Ngakho-ke, ufuna ukunikwa amandla. Ufuna ukuthatha ukubusa. Ukhathele ukuzizwa ungenamandla, futhi ukulungele ukuba esihlalweni somshayeli sempilo yakho.
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Kepha awunaso isiqiniseko sokwenza lokho kwenzeke.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, kunjani ukuzizwa ukunikezwa amandla? Wazi kanjani ukuthi unikwe amandla?
Futhi ungazinikeza kanjani amandla, kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yakho?
Qhubeka upheqa umhlahlandlela wokuzinika amandla, noma ngabe zinjani izimo zakho.
Ngabe ukuzuza amandla kuzwakala kanjani?
Ukuzizwa unamandla empeleni kuphambene nokuzizwa ungenamandla.
Uyazi lowo muzwa owesabekayo wokungabi namandla okulawula isimo, ubuke okuthile kwenzeka kungekho ndlela yokukuvimba?
Ukuzizwa unamandla kuphathelene nokwazi ukuthi nguwe olawulayo futhi ushaya isibhamu. Imayelana nokwazi ukuthi uphethe impilo yakho futhi unamandla nokuzethemba okudingayo ukuze wenze izinqumo nezinguquko.
Imayelana nokwazi ukuthi izinto ozenza nsuku zonke zizokusiza ukufeza izinhloso zakho zesikhathi eside, futhi ngokujwayelekile uphila impilo yakho unenjongo, uphephile ngokwazi ukuthi unamandla okushintsha isimo sakho, noma ube nomthelela omuhle emhlabeni wonke wena.
Lokhu akuyona into ozalwa nayo. Impela, abanye abantu bazalwa bezethemba futhi beqiniseka ngokwengeziwe kunabanye.
Kepha kukhona izinto sonke esingazenza ukuzinika amandla uma kwenzeka sizizwa sidangele, singajabule, noma silahlekile, okuyinto sonke esiyenzayo kwesinye isikhathi noma kwesinye.
Uma uzizwa ungaphansi kwamandla okwamanje, bese ufunda amanye amathiphu okuthi ungayibuyisa kanjani i-mojo yakho bese uqala ukukhanya ngokukhazimulayo njengoba kufanele.
Izeluleko Ezingu-16 Zokuzinika Amandla
1. Lalela amathumbu akho.
Abaningi bethu bavale imizwa yethu yemvelo kanye nemizwa yethu bese sizivumela ukuthi siqondiswe amandla angaphandle nabanye abantu esikhundleni salokho.
Ngakho-ke, zama ukuba ngcono ngokulandela umuzwa wakho wemvelo. Thatha izeluleko zabanye abantu, kunjalo, kepha ungavumeli ngokuzenzakalela lokho kweqe lokho okutshelwa yithumbu lakho lapho uzama ukuthatha isinqumo.
2. Zingenele ngokwakho.
Kulo mhlaba omatasatasa, omatasatasa, ukuthatha ngamabomu isikhathi osukwini lwakho ngoba ungaba enye yezinto ezinikeza amandla kakhulu ozenzayo.
Imizuzu nje eyi-10 yokunqamula kusuka kuwo wonke umuntu nakho konke okuzungezile nokungena ukuze ubone ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngempela kungakusiza ukuthi uphile impilo yakho ngenhloso ethe xaxa. Lala phansi, uzindle, noma uthathe uhambo lokuhambahamba.
3. Dala indawo enika amandla.
Kunzima ukuzizwa unamandla uma uzungezwe yimfucumfucu futhi uqhubeka uphazamiseka emsebenzini owuphethe.
Kungumuzwa omangazayo ukususa zonke izinto ongazidingi empilweni yakho, futhi kungenza kube lula kakhulu ukugxila nokwenza okuningi.
4. Yenza izinto ezinhle emphakathini wakho.
Ukwenzela abanye okuhle nganoma iyiphi indlela, ukwakheka, noma ifomu kungaba nomvuzo omangalisayo.
Yenza okuthile okunomusa kothile oseduze kwakho, futhi uzobona amandla onawo okwenza ushintsho oluhle emhlabeni ongavame ukuzizwa ungaphezu kwamandla akho.
Ukwazi ukuthi wenze okuthile okuhle kumuntu esikanye naye usuku ngalunye kungumuzwa omuhle.
5. Yenza okuncane kwakho ngomhlaba.
Uma uzizwa ungenamandla okwenza umehluko kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ezenzekayo emhlabeni, bese wenza okuthile okuhle, noma kukuncane kangakanani, kungakukhumbuza ukuthi sonke sinamandla okwenza umthelela.
Tshala isihlahla, unikele ngesizathu esihle, ukhethe udoti, noma wenze izinqumo ezengeziwe zokulungiselela ezemvelo lapho uthenga.
6. Kepha khumbula ukuthi awukwazi ukusindisa umhlaba ngesandla esisodwa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, khumbula ukuthi wonke umthwalo wokonga umhlaba awuhlali emahlombe akho.
Uma sonke senza okusemandleni ethu singenza umehluko omkhulu, kodwa wena wedwa akudingeki uzizwe unesibopho sokuguqula izinto.
Yazi ukuthi wenza konke okusemandleni akho, futhi usebenzise amathuba okwenza okuhle emkhakheni wakho wethonya, kodwa ungathathi kakhulu, noma leyo mizwa yokungabi namandla izobuyela emuva.
7. Landela.
Uyazi ukuthi yini ngempela engakwenza uzizwe sengathi usesihlalweni somshayeli? Ukwenza isithembiso bese unamathela kuso.
