Kusho ukuthini ukuba “ngokoqobo,” ncamashi?
Kuzwakala njengohlobo lwencazelo engaphakanyiswa ubabekazi osekhulile, kanye nokuhleka usulu kokunganaki kulabo abangaweli ngaphansi kwalesambulela esibonwayo.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma othile ebhekwa 'njengongasebenzi,' bavame ukuxoshwa njengabaphuphi abangakhathaleli abangenakubalwa.
Mhlawumbe yingakho ukusebenziseka kaningi kushiwo njengesiqubulo emsebenzini, futhi kuqhakanjiswa ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu.
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Kepha yiziphi izici eziqondile ezichaza umuntu njengolusizo kakhulu?
Futhi kungani lezi zici zibaluleke kangaka kulabo esihlala nabo nesisebenza nabo?
1. Ziyasebenza futhi zihlelekile.
Isici esisodwa somuntu osebenziseka kakhulu ukusebenzisa isikhathi.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu uyakwazi ukuhlela nokuhlola umsebenzi ngokushesha. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngenxa yethalente kanye / noma isipiliyoni, yisebenzise ngokushesha nangokucokeme ngenkathi abanye bethu benyama besacabanga ukukuqala, noma ukumane nje ube nenye inkomishi yekhofi!
Lapho sikwazi ukukhombisa abanye ukuthi sihleleke kahle futhi sisebenza kahle, abasizwa isidingo sokusilawula. Bayazi ukuthi bangasethemba futhi bathembele kithi ukwenza izinto, futhi bangaba nokholo lokuthi sizokwenza umsebenzi omuhle.
Futhi ungathanda yini ube nesisebenzi - noma umuntu othandana naye ngaleyo ndaba - ongathembela kuye? Noma eyodwa okufanele uyiqhube futhi ube ngumzali ukuze wenze noma yini yenziwe kahle?
2. Banokuzazi okuhle.
Ukuhamba impilo ngaphandle kokuqaphela noma ukuqonda kwangempela mayelana nokuthi singobani, nokuthi kungani senza izinto esizenzayo, kungaholela ezimweni ezingajwayelekile nasemaphutheni aphindaphindiwe.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ekuphileni kusithonye kanjani? Kungani senza izindlela ezithile noma siphendula emishweni ethile, ngokuhle noma ngokubi?
Abantu abasebenziseka kakhulu phakathi kwethu bavame ukucacelwa kakhulu ngaphakathi. Lokhu kuvame ukubangelwa ukuchitha isikhathi nemicabango yomuntu siqu, ukuhlola amaphrojekthi wangaphambilini nesimo somuntu siqu ukuze athuthukise umsebenzi wangaphambilini.
Ngamafuphi, kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke ngaphakathi uphinde ubuyekeze ukuthi umuntu angawuthuthukisa kanjani futhi awukhuphule umdlalo wabo kunoma iyiphi inkambu okwenzeka ngayo.
3. Banokugxila okuqinile nokugxila.
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, ukuzazi okuqinile nokucaca kwangaphakathi kuvame ukuhambisana ne-pragmatic kakhulu phakathi kwethu.
Bavame ukuzibandakanya ngokugcwele futhi bacwile kunoma yini ababeka izingqondo zabo kuyo. Lokhu kungaba yiprojekthi enkulu yomsebenzi abayiphethe, noma ukukhuthala nje ekwenzeni imisebenzi yansuku zonke eseduze.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela ukuthi abanye babantu abasebenza kakhulu nabo bathule futhi babekelwe eceleni. Zigxile kakhulu kumaphrojekthi futhi zivame ukungabi nazwi futhi zihlaze noma ziphambukise isihloko uma kukhulunywa ngokuxoxa ngenhlebo noma omunye umdlalo.
Abasizi kangako ezinkulumweni ezincane, bayaziqhenya ngomsebenzi wabo, futhi balk kunoma yini abayithatha njengeyize.
4. Bayaziqhenya ngokufezeka komuntu siqu.
Umuntu osebenzayo uvame ukuthola ukwaneliseka okukhulu kokufeziwe kwabo: uchungechunge lwemisebenzi abakwazile ukuyifeza, imvamisa iba sezingeni eliphakeme.
Bajabulela yonke into enendawo yayo nokufeza izinto ngaphambi - noma okungenani ngo - umnqamulajuqu.
Kukhona uthando lokwakheka nokuhleleka ngenxa yalo, kepha futhi ngoba lubavumela ukuthi bafeze okuningi kakhulu ngesikhathi esifushane.
Ukugxila kwabo imvamisa kungaphakathi futhi kuyabathukuthelisa ukuthi babambezeleke ngabanye ababonakala bengenayo le njongo futhi bancamela ukuxegisa kakhudlwana.
Uma uhlose ukusebenziseka kakhudlwana, qala ngokugxila kokwenzayo. Gcina lokho kugxila, futhi ufunde ukunqamula ngobumnene kodwa ngokuqinile kubantu nezimo ezingakusizi.
Ngokwenza kanjalo, uzothola ukuthi wenza izinto eziningi kakhulu zenziwe, kahle kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili.
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5. Ziyakwazi nezimo futhi nezimo.
Ukuba ngumuntu osebenzayo kuvame ukusho ukuguquguquka kakhulu nokuzivumelanisa nezimo, ekhaya nasendaweni yokusebenza.
Inhloso yabo ukuqedela umsebenzi, ukuhlala ucace futhi uhleleke. Ngenxa yalokhu, bahlela kusengaphambili futhi abavamile ukubanjwa njengoba izimo zingaguquguquki futhi ziguquke.
