psychopath isengozini yezinguquko ezimbi kakhulu futhi ezisheshayo.
Lapho bezwa ukuthi ingaphandle labo elilinganiselayo alisayifezi injongo yalo, futhi ikakhulukazi lapho bebona ukuthi bayaphikiswa, bayoflaya iswishi bese bevula isifufula sokuhlukumeza, inqwaba yokuthopha, umsindo wokugxeka, noma okunye okunye uhlobo lokukhohlisa.
Bangakwazi ukushintshela phakathi kwezimo ezahlukahlukene uze ungabe usabona ukuthi ubani ophikisana naye.
7. Ukuphazamisa Ukuntuleka Kokuzwela
Lapho impikiswano igxile kubantu noma kwezinye izidalwa eziphilayo, ukuma kwe-psychopath kuzovame ukuntula uzwela nganoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Kungenzeka ukhuluma ngokuhlupheka kwabantu emazweni akhungethwe yimpi, izisulu zobugebengu, noma ngamashwa omngani wakho. Bangase basole ngisho nalabo abahlupheka ngenxa yokuhlupheka kwabo, kungakhathalekile ukuthi babenakho yini ukukhetha noma ukusho odabeni.
8. Umbono Ongenangqondo Ngeqiniso
Njengoba uphikisana ne-psychopath, uzothola umqondo wokuthi umbono wabo ngezwe usontekile kangakanani. Imvamisa babona izinto ngokuhluke ngokuphelele kwabanye, futhi lo mbono osontekile weqiniso wenza isisekelo sezimpikiswano zabo.
Abagcini ngokwakha imibono yomhlaba engaziwa ngokwabo bafaka imininingwane esontwe ngokulinganayo ukuqinisa izinkolelo zabo nokuzikholisa ngezintsha.
Imvamisa kuzobonakala njengesimo sokwenqaba futhi kungabonakala njalo phakathi kwabagxeki besimo sezulu, izazi zetulo, namanye amaqembu anjalo.
Vele, uma kwenzeka uzithola uphikisana nomuntu ohlanganisa eziningi zalezi zimfanelo, kunesenzo esisodwa kuphela, esinengqondo: yeka ukukhuluma futhi uzisuse ngokomzimba empikiswaneni. Kungahle kungazizwa kukuhle ukuvuma ngale ndlela, kepha ukuphela kwento ongayikhetha uma ufuna ukugcina ingqondo yakho iphilile.
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