Uma ufuna ukuzizwa unamandla amakhulu, ngakho-ke qaphela kakhulu ngezethembiso ozenzayo bese wenza iphuzu lokuzisebenzisa.
8. Ungesabi ukwehluleka.
Uma ufuna ukuphumelela futhi uphile impilo ngokugcwele, lapho-ke kuzodingeka ukuthi uthathe nobungozi obuthile. Futhi ukuzibeka engcupheni kusho ukuthi kuhlale kunengozi yokwehluleka.
Ukwehluleka kuhlala kusifundisa izifundo ezibalulekile futhi, njengoba kusho isisho, akukho lutho olwenziwayo oluchaza ukuthi akukho esikutholile.
9. Ungesabi ukucela usizo.
Ingxenye enkulu yokuzizwa unamandla ukukwazi ukubona ubuthakathaka bakho ngaphandle kokuba namahloni ngabo. Akekho ongazi konke, ngakho-ke ngeke uhlale unamakhono owadingayo.
Ukwazi isikhathi sokucela usizo kukunika amandla amakhulu. Kusho ukuthi ungafunda kwabanye kuzoba nekhono noma isipiliyoni esithe xaxa futhi ube nolwazi olwengeziwe ngenxa yalokho.
10. Yiba sengozini.
Uma uhlale uqaphile, kusho ukuthi uyazivikela kokubi, kodwa futhi ulahlekelwa yizo zonke izinto ezinhle ezingenzeka uma unokuzethemba ukuzibeka lapho.
Ukuba sengozini kuyingozi, kepha kungaholela kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle nezifundo.
11. Veza imizwa yakho.
Ukunika amandla amandla ikakhulu kumayelana nokukwazi ukuveza imicabango nemizwa yakho, ngokuqephuza, ngokungaxolisi nangokuhlonipha.
Indlela enhle yokwenza ngcono kulokho ukuzibonakalisa ngobuciko.
Lokho kungahle kube ngobuciko, ukubhala, ukudansa, noma ukuthi ngubani owaziyo okunye. Kwenze kube yinto oyithandayo, ofuna ukuyenza nongayenza njalo, ngakho-ke uhlala unayo leyo ndawo.
12. Ungalokothi uzizwe unesibopho senjabulo yomunye umuntu.
Uma uzizwa sengathi injabulo yomunye umuntu kungumthwalo wakho ngokuphelele, nakanjani uzogcina uzizwa ungenamandla lapho ungakwazi ukumphakamisa noma ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwenza izinto zibe ngcono.
Awubophezelekile enjabulweni yomuntu kodwa eyakho. Ungaba neqhaza ekujabuliseni kothile, kepha bangumuntu wabo uqobo futhi akufanele neze bancike kuwe ngokuphelele.
13. Phila okwamanje.
Awukwazi ukuguqula okwedlule noma ukubikezela ikusasa, ngakho-ke uma wenza noma yini kodwa ugxile kumzuzu wamanje lapho-ke uzovele uzizwe ukhungathekile.
Ongakwenza, noma kunjalo, kuthonya okwamanje, futhi uhlala wenza izinqumo ezincane, ezinhle ezizokwenza umehluko kuwe nakwalabo abaseduze kwakho.
Funda kokudlule futhi uphuphe ngekusasa, kepha ungagxili kukho. Gxila ekutheni ungazenza kanjani izinto ezinhle kakhulu lapha, khona manje.
14. Yidla kahle futhi unyakazise umzimba wakho.
Unamandla okwenza izinqumo nsuku zonke ezizokhulisa impilo yakho. Thatha ukulawula kokudla kwakho kanye nombuso wakho wokuzivocavoca umzimba.
Qiniseka ukuthi awudluli ukunambitheka ekudleni kwakho, ukuze ungazizwa sengathi uyaphuthelwa. Futhi khetha uhlobo lokuzivocavoca oluthandayo noluzolwenza ngenjabulo, ngakho mancane amathuba okuthi wenze izaba noma uyeke.
Ukunqoba izifiso zakho noma isicefe sakho nokwenza izinqumo ezinempilo kungenye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuthonya impilo yakho futhi uzizwe ungcono nxazonke.
Kepha ungazishayi wena uma unezinsuku ezingaphansi kwempilo, noma. Ukuzitika okuncane kaningi kungaba amandla.
Zibekele imigomo ongayifinyelela.
Yenza uhlu lwezinto ezinengqondo, ezifinyelelekayo ongazizuza nsuku zonke, isonto, inyanga nonyaka.
Empeleni ukukwazi ukuphawula izinto kulezi zinhlu nokwenza izinto kuzokukhumbuza ukuthi unekhono elingakanani.
16. Zithobe ngokwakho.
Okokugcina kodwa nakanjani impela, ziveze ukuthi ufanele isikhathi, amandla, noma imali ohileleke ukuzitotosa ngayo.
Zinike ukubhucungwa noma ubhucabhuce, ube nosuku lwe-spa noma uthathe ibhafu ende, ephumuzayo. Zithokozise ngempepho nemaski yobuso…
Noma ngabe yini, zinike isikhathi sokuzitotosa futhi uhlole ngomzimba wakho.
Sonke sifundisiwe ukuthi sibheke ukungapheleli emizimbeni yethu futhi sixolise ngakho, kepha ukutotosa umzimba wakho kukusiza ufunde ukuthanda isikhumba okuso.
Futhi akukho okunye okunika amandla okudlula lokho.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungazinika amandla kanjani? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakwazi ukukuhambisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhumana nenye.
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