Baphelelwa yithemba lokungqubuzana kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokwezinto ezibonakalayo futhi baqinisekisiwe ukuthi bazongena ohlakeni lokuhlanza uma bethola insimu entsha noma indawo yokusebenza bengene shi!
Izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lokuvumelana endleleni yabo yokuphila livame ukutholakala.
Abanye abantu abasebenza ngokweqile kunabanye bangakudlula lokhu ngamathalente amaningi ngokweqile emkhakheni abawubonayo. Lokho kusho ukuthi, ngaphakathi bavame ukuba ngaphansi kwengcindezi nengcindezi enkulu kunontanga abasebenza kakhulu.
6. Azihambisani nemikhuba / uhlelo lwawo lomuntu siqu.
Abantu abasebenzayo bachuma ngokungaguquguquki, kungaba ingadi, ukuthuthuka ekuqeqesheni ngokomzimba okufana ne-calisthenics noma ukukhuphuka, ukwenza insimbi, noma ukupheka.
Uma usebenza kahle, noma ngabe usebenzisa liphi ikhono, uzothola ukuthi ukungaguquguquki nokuthula okucacile kokwenzayo kuhlale kunikela ekukhuleni kwakho.
Ukubona abaphathi bobuciko obuthile noma ikhono nokufunda emaphutheni abo kukuvumela ukuthi uthuthukise umsebenzi wakho noma ukuzilibazisa ngokuqhubekayo.
Enye inzuzo endleleni ehamba kancane futhi engaguquguquki ukuthi kunomvuzo omkhulu ngokomzwelo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Isinyathelo ngasinye singaba sincane, kepha siqinile, futhi sizoholela empumelelweni isikhathi esithile. Noma ngabe ubheka abaculi noma ompetha abakhi bomzimba, uzothola ukuthi ufudu luyohlala lushaya unogwaja.
Kodwa-ke, ngisho nangendlela ezinzile nephelele, umuntu kufanele futhi abe nomqondo onengqondo wokuletha ukubonakaliswa, nezinto zokwakha ezilungile.
Ukuthuthukisa ukuvumelana komuntu kuqala ngokwenza uhlu oluthobekile, noma ukugcina iphephabhuku noma ishadi eliqhubekayo ukuze uhlole intuthuko yakho.
Empeleni, ukuhlala unengqondo futhi ugxile ezinhlosweni zakho kuwuphawu olukhulu lokuthi uyasebenza.
7. Bazibekela imigomo efinyelelekayo.
Ekhuluma ngezinhloso, umuntu osebenzayo uzokhetha imigomo efinyeleleka empeleni, hhayi amaphupho amaphupho nje.
Abantu abaningi babambelela emcabangweni wokuthi noma ngubani angazuza noma yini uma nje bebeka izingqondo zabo kukho, kodwa ukuba nezinhloso ezihambisana namakhono namakhono emvelo womuntu kusebenza kakhulu kunamaphupho emini azodinga umzamo ongasile womzamo wokubuyisa okuncane.
Isibonelo, umuntu ongaphansi kuka-160cm ubude ngeke nakanjani akwazi ukufeza umsebenzi omuhle njengomdlali we-basketball. Bangase bakuphuphe lokho, kodwa akuyona inhloso ebonakalayo ongayilwela. Uma befuna umsebenzi wezokusubatha, bangahle baphumelele kuma-gymnastics.
8. Benza izimali ezihlakaniphile.
Umuntu osebenzayo ubhekana namaqiniso futhi ugxile uma kukhulunywa ngempumelelo yabo. Ngokufanayo, abachithi imali ezintweni ezingasebenzeli noma iyiphi injongo.
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Lokho akusho ukuthi banenkinga, kodwa kunalokho ukuthi bazi ukuthi yini okufanelekile ukutshala imali kuyo.
Kungani uthenge izicathulo ezishibhile ezizoguga ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, kunokutshala imali kubhangqa elenziwe kahle elizohlala iminyaka?
Kungani belahla impilo yabo ekudleni okulula okungenamsoco lapho bengachitha okuningi kokudla okusezingeni eliphakeme, okungokwemvelo okuzobagcina beqinile futhi bephilile impilo yabo yonke?
Bayazi ukuthi uma bonga imali empilweni yansuku zonke, bangonga imali yokuya emaholidini amahle kaningana ngonyaka. Bachitha ngokuhlakanipha ukuze bakwazi ukuzitika kokuhlangenwe nakho abangakhohlwa.
9. Banokuziphatha nokukhuthazeka komuntu siqu.
Isiyalo umqondo onzima impela, futhi ovame ukumelelwa kabi.
Empeleni, ukuziphoqa noma ukuziphoqa ukuthi wenze okuthile ongafuni ukukwenza kuyindlela yokuzithokozisa engajabulisi.
Abantu abasebenziseka kakhulu abadingi ukuziphoqa ukuthi bayeke ukuhlehlisa izinto noma ukuziphazamisa emgomweni noma kuphrojekthi.
Bafuna ukwenza lokhu abakwenzayo, noma bathole indlela yokuthola injabulo ezweni elijwayelekile.
Ukugcina indawo ehlanzekile, necocekile akuyona into enzima kangako, ngokwesibonelo, kepha kungukuzivocavoca okuqinisekisayo. Ngokugcina izinto zicocekile, bangathola okuthile ngokushesha. Kuthatha umzamo omncane ukuyilungisa kabusha futhi banesikhathi esithe xaxa sokwenza izinto ezimnandi ezijabulisayo.
Noma, kungabonakala njengesenzo sokuzithiba kwengqondo. Kubalulekile ukwamukela ukuthambekela kwethu kobuntwana, kobusha, nokho hhayi ukubuswa yikho.